How to ask my wife to let me wear her underwear during sex?
 

Hi

Any tips and suggestions, as it something i want to try.

Cheers

try putting them on for her during a sexy evening romance and doing a little tease...and see how she takes it. just don't stretch her fave pair!

You could start it out as a joke . . . an ex of mine did it that way. Would she react in a weird way, do you think? Is she open minded?

This might be stupidly simple.....but why don't you just ask her?
The worst she can do is say 'No'.



...well actually, the worst she can say is: "OH MY GOD...you're a blanking freak!!!! .... But what are the odds of that happening? :D

That is stupidly simple












...but would've been my response too :)

Just ask... see where that takes you. Do you want to because you like the "feel" of the satin/silk/polyester? If that is part of it, and she isn't receptive to you wearing hers, purchase some of those sexy silky boxers. ;)

I would try to analyse what about it is about this that appeals to you....that way when you ask her, you can try to explain why you want to try it.

There have been lots of things that I'd never thought I'd try, but when someone takes time to explain why something is a turn on, I find I'm often able to see it in a different light.

If my man asked me to do something like that, my first question would be 'Why?'. A convincing argument will go a lot further with her than the standard male response 'I dunno!'

I agree with Louabelle.

Most important thing is don't be manipulative about it. Understand why you want it and be honest. Take it seriously and approach her in a way in which she knows you are looking for support and not judgment.

I think Cheyanne is on to something. If you enjoy the feel of the material against you, tell her "Your panties look like the feel so soft. I'd love to feel them rubbing on my cock." Maybe start out by asking her to wrap them around you and stroking you to an orgasm?

If it's the "naughtiness" of the idea that appeals to you, then how about saying "I wonder if your panties would fit me. Is that sexy or weird? I'm not sure."

I think it is a mixture of the feel and the "naughtiness" that appeal, but it is just plucking up the courage to say it!! I have come close a couple of times during sex when she has sat on top of me with my dick in her panties and she has rubbed between her panties and body and I been very turned on. I'm not sure if she notice how worked up I was getting, but I think it is something that we would both enjoy! I let you guys know how it goes. Thanks for the advice.

Well...that sure sounds fun! :D

Have you ever cum that way? That would get the message across that you enjoy the idea and the sensations of it. ;)

As far as I'm concerned it would be great for partners to be open and honest with each other bout what they like, but I know it can be hard, even now with my new partner she's rather open minded but I haven't let her in on everything about me, for example my particular fondness of hentai and manga and just how much dirty talk and roughness I like lol, but I figure I'll eventually let her in, just gotta ease her into things me thinks

anyway though something like that isn't really my thing, I would imiagine I'd have a hard time asking about something like that if I were in your shoes, though I'd probally ease into the whole introduction with stepping up the focus on rubbing against her panties and that during foreplay and that, basically change the focus and get her to acknowledge that you are rather turned on by her rubbing them against you and the such , let me tell ya the potential is great, a girl who will indulge in things that she knows turn you on alot is a great thing

lol a friend of mine once had a girlfriend that would give him handjobs with her panties wrapped around his cock, let me tell you , he said I gotta try it lol

There's a lot of good advice here. I would go with either asking or just throwing em on as a joke. The second works as long as you don't act too silly and wear a thong or bra on your head. Yes people I have watched Weird Science too many times.

Perhaps it'd be simpler just not to tell her, and so long as she wasn't there, how would she find out?

They always find out. lmfao

What's a skid mark and a lumpy stretched bit in the front between friends?

Blame them on a washing-machine malfunction.

Hi guys

well it has happened!! I had actually chickened out of asking afraid of the reaction, but it sort of just happened.

We were lying in bed getting worked up, me with nothing on and my wife in a red thong (i forgot to remove them while getting her undressed ;-) ) I'm stroking her through her red thong and she is work on me and she slip my dick in between her panties and starts to stroke me through them. I start to get really worked up and tell her how nice it feels and she asks if I want to her to continue to do it. I obviously replied yeah, but said that maybe she would like to find a nice silky pair and put them on me (i got ready for her to throw me out of the bed), but to my surprise she reacted positively and jumped out of bed and went to her underwear draw and grab a white thong and put it on me and started to stroke me through the white thong. So there I am lying in bed about to explode in my wifes white thong and her stroking me while wearing a red thong. I start to work on pussy and to my surprise she was dripping wet (found out later she want to get me in a pair of her panties for a while!). At this point things get really heated and I have to get inside her, so slipping the thong to one side (my thong) and remove hers I slipped my dick into and pretty much exploded!!! As we lay in bed catching our breath, me still in her white thong we chat about what just happened and she admitted that she had been trying to get me in her underwear for a while, which explains how she had been wanking me off for a while.

So thanks for all the advice and maybe next time I ask you guys a question, I should just follow your advice and ask!

Woo hoo! Way to go!

I'm glad you were greeted warmly and I hope this leads to a more open sexual dialogue between you and your wife. With a positive experience like this under your belt, so to speak, I can only imagine the fun sexual experimentation you have ahead of you!

Congrats again!

Woo hoo! I love it when our advise is proven right on here and when the end result is so happy!

Good for you two for being such an adventurous and compatible couple!

And good for Pixies for being bang on the money once more!

Yaaaaaay!