I HATE being a WOMAN. I want to be a MAN
 

I am so weak, I must admit it.

my heart is so weak, I am so easy to breaking down. SO weak :cry: :( :(

when something a little bit that goes wrong, then I am out of control, I can't control my tears, my tears just automatic comes down my face. I hate it, i hate it so much.

Sometimes i just cry for a very little thing that goes wrong. My man always say I am so weird, Why I waste my tears for this type of tinny thing. I said, I really don't know. I don't want to cry, but my tears just came down.

Why am I so weak? am I the weakest girl in here>?

But when a big issue goes wrong, I can hold my tear for may be 24 hours or less, after that I just sit in a corner and cry and cry until my heart feel good then i stop. for the big issue if i cry, I guess is ok, but i ussually don't cry at that moment, I cry after that. BUt for small issue I don't know why I cry immediately for no reason.

Am I weird or because I have a very strong emotional feeling toward anything in life? :rolleyes:

so weird sometimes when i got upset of something, my tears runs down, when i get exciting of something, my tears run down, when I got any emotional thing going on, then my tears always run down.

I think being a man can be much stronger than a woman, being a woman is toooooooooo weak. I hate being a woman, i want to be a man. I think I want a Man's heart! i want to exchange heart!


Can I do that>?


saigonbe

CP, we men want you to stay a woman, because you're so sexy you cheer up our lives! We love you!

You sound perfect to me. It’ is good that you fall apart about little things that do not need real attention. When something important happens, I want somebody that can deal with it and THEN reflect on feelings after.

Just because I don't cry, doesn't mean I don't care. Things worry me too. Is it better to let it out or to hold it in? We'll know at the end, right?

Being emotional does not equal being weak. I also agree, it is good you can maintain your composure during big issues, and reflect on them later. That is a good trait. Face your issues, don't think becoming someone else will fix it.

I love sensitive women. It's not a form of weakness, it's a way of dealing with things. Sometimes I wish I could cry, it helps relieve the pressures of life.

A friend of mine once told me a trick she uses not to cry sometimes. She said she thinks about something very arbitary, like the dust on a TV screen, and it keeps her from breaking down when she's watching a sad or emotional show.

:)

Oh hon. You feel things deeply, that's not a bad thing. Sure, it means you cry more easily than some people...but I bet it also means you take more joy in the good things in life. It's all part of who you are...don't hate it. Accept it, and see how it makes you stronger. My grandmother (you folks are seriously gonna get tired of my family's sayings, I know) says people who don't bend will break. Those who don't let their emotions out, store them up until they're overloaded. It's good that you can let it out.

Don't let anyone ever tell you otherwise.

yes i understand it is good to let it out before you have a heart attact

but sometimes i think i am silly that is all. just cry for silly issue


thanks guys

CP~ I am extremely sensitive emotionally too. Is one of the things I love and hate about being online. No one has to know if you are crying your eyeballs out:p

It's called hormones dear. (((hugs)))

..and you can take THAT to the bank!;)

I don't think of showing emotions as a sign of weakness. Sometimes I think men suffer because they have such a hard time showing their feelings in public.

You're great, CP, just the way you are.

worthy of tears

You have a most fortunate heart and are not afraid to show the feelings that reside within. Those close to you ought but count themselves fortunate to know you.
As much as this sounds strange but:

The lack of showing tears or the inability to cry is not a sign of strength. I have not since I was 14 been able to do so and now am 37. Having seen the face of war and all its misery, death and destruction, attending the funerals of close family and friends, and dealing with all the stresses of life, I can not weep or show my tears of my soul's sarrow. It is not something that marks me as being strong. And yet though I know it in my mind that this is wrong, my pride stands as a barrier.

Count as a blessing that you have the courage to show your feelings. And if there is anyone that would dare to ridicule you for it, they would be among the ignorant not worthy of your tears

CP -- I know exactly what you mean, and I do that too.

Especially for little frustrating things that are stupid -- like my math homework!! I start crying and thinking at the same time, "Why am I crying?? THis is nothing!" so I just have to keep doing whatever I'm doing and get it fixed so I can wipe the tears away and get going.

It definitely depends a lot on hormones too -- the week or so before my period even sitcoms make me cry.

Unfortunately, it's just the way life works sometimes. *hugs* But it doesn't mean you're weak! And you are not the only who does that!