yep skip.. I imagine that many have the same reasoning for not sharing the information... and like I said.. if discovering this place AFTER the relationship has been established I imagine it would be very tough to share "Hey honey, I was horny today and during my search for stimulation on the net I came across this wonderful place. Come Look". I imagine that many significant others wouldn't be too comfortable with that.

However, I have to wonder... for those of you who don't share the info... is that okay? I mean... are you not giving your partner enough credit? They love you... right? They already (should) know what stimulates you and turns you on... and if that is the case.... do you really think they would be surprised that you enjoy this place? Is it that you are afraid of being forced to give this wonderful place up? Or just being ridiculed for your choice of stimulation.

Just being devils advocate here.... Maybe I am naive... maybe I still have the illusion that love means sharing those things that you enjoy... I just can't imagine not sharing this and similar things with a partner...

My last relationship started online.... he read one of my stories on a site and e-mailed me... so he knew up front the sexual being that I was and understood that I enjoyed places like this where I could express and explore my deepest sexual desires. Granted, it was unique in that he knew going in to the relationship... and often relationships don't start that way.

I am wishful (or stupid) enough to believe that in my next relationship... if he doesn't trust me enough to know that what I do here is harmless... if he isn't smart enough to know that this place helps to educate me and explore my deepest desires... if I don't love him enough to be honest with him and share it with him... then maybe I shouldn't be wasting my time with him to begin with. (Keep in mind that the reason I personally feel this way is because I lived in a completely sexless and loveless marriage and swore to myself that I would rather be lonely alone than lonely with someone else). I am in no way condeming anyones decision not to tell their significant other... I do understand why in some relationships that would be difficult and could result in damage.

Thus explains why I am alone... LOLOLOL Please remember I am acting as devils advocate here... LOL