Sex wed for the first time(questions)
 

Well, this wednesday a friend of mine(girl) and myself are going to have sex. I mean the WHOLE 9 yards, oral, anal, everything. I never had oral, kissed a girl, nothing. I am a very attractive person but am very conscience of my penis size. I am a whole 5 1/4 inches and that is something that has held me back from sex to be honest. All of these girls that i talk to say they have never had anyone 6 inches or shorter and I am feel like shit when I hear that. Am I really THAT short?

Any tips for the first time on all of this? She is a very horny girl so she is up for everything so I figured I would just do it all, lol. She is on the shot to and no STDS so ya think I should just go without a condom?

Wear a condom. The shot is not 100%.

A lot of women like a bigger penis... but I have heard a lot more say that there is more to a good lover than his size.

Just go with it and have fun.

Well, am I considered small though?

On average, I don't believe so. It mainly depends on your partner. Some women are smaller than others when it comes to penetration, while others can handle a big penis easily. Try not to worry about yourself compared to the rest of the male population... focus on the experience you will have with this partner.

Oh I know but I really just wanted to know where I stand in size in comparison to the male population.

Also I wanted some first time tips.

Q. What do you think is the length of the average man's erect penis?
A. 5-7 inches


The Kinsey Institute New Report on Sex (St. Martin's Press, 1990), p. 18.



Not very informative, huh?

But the follow up their answer with "The vast majority of men measure within the average genital size range and have a penis size that is more than adequate for sexual functioning. In general, at erection smaller flaccid pensises lengthen by a greater percentage than do larger flaccid penises." For what it's worth.

Like Aqua said...don't worry about where you stand in comparison to the rest of the male population, enjoy the experience with her.

hell hun it dont matter!!! and, for anal , the smaller the better (IMHO i know its not the 100% rule there but it feels better for ME not to have something HUGE inthere) have fun and no hun ur not small, small was a guy that i was with back a few (6 i think) years ago, he was 2 maybey 2 and a half hard. didnt stop him and i from havin a good time!!!

~nikki

dude,

just have fun - don't worry - you are around average, and to be honest it is what you do with the girl that counts.

my advice, take your time, enjoy a lot of foreplay, get both of you warmed up and excited!!! enjoy it.

a good way to start is to give each other full body massage, and then explore each others bodies - with both fingers, lips and tongues - spend as long as you possibly can doing this, this will relax you both, and get you both hot for whats to come.

i would say wear a condom, better safe than sorry :)

Wear a condom, wear a condom, wear a condom. If you have to ask, for any reason, wear the condom.

I can understand your concern, definitely, I've had the same concern (to a lesser degree than I once did, though I've still not done it yet :( ) and from what I've heard (and I have discussed this at length, if you'll pardon the pun), 5 1/4" should not cause you embarrassment and if you pay sufficient effort and attention to her pleasure you should be fine :) You shouldn't discount the possibility that your female friends are exaggerating their partner's sizes, I have heard it alluded to that because the "bigger is better" philosophy is so ingrained in some women that they will attribute a skilled partner more size because he felt so good and therefore, must be big. Or I could just be bullshitting, but I think it's worth considering. Either way, try to relax and have fun :) Easy to say I know, but that's probably the best thing to do.

According to most statistics I've seen, you would be in the average range.

Well you guys are really making this easier on me for sure, thanks. :)

The condom bit, I would LOVE not to wear one. She is on the shot and she said she has been tested(does that happen when she goes for the shot?) I feel pretty good about it.

Nothing kills the mood like a crying baby.

LMAO SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO TRU


~Nikki

1 in 4 college students have V.D. The shot prevents only babies not death or disease.

Read Ginger's advice I just quoted and take it as a commandment. I think you only feel pretty good about it because YOU don't want to wear one.

Ask yourself two questions...

Do you want a baby?

Do you want an STD?

If the answer is Yes or I Don't Care to either of those then by all means, forget the condom.

If the answer is No, which I would hope is the case, then you need to put a condom on. In your quote above is the key phrase "she said". Just because she said it happened does not mean it did, or that the test results were clean. I am not saying she is lying to you, but I am saying you don't know that she isn't. Some people are to embarrased to admit they have an STD. There are also women that will lie about being on birth control. Again, I am not saying this girl is like that, but unless you were with her in the Dr's office, you don't know.

And I stress once more... even if you did know, for a fact, she had the shot and is STD free... the shot is not 100% effective. No method of birth control is... wear the condom and take the precaution.

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