Boru...

I imagine that many do not know... and probably for good reason... many may fear having to choose between the two... and naturally the partner would win out... and then others may not tell out of fear of being ridiculed...

When I find myself in a relationship again... my partner will not be at all surprised to find that I come here (and to similar things)... if I am not comfortable sharing that part of myself with him I don't think he will be worth my time. Altho I can see how if finding this place after being in a relationship for any period of time it might be difficult to introduce them to the idea....