Candid Friends
 

Who out there has friends that they can talk openly...somewhat about sex? I mean not serious specifics, but just friends that you can joke with about your sex drive? I have one friend that I can be open with, but we don't really discuss whether we each masterbate or anything like that, but we do talk about surfing the web and stuff. She does like that, but otherwise doesn't seem as sexually driven. Seems women are more shy about their sexuality and it's hard for them to admit to each other they really enjoy sex. Like I joke about finding other women sexy because I do and most of my friends are like yuck. What's wrong with appreciate a gorgeous person, I'm happily married and find men very sexy too. I hate that you're looked at like there's something wrong with you when you even imply as a women that you think sex is fun and that you are fired up about it. Men can do this all day long and that's just considered normal. I hate this! Just wondering how many of you hang with a different crowd that's just more open about sex. My group is pretty straight laced...or so I think and so they act when I make comments. Maybe they're no different than me, just have a hard time admitting it even when I am. Don't know.

I have a females friend with whom i can be quite open with. Quite nice. I'd like to do more than just talk about it with her but ah well...

I believe that some woman are more in the mind set that sex is not something to really talk about or perhaps feel it is a more private matter. Many that I have known try to hold back on their discussions about sex or even expressing any sort of opinion about it... in a good way. However, I have known many women who complain about how their husbands want it all the time and how they don't like it. I just shake my head in my mind and think.. boy, you don't know what you are missing.....

Sometimes, just for the heck of it, I will say something about sex, or what I did last night, just for the shocked look on their faces... hehehehe. One time comes to mind.... I asked if she could smell something different about me.... she replied no and asked why? I said that hubby and I has sex before work and I didn't have time to shower... wondered if she could smell it.. lol

She didn't talk to me for the rest of the day.. LOL LOL LOL

lmao@ Cheyanne...gonna use that on peeps I don't like :p

No I really don't, wished I did have a friend that I could talk to about most anything, but unfortinatly I don't. Oh well life goes on.

well my best friend (suppose you could call it that) and i talk about it all the time.. she asks qs about men and i asks qs about women.

I have one very close friend that I have shared all kinds of thoughts with over the 20 years we've known each other, and we've never discussed sex more than we do now. Hardly any topic has been left untouched.

I used to have someone who I could talk about pretty much anything specific, but this was back in college and I cut my ties with her. I can talk about sex with my friends but only to a certain extent, not quite like with my friend from college.

Yes, I have one close female friend with whom I can discuss any and all aspects of my sexual life and hers, including masturbation and use of toys. I am ALMOST as open with one other close female friend; the only thing about me she doesn't know is that I'm bi. Otherwise, no topic is off limits. I also have a few close male friends, gay and straight, with whom I discuss any aspect of my sex life. With any of them, however, the discussions are never in the vain of locker room type of talk (bragging or talking about how good or bad a lover was), and I don't talk specifically about what I and someone else did or have done. Unless I know such info. would be OK with my lover to share with others, I try to respect my lovers' privacy.

I am pretty open about my sexuality..what I like...what i don't...what I do. What i have found is that becuase I am open, and accepting...the women around me start to be. My coworkers, my girlfirends, we can all get pretty raunchy. Occasionally I shock or "disgust" someone with my openness, but i don't let it bother me. I realize its more about them than me. Girls_rule, my advice would be the same. Be who you are, express who you are..and don't let other's judgements inhibit you.