After sex moods
 

I guess I found myself asking this question after replying to another post.

After sex or the next day, my s/o is alway's moody and grouchy is this normal does this mean that he doesn't enjoy sex as much as I do.
Some help would be appreciated on this top thanx all

Interesting question - perhaps some concentrated research into the subject is needed......I am willing to become a research subject if anyone cares to join me :D

so what type of research do you recommend

What to do here......Let's see............... Oh yeah that's right, just some questions that you may want to think about.

Are you verbal during sex? Do you rock his world in the sack? A good thing to try is to take his hand and lead him into the bedroom and undress him without saying a word and see what happens.....who knows you may get some surprises.......lol!!!!

Well, where do I start with this comment that you wrote Mark.
1st of all I am not very verbal, he wants me to be but I am not and have never been like that, it is just awkard for me, I don't know why but it just is.

Well, I musn't " rock his world " as you put it as he alway's complains about sex afterwards aswell.

You see my s/o has a son who is 7, and we normally take him into mine and his bedroom and tickle him, so when I have tried in the past to do as you suggested he think I am taking him in there to tickle him, but that is far from the case. There is also the fact that he is on the PS2 most of the night till 3-4 and even 5am and by the time he get's around to comming to bed I am not in the mood for sex anymore.

Getting onto what you have said about trying new things with him, I have in the past and he has given me funny looks, and said to me what are you doing? He has made me feel really uncomfortable and reluctant to try new things because of his attitude when I have done so before.

So do you think that you can still help me on this one MARK ?????????????????????????????????????????????????? ???????????????????

What kind of things does he say when he's complaining about sex looloo? If he's giving you constructive criticism then you need to listen to it.....I can't possibly imagine what it is that he says.

As for staying up until the wee small hours and then coming to bed and wanting sex....that's just not on. I'd never ever ever ever put up with being treated like that. If he wants sex on demand without any effort, I'd be advising him to go visit the local hooker and then not to bother coming back!

I'd also point out to him that he's always in a bad mood after sex, and tell him for that reason it's not on the menu anymore.

Can't believe you'd let anyone treat you that way looloo....you deserve so much better.

Get him a sex game for his PS2...seeing as how that's where his priorities seem to be.

My 1st thought at the beginning was maybe he's just a typical guy that wants to sleep as soon as the sex is over (not my own preference, mind you, but common enough), & maybe he's just cranky till he gets his nap...then I read on, & the fact that he's hooked on PS2 till the wee hours throws a whole 'nother spin on this...either he's playing the games to avoid sex, or maybe...& this is just a maybe...the PS2 is like a drug addiction, & he's playing because he likes the escape from reality...neither of which bodes well for the relationship...

well lets see-

I have a PS2...if I can only get the kids away from it. But wait school will be starting soon....7 hrs uninterupted study time :D .

and 3 days off...think you can get here for at least 2 of them? :p

Will do my best ^^ :cool:

Well come on with it ..... I'm waiting...

Well I totally know about the complaining part. When i was having sex with my ex it was horrible. I mean so bad that after 5 minutes you are looking for an excuse to get out of the situeation. I mean i wouldnt believe it but a bj can make you loose your hard on. I did complain that she made no effort (laid there and did nothing) and she never listened. The play station thing is just wierd though. If i had a gf or wife that was willing to do it every night hell with the computer and video games. I would be up till 5 am but not on the computer but rather on her lol. ;)

So what exactly was so bad about the way she gave blow jobs, rzande1? What was wrong with her technique?

Well first of all you arent supossed to bite down (ouch). Second of all she never really got the idea that you dont just hold it in your mouth doing nothing at all.

But you see in this instance, I don't give head and refuse to as he knows that.
In sex letely I have been the one to initate the moment not him, he still does but not like me. I am not sure if I meantioned it he also complains that I am an not noisy enough, and that I am too quiet, but that is just the way i am am.
LOL I know he should be up till 5am with me not with them..... LOL