Horny all the time
 

Ok.....To all the ladies out there of all ages. Guys feel free to jump in too I would like to hear your input as well. When would you say is the age that we supposedly hit our sexual peak? I am 37 and have been having sex for quite a few years and I gotta say that for the past few weeks I can't seem get enough of it. Maybe it has something to do with finally being with someone who totally pleases the hell out of me because I never enjoyed, wanted or needed it as much as I have over the past year. I have actually become a freak about it. HaHaHa!!!! I have heard 30's are the prime for women and I have heard 40's and so on. If that is true boy do I have alot to look forward to. I would like to hear your comments on this. Thanks!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm older than you are by a long shot, and I haven't hit it yet. Not all of the kinds of orgasms I have can be triggered in a flash, but I have more types of orgasms and much stronger and longer-lasting orgasms than ever before. It just keeps getting better....

And, yes, if I could, I'd have sex at least once daily. The question wouldn't be when am I horny but when am I not.

Like you mentioned, Missy, it could have something to do with your significant other. Also, I'm 28 and I think sex is getting better and better and better!

I am 44 and found that sex is getting better with age, certainly an increase in variation ;-)

The saying goes.........."With age comes wisdom!" I am more wise to my body and what I need to feel good now. I have experimented throughout the years and I know what I like and what I don't like. I do not fear pregnancy as I did when I was younger. I've come to love myself and realize I AM worth "IT". "IT" is anything that makes ME feel good as opposed to trying to please any other despite whether I am pleased. Sex and self love have increased in intensity.....YES!

I am 44 now.........when I was 24 I would have typed you a different response! I love me and what I have become..............mature!


*Using the edit feature* AK? I posted just before you, but I still had edit time and so I had to say...........

"And here's to you Mrs. Robinson.........Heaven holds a place for those who pray.......hey, hey , hey! What's that you say Mrs. Robinson......Joltin Joe has left and gone away........hey, hey,hey".

Teehee, sweety! I robbed the cradle!

Well as the youngest person to post to this thread so far (24) I have to say it looks like I've got a lot to look forward to!!


But FYI Missy, I think that the 'official' sexual peak for women is around age 30 while for men it's around age 18. . . I wonder if that means there are a lot of 'Mrs Robinson' type relationships going on out there that we don't know about?!

Thanks for the responses. I think I agree too with all of you. I am surprised to hear that 18 is a mans peak time. I don' think anyone at 18 or at least anyone I have ever been with at that age knew what they were doing. So I find that hard to imagine. I would like to think men get better with age too or us women are in trouble....hahahaha

I don't think I hit mine until I was 30-something, but there were extenuating circumstances.

Extenuating circumstances Ironwood? Can i be nosy and ask what they were?

I was a virgin until I was 23, and then monogamous for about 10 years with a woman who didn't have much of a sex drive. It wasn't until (very shortly) after we divorced that I had my first proper seeing-to, and the woman responsible was well-satisfied also. Since then I've been as active as my standards allow. ;)

You know I didn't imagine anyone would ask. :p

Yes, I was curious and I have to say It's refreshing to see a man who is open and honest about things. It took me alot of years also to have a "proper seeing to". I think we do mature sexually with age and if that is true the up coming years should be outrageous..hahaha

I think age is secondary to attitude. I'm 59 and it's true ... I don't just jump to attention and don't really experience premature ejaculation anymore. But see, that's good. I'm more patient letting me concentrate more on my wife's needs and as I am better able to respond to those needs, I feel great satisfaction on top of my own climaxing.

I think with age is patience which compensates in many ways for the body slowing down some. ;)

( Then again, you Pixie ladies do have a powerful inflluence on us guys ... :D )

Hello Dicksbro...You sound like a very mature minded man. The fact that you care about pleasing your wife over your own needs is really nice to hear. I can remember when I was younger and being with a guy (I won't say a man) was pretty much all about him getting off probably becasue he didn't know how to please a woman..hahaha. Now that I am older (37) I can also say things are so much better for me. I am with someone now who takes the time to please me too. Boy does he ever!!!!!!!!!!

Missy, that's great ... for you and him and I'm sincerely happy for the both of you!

By the way, welcome to Pixies! I really think it's the best site on the web and the place to have the most fun. Enjoy! :D

whoa last night was awesome
 

It's me Missy again!!!!!

Last night was one of the best nights of sex that I have had in my life!!!!!! Being horny all the time isn't so bad after all, it just keeps getting better and I can't wait till the next time!!!!!!!!
hahahahaha:fly:

am 26 yrs and i've heard that women enjoy having sex in there 40's. Beats me.

david

Just to qualify what I said earlier. . .

When we are talking about 'sexual peak' we are talking about the height of a persons libido, not their performance. A man's libido is at its most potent when he is about 18 while for a woman it's when she is about 30.

In fact I'd say that the fact that a guy of 18 does have such a high sex drive is what can sometimes lead to them not being such good lovers. They are rushing sex because they want it so much and need very little in the way of foreplay. As they get older, they are no in such a desperate state of need all the time and can have more patience to please their partner.

Just one of my many theories about sex . . . :)

I am 40 years old, and for the last 26 years I have not been able to get enouth

AK, you are very astute for one so young...as a man in my 40s, I pretty much agree with your theories, except...it's not that my need is not so great, it's more like...I'm more patient now, it's not a race to get to the orgasm, now I can take time to enjoy pleasuring my partner till I get there myself...

I've only jusy caught up with this thread and just felt it would be rude not to thank-you for the compliment Scotz.

I'm always pleased to be appreciated for my brain as well as my . . . er. . . other assets. :)

And strangely enough it always seems to be older guys who appreciate me . . . probably why I like 'em. ;)

I'm still waiting for my sexual peak (I'm 26)...every year it gets better... I'm more open to new things but I'm starting to know what I like.

More importantly -- I think I'm getting better at picking my partners. I've been with some extrordinary men in the past couple of years.

I agree w/ Dicksbro -- "age is secondary to attitude."

Lately, it's all I can think about !!!!! Needless to say my S.O. is
very happy about that. We had a session the other night......

*OMG* is about all I can say. Unfortunately, we've also been
missing each other. I'm in bed by 9:00 pm and asleep by the time
he comes to bed. But, he is willing to accommodate when I let
him know I'm interested, so things should be steaming up around
here..........

Well all I can say is I am glad to hear there are alot of horney people out there just like me.....hahahaha. Tonite I will be having some myself boy I can't wait I'm getting wet just thinking of him