Too old, am I?
 

so..

I'm like 27 (and a half), not married, not involved, not bad-looking, not bad.

And everywhere I turn on Pixies I find people younger than me, happily married, some even with kids!

Is life passing me by, or what? :(:confused:

Don´t hurry, it is more important to do a good choice than being married soon. I am talking out of experience :(.

Being single definitely has its strong points- think about it- at this point, your decisions affect only you. Those in committed relationships/marriages/etc don't have that luxury. Have fun with it and sooner or later you'll find someone who shares your interests, your values, and most importantly your love- don't rush or settle and you'll be much happier in the long run.

Thanks for the kind words, guys.
I'm not in a rush, really, just feel like a minority here!

hey dannyk, forget some of us 'older' people who are also happily in relationships, grown up kids and still having fun. I know it's been said before, but its true, 'Your only as old as you feel'. Enjoy what you have and don't worry too much. :)

erotic51 - i'm only as old as i feel, huh? wish i could feel an eighteen year old, preferable blonde, blue eyes, great tits....

dannyk -

I know what you mean.

I'm the only single person in my whole group of friends and I have yet to meet a single guy my age in a fifty mile radius of me!

Ironically, I know lots of single people in their 40s and 50s and I guess they're the ones who were married by the time they were my age and have since realised they missed out on their youth, got divorced and are trying to reclaim it.

See now, where does all this cynicism come from in one so young?!?!!!!! Lol.

Well dannyk

I am 49.........was married for 20 years....lived with a guy for 7
and I have been "single" for 3

I love being single in many ways.
Enjoy it while you can and don't worry about others.
Believe me once your married for about 10 years there will come a time....maybe if your lucky for only a fleeting moment....that you will wish for the single life again!!!

I agree;very strongly;with erotic51!There are many pros&cons in
life.How you handle them;makes you what you are.It also gives you the outlook of what is important. Irish
P.S.There is some truth to the saying that:Whatever doesn't kill
you;makes you stronger!
PPS."Better to be dead and cool;then alive and uncool!"
My wife hates it when I say that!!

Well i'm 42,never married don't find the point in a peice of paper.I have 2 children my daughter will be 20 in Feb,my son is 11.My daughter's father was a biker who died before i knew i was preg
he was just a buddy but he was one hell of a guy.My son's dad well poor choice on my part...ya live and learn.Don't just feel like you have to be with someone for fear of being alone,that was my 2nd mistake.Being alone can suck...but being put through hell is much worse....i do have a hunny now and we have our moments but today its okay :)

Danny Im 36 and in the same boat. I just gotta keep myself happy and see what comes along. So you are not alone and you are a long way from where I am. I look at it this way,I could be divorced twice by now.

My girlfriend is 29, newly turned lesbian, pagan, as for me.... I'm 19, naturally blonde(I dye red) and I have nice tits, too bad you and I look for the same thing :)

Kyttn, are you teasing dannyk?

I have friends who married early and regretted it early, and a range

of options after. I was an early married and have been separated

for 11 years. My g/f and I have been together for 4 yrs.

Live your life and let the romance take care of itself. It'll happen

probably after a few more false starts, but however, I hate the quote, but

"Carpe Diem"

'Carpe Diem', Oldfart? What does 'dead fish' have to do with anything? :p

I know, just live my life and don't worry about a s/o, just have fun. It's just weird, though, I have a lot of great female friends (supposedly I'm a flirt and ladies man), who all say that I'm a really great guy and any girl would be lucky to have me! Yet none of these friends would even consider it! Go figure! :D

dannyk -

I have the exact same problem. I am considered the 'sex-siren' of my group of friends. I get on with the women and the men all drool over me (if somewhat jokingly) and then they fuck off back to their girlfriends/wives!!!

I'm surrounded by men who'd 'love to' but none of them 'can'. Either we're separated by distance, or they are attached to someone else. I'm starting to think that they are just being nice and don't really mean it.