Finding a third
 

My wife and I have often discussed having an FMF threesome with someone we can both play with, or even finding that girl just for her to enjoy when I'm away (Read: or watching). She is very attracted (sexually) to many women, and the idea turns her on as much as it does me. We often find women while out and about that begin flirting with my wife, and she flirts back, but you can't exactly invite the waitress to come home with you, or at least don't know how.

A while back she did spend an evening fucking her lesbian best friend. However, the friend was very rough and slightly hurt my wife. It almost turned her off from the idea all-together, but she's hoping that the next experience will be better.

We don't want to try the ads. And obvisouly, she won't be experiencing her friend ever again. We also don't have any other female friends that are interested in other women.

Does anyone have any advice on finding the right one? For the future, does anyone have any ideas on breaking the ice should we find a friend that may be interested?

Obviously, the next time has to be excellent, or it may close the door, forever.

Thats going to be kinda hard to find. We have set out many times to find a bi fem to join us, and every time, we end up with a single guy for a MMF or another couple.