turn ons
 

What is the big to do with guys that go to sex sites then approach a lady and think they want the same things done to them?:confused:

Communication
 

I think the one and only way to have great sex is to communicate with your partner - talk to each other - ask loads of questions. That way you'll both get to know what each other likes and how to turn each other on.

Coz we're all different and all like different things - believe it or not I even once met a guy who didn't like blow jobs! I know! It wasn't the only weird thing about him when I think back on it :rolleyes:

enough about my bad taste....

Turn ons
 

Hi Cockalot,

I can only speak for myself and not the entire male population, but the reason I try things I've seen on the net is because I've never seen so many different things and I would really like to try some of them. I don't like weird painfull stuff or certain fetishes, but other than that I'm open to almost anything.

Makes me wonder though..... where do we draw the line, or is it more of mood thing that determins how far we will or wont go:confused:

Why try new things?
 

The reason for me to try things I see on the internet, porn movies, mags, or even at the city park is just to keep life interesting. I can't stand repitition. If sex were every night at 9:00, missionary position, lights off. We would have stopped having sex years ago. For me this is not just sex it is all aspects of my life work, play, education. I need variety to keep it fun.

*Bump*

The poll has been closed, but it is an interesting question. For me, at least, I think more intimacy with my wife is what I would hope for the most ... more also means improving. I love her and we enjoy our intimate times but I wish we could spend more time enjoying our togetherness.