do you agree that sex is good and sex is
 

healthy ??? but it's not good nor healthy unless it's dirty ???
what ever that "dirty" means :fly:

Sex is one of the most basic needs in life, so of course it is good and healthy. Despite that fact, it's also a way to relieve stress and tension, and show someone you like/love them by giving them (and yourself!) pleasure.

Chinesepussy, do you maybe mean kinky in this case?

Woody Allen famously said that sex is only dirty when it's done right....

i wouldn't go so far as to deem sex a necessity.

You wouldn't be here if not for sex. Well mostly, sometimes I wonder about Silky. Just kidding. Oh SHIT, I just though of the parents having Sex. Well there goes the sex drive for a while.

Too me, the quality of sex is a lot like the quality of my golf game. If I spend the whole time thinking about what I'm going, it's not as good. However, if I stop thinking about where I'm going to put my ball(s) and instead, step up to the (tee) box and just hit it home, the outcome seems much more satisfying.

However, I do agree on some level, and that's where the similarity with golf ends. The dirtier the sex is, the better it seems - all I get from a dirty golf game is mud on my irons.

Why use a derogatory word like dirt to descibe such a wonderful act of love and affection.
How much better to describe really good sex as 'unbridled passion'

How can it be 'dirty' when both/all parties partisipaiting have given their consent?

I think sex is a wonderful and beautiful opportunity for two people to solidify and build on their relationship. That is good. And while I may sometimes use the term "dirty," what I really mean is passionate and uninhibited. I, for one, don't believe in doing anything that really "hurts" another person either physically or in a demeaning way. .

Mmmmm....I could use some of that right now!!!!!!;) :D

The kind you clean up with a mop and bucket :D
mmmmmmmmm yes please !

yes i mean the kinky way hehehee

Sex is definitely mental, physical and spiritual....which makes it good.

Sometimes b/f says 'let's have some dirty sex' . . . I say, 'no, let's have clean sex'. It makes no sense really . . . Uncle Silky is an influence! :) :)