do men tell?
 

I am curious if men tell their friends about their sex lives. My guy gets a little upset when I discuss our adventures. I don't go into any great details, just what seems to be normal chit chat. I've noticed that women are very open to talk about sex. He says about the only time sex is mentioned is when no one's getting any. So how bout some input guys?

From my experience, most guys tend to be pretty vague in discussing their sex lives ... like how much they enjoy or maybe some bragging ... but seldom very specific about who or what. Also, maybe, when they're not getting any.

Except, of course, at Pixies :D

I have never talked with other guys about my sex life (well except for college but those were more bragging stories not discussions) but I have used to have a fuck-friend and we talked frankly with each other about every little sexual or non sexual thing.

There was a Friends episode that was just like this.
Rachel asked Ross if he talked to his friends about sex and he said, like STO did above, in very general or vague terms.
She asked him why and he said that guys don't want to tell other guys what they do with their S/O. That is true. If it were a one night stand, perhaps, but I'm not going to tell my best friend how tasty my wife's pussy is.

CK

In all of these years(I have been having sexual relations;since 15;
I am 58 now.)I have NEVER told anyone;about sexual relations;
with another.I have seen;too many;reputations ruined;and other
relationships ruined;by people with BIG mouths;bragging.Other
people don't know;what really happened and if you respect;the
other party;you keep your mouth shut!Sorry;if I went on so long;
but that's something I feel very strongly about! Irish
P.S.As I have said:Sex is like business;A satisfied customer;is a
repeat customer!

not an easy question
first i have in vage turmes with my hetro mates
like wheres the weirdes plase youve done it and
sutch.
but with my gay mates more like what i did how
good,size and who did what. i see why women
love to talk about it of course mt gay freinds
only like to here about when iam with a guy
and not a woman thats when i talk to jane

YES! Sex is a very open topic between me and my buddies :p

*Clint

Almost never talking about the sexual details of my partner. If I am talking about private sex things, it is about what I prefer or what happened to me.
Private is private.

Only in general terms no specifics of who when and where and what we did.
I did a little boasting once as a young man, and it came back and caused a lot of trouble and ruined a relationship.

Strangely enough i talk quite openly about my sexuality here but mainly with female friends who i have come to know and trust but still not any pertsons name.

I doubt if I will change in that way seeing I am now nearly 50

I do not speak about it... looks like I'm in some good company! ;)

My SO and I have friends a couple who swing... When we get together with them she and I always go off and she tells me allllllll the yummy details and the guys do not discuss it at all. Later in the car on the ride home I tell him everything... funny he loves hearing about it but does not want to talk about it with his buddy. Guys really may be wired differently I suppose...:p

:D :D Gee, Lilith, now that you know we guys don't tell ... you could share all these details with us! :D :D

i agree with most on this one.Sex talk is very limited among us guys.Maybe a,was she good,or something like that and thats about it.

This reminds me of the old line, "Men talk to women; women talk to their girlfriends."
One of the great things about Pixies is hearing details from men-not who (names), but what (specifics).

no....women do it for them.....the wife/girlfriend tells her friends, who tell their friends, who tell the wife/girlfriend of the mate.....