Follow-up on orgasm question
 

I am so happy to know that I'm not an oddity in my need for clitorial stilumation. Now here's my next question then. Do you orgasm with every sexual encounter? I have had incredibly satisfying sex without an orgasm, but maybe that's because I've gotten used to it that way. Gonna be changing that soon now that I know I'm not a freak. he he.

Last question. It seems that many here on Pixies have sex alot, like 3+ times a week. I'd be happy for once a week and as it is I'm wondering how to keep that exciting. Any suggestions? I would think that sex 3 or more times a week would get boring and mundane after a while. Are all of you in relationships less than a few years old? Maybe I'm missing something here, but I'd also think I'd get really sore even during those times when I'm so horny I'm dripping wet. Have to say I wouldn't mind finding this one out myself, but please share.

Thanks for all the feedback.

<~~~~ has been rocking the same poor man's world for 17 years!!!

He's a giving lover and always places as much of an importance on my needs as he does his own.

We average 2x a week usually but have a week now and then that we just can't connect. I don't always orgasm, nor do I always want to. Sometimes I just like the exchange of energy. Shower sex is great for a quickie.

As a very wise actor once said in a TV show (Can't remember which)

"You must find your own map, then walk it."

Everyone's needs and wants differ, and so long as these are met, all is good.

It is the expectations raised by people who (often falsely) claim an extreme

degree of sexual activity and satisfaction which are the source of dis-satisfaction.

I don't always have orgasms during sex...normally don't. And if I do, it's normally clitoral. We probably average 1 or 2 a week. I'd probably get more if I weren't on here all the time. HAHA

Sex is just part of being married, but you can think of ways to make it more exciting.

I also don't care if I always orgasm during sex. I satisfied him last night and then we were both spent. It's all good.

My horniness just varies from month to month, week to week, regardless of who I'm with. I don't stress it.

no, i don't and it doesn't matter to me, either. Mr. wyn and i get down and dirty just about every day and sometimes just making him cum is all the relief i need. we ladies are soooo unselfish ;)

i didn't cum nearly as often during intercourse with my ex husband as i do with my boyfriend. i dunno if his technique is better or if we've just got a much better emotional connection. probably a little of both. my boy regularly makes me cum before intercourse too, and once i've started cumming....it's alot easier to keep doing it. but if he's "finished" and i haven't cum yet and i want to, he always rubs, kisses and licks until i'm a sweaty, breathless, glowing little puddle of drooling kitten. i'm very VERY lucky to have found this one and i have no intention of letting him slip away!

WANDA's SHOCKING ANSWER
Of course I don't orgasm every time I have sex!
The idea of orgasm with every sexual encounter is a silly one, I think. I almost always orgasm when my partner is trying to please me, orally or whatnot, but sometimes my encounters are limited to my performig oral sex on them, or a quckie. I love these, and they are intensely pleasurable, but I don't always come.
Sometimes I come, sometimes my partner does, and sometimes we both do. But it's always fun, and that's the point, isn't it?
When my encounters are limited to my pleasing my partner, well, this is a huge sexual high for me, and if he/she is able to return the pleasure, more the better.
By the way, I have sex about an average of 4 or 5 times a week.
Sometimes more, sometimes less.
The scandal in my life, if there is one, is that this is often with four different people, and sometimes more than one in a single night.
Sex is a huge part of my life, and life is meant to be enjoyed, not endured.

Sexually,

Wanda