Control
 

Everyone used to talk about being in control of your life your work your realtionships etc.

Do we still want to be in control?

I do to a certian point but if we all worry to much about contolling our lives and such then we'll just stress ourselves out, we all control certain parts of our lives but the rest is up to fate or whatever you want to call it. _Thats just my thoughts though

to a certain extent yes~~~~~but when having to be in control is a major part of your life, having someone to share it with is so good! Sometimes I feel like I have no control over parts of my life and am waiting on the "adults" to come and make it better~~~~~~then I realise that I am the adult!!!!!
My lover,partner,best friend helps me to feel that I have the strength to be in control of "me"~~and knowing that I have an amazing net -work of friends and family helps too!

<~~~~ wants to be the one to make good choices in her life and is always willing to accept responsibility for the not so good choices.
<~~~~ likes to be in control in many instances in the home and bedroom.
<~~~~ likes it when she feels safe enough with someone to give up a tiny bit of that control.

I wonder what that would be like being in total control all the time. I would imagine it could possibly get boring depending on what it is. However, trying to have control will drive you absolutly nuts especially trying to have control over things you will eventually careless about. Hence, a lot of wasted time.

It would be nice to feel comfortable enough with someone and be able to give up some control especially with the right person:)

Being a four planet Capricorn, I am quite biased but yes, I think so.