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huntersgirl 03-25-2003 04:31 PM

How often do you do it?
 
Probabaly been done before, but on doing a search I couldn't get it to work right so for my curiousity can we do it again? Been talking to my s/o recently about our sex drives. And got curious as to how often everyone out there has sex with their s/o's. We have been dating for about 4 months and see each other approx. 4 days a week. We average 2 to 3 times a day. To be honest, I've had more sex in the last 4 months than I have had in the last 5 years! Yipppeeee!!!! Sure hope we can keep up the pace, because it is an absolute blast!

misfit 03-25-2003 08:00 PM

my bf and i used to have sex 2-3 times a day when we started dating. we have been together for almost 2 years now, and its down to once a day. i think its mostly because we are so used to each other. but the sex is still excellent!

seriousfun 03-25-2003 08:49 PM

like huntersgirl, my gf of 4 months and I average 2-3 times a day, but we can usually only see each other about 3 days a week. We have a date in about 2 hours! Yippee!

My last gf and I were together about 2.5 years, and we too got it down to about once a day, but we were able to see each other more days a week. The sex with her just kept getting better and better, but wasn't enough to keep us together.

I'd say quality counts over quantity.

huntersgirl 03-25-2003 08:58 PM

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I'd say quality counts over quantity



Oh, I couldn't agree more! But when you can have both...hehehehe:D lets just say I do a lot of smiling.

dnr21 03-25-2003 09:42 PM

Yeah 2- 3 times a day, my and my gal could certainly do that much, but how do u all go abt preventing pregnancy, condoms r in the way all the time... so we now cut down to maybe 3 - 4 times a week... thinking of the pill but gal said it had side effects...

jennaflower 03-25-2003 09:50 PM

Lucky you... I must admit I am envious :)

Been a damn long time for me... BUT... I still hold on to the belief that it is indeed QUALITY over quantity... yeah.. I could probably go to one of the local dives... find a one night stand... but it just isn't worth it for me...

blkcat 03-25-2003 10:39 PM

I'm sorry to say i resemble jennaflower's statement,
but still hoping
:fly:

Lilith 03-25-2003 10:40 PM

not often enough.......

skipthisone 03-25-2003 10:40 PM

I used to be a 1-2 times a dayer....but lately 2 times a month is a good month.

Steph 03-26-2003 12:51 AM

We've been averaging only a few times a month, too, but that has more to do with us working opposite schedules.

txgrneyes 03-26-2003 04:35 AM

Want it on a daily basis...but at this time i am alone....so hopefully things will pick up....but since i am in my prime....my sex drive has increased so much...

huntersgirl 03-26-2003 08:56 AM

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....but since i am in my prime....



Do you think there is any truth to that prime thing? I feel like there are numerous "primes" in ones life. I can remember in my my mid twenties feeling like I couldn't be anymore "into" sex. And people would say you are just reaching your prime. Then now in my early 30's even more "into" sex, and again I read somewhere that it is the "prime". So my personal opinion is....even though hormones and such have a huge part in sex drive, it is more how comfortable you are with yourself. The more in tune and confident you are in what you want and need, and of course how well you can communicate that to your partner, plays the biggest part in feeling like you are in your "prime". And life experience makes all of that possible, not necessarily sexual experience. So with my philosophy things can only get better.;) Looking forward to my forties:D

m45 03-26-2003 09:02 AM

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Originally posted by skipthisone
I used to be a 1-2 times a dayer....but lately 2 times a month is a good month.



Sure sounds like what goes on here.....
2 or 3 times a month....
:(

Steph 03-27-2003 02:01 AM

What are we all doing??! Two or three times a month and our S/Os are asleep in bed whilst we post? Oh right, my guy has been asleep for several hours . . . I've got to get on the same schedule as him. It's part of the reason I'm looking for other work now. Let love rule, as Mr. Kravitz says. :)

Loulabelle 03-27-2003 01:23 PM

With my ex it was two or three times a month and even then I had to force myself......

With my current delicious pixie playmate, it's well.......would be difficult to say when one session ends and the next begins (we see each other at the weekends so work doesn't get in the way) ....I suppose I'd have to say that we do it once a day all day, with breaks for food and drink occasionally. :D :D :D

Oh and a word of advice to the guys out there who aren't getting enough: make sure you spend plenty of time touching and carressing your SOs in a non-sexual way, and you may find you get more sex. My ex got so that everytime he'd touch me, he wanted it to lead to sex and I just felt pressured. Kisses cuddles and strokes, don't always have to lead to sex, and if you make sure that she's confident that that's not all you're interested in, she'll eventually be more free with sex too. That's just my experience anyway - if it helps anyone...great. x


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