Top turn ons for women
 

Hi just wondering what are the biggest turn ons for women, in a situation where you just meet someone.

genuine smile

polite to others

a bit chivalrous

Which raises the age old question why do women always seem attracted to the biggest asshole in the room? They all SAY stuff like this but most end up dating, fucking, and/or marrying the biggest asshole loser they can grab ahold of.

Which raises the age old question why do men always seem attracted to the biggest bubble head in the room? Some complain like this but most end up dating, fucking, and/or marrying the biggest bubble head they can grab ahold of.

Goes both ways.


The question was what are the biggest turn ons for women, in a situation where you just meet someone.

I don't like whiners and complainers so I would add a positive outlook,

confidence

and being comfortable in his own skin.

All of the things I have mentioned come off pretty quickly. The signs of most of those traits show almost with out him saying a word.

I understand your point completely and I didn't mean to come across as if I were coming down on your answer. It really is a seperate topic that has probably been beaten to death on other threads, why do women go for the bad boys.

My guess is because they think they deserve to be treated like shit. I think you attract a reflection of your opinion of your self-worth. Unfortunately it's often a distorted image.

I'm with Lilith on this, personally I have an arsehole radar and have never been attracted to men who treat me like shit.

I genuinely do go for the shy guy in the room, but since I think attraction is different from turn ons, I'll address the question of what turns me on separately:

I like to be treated a bit wildly in the bedroom (or whichever room I happen to be getting dirty in)....I like it to be unpredictable and like my boundaries to be pushed - a little bit of role play and a little bit of use and abuse can be fun. The hard part is finding a man who respects me at all times, but who can still treat me like a whore in the bedroom from time to time. What happens in our sex life, stays in our sex life and I think the fact that I enjoy porn-star type sex with my man means he should think I'm even more wonderful and worthy of his adulation outside of the sexual context.

The old adage about being a 'lady in the parlour, angel in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom' is true for a lot of women like me, but the mistake men make is thinking that only one of those sides to my personality is the 'real me' and the other sides are just an act, when it's simply not true - they are all me. I don't pretend to have good manners be well educated and easily offended by crass behaviour, I really am all of those things but that doesn't mean I don't have a wild sexual side that needs fulfilment too. I think with a lot of women out there, men have finally got the kind of women they want but they don't know how to treat what seems to them to be this strange hybrid of the 'two kind of girls' their mother told them about.

Ummmm Lou............ I am married but can you be my 2nd wife?????? :loveshowe

Manners. Not a show or a put on or a i'm-just-trying-to-impress-you gimmick, but real, honest manners.