sexual advice
 

Hi I'm new. Could anyone tell me if it is possible like I've heard to make a man orgasm with out actually coming, and how I can go about doing this

Okay, this is what works for me.....I've found that if I clench my ass cheeks togather while I'm orgasaming, that I can control my cum flow. Does this work for any of you other guys out there or is it just me :)

nope, just you.

Welcome mrsfingers! Glad to have you with us. Take off your clothes and stay awhile :D :D

Never experienced orgasm without coming. It may be possible, but why would you want that??

Welcome Mrsfingers.

Search for the keywords "male multiple orgasm". There you can find more hints.
I think it is possible in theory but difficult in the real life. The trick in my mind is to stop stimulating in the right moment. But a partner cannot recognize the exact moment to stop, and only one stroke more or less can decide it completely.

LOL......I guess it's just me then. Oh well, works for me ;)

Below a guy's dick but before the ass is the muscle that controls orgasm.

As he's about to cum push it in pretty hard (you should easily be able to tell how hard is necessary, it's really not that hard at all). He'll orgasm but no cum will come out. Then if you continue sexual pleasure he will be able to not get soft before getting hard again.

When you do this however, all the chemical reactions that result from sex do happen so fatigue may set in (as that is all related to the brain). But if you're pleasing him sexually I highly doubt this will matter!

look up Tantric Sex, the site is www.tantra.org