A few problems..
 

My partner and I recently had sex just at the end of my period, everything was fine but Im *a lot* tighter when Im on my period. Anyway to get to the point, something happened the part where his foreskin and cock meet, the sensitive part (probably not doing a great job of explaining) I think it ripped a bit or got cut. Anyway since then whenever we try to have sex it hurts him.. Its my fault as I just can't seem to get very juicy.. its not his fault at all he turns me on alot and we try oral but I just dont et very juicy until he's actually in me pumping away ~ which of course he can't do as it hurts to enter me because Im still quite dry and because of his penis problem atm.

I was just wondering if anyone else has had problems like this before (The cut on the penis - maybe its bruised I don't know :confused: ) and if theres anything he can do to sooth it or should he seek advice from a doctor also if theres any advice for me?

Thanks alot - hope that made some sort of sense..

lots of KY.... that should fix the problem....

Hi, I know exactly what you're talking about here bcause it happened to Loulabelle and I. We got a bit over excited one day and she "raped" me mmmmmmm I love that woman errr sorry anyway she threw me back on the bed and dropped down onto me before she was fully lubed up I didn't notice at the time but when I pulled out I'd got a cut right where you're describing. This was before xmas but it took a while for it heal properly in fact when we had sex not too long after it happened again. My best advice is first to make sure it's properly healed before you try anything and when you do take it extra slow, of course as having_fun says use lube but still take it very very slow.

Thanks for the responce, did it hurt when you had sex afterwards though? Because that is what my partner is experiencing when he trys to enter me and when we go fast and hard. So I guess take it slow and lube.

oh yeah it did hurt for a while after I think it was over a week before we even tried to do it again after the first time it happened. After that though we just took things very very very very very slow.

We have the same problem in reverse. The skin is alot more tender down there on both men and women, and for me, prolonged friction without lube (or a tongue), will hurt, and leave me sore for days. I hate getting a finger job for that reason.

Next time, just use some lube, and make sure you both get nice and wet. In the mean time, it should stop hurting in a few days.

I feel I should point something out here.....

LostAngel - you say "Its my fault as I just can't seem to get very juicy" ALL WRONG!!!! Don't blame yourself! It's nobody's FAULT - just an unfortunate incident.

I hate it when people blame themselves just cos their body didn't do what they wanted!

CasperTG

CasperTG - as always, you speak the truth.

It wasn't MY fault I had to rape FussyPucker - I can't help it if he's so damn sexy. :p

Just like it wasn't MY fault that I let her.........would anyone else fight her off???..........:D

Awww, thankies made me feel better casper ;) Well my hubby is coming down this weekend so hopefully he'll be better will keep all the advice though - any good lube brands anyone could suggest.. or if I can't get to the shops any good household items that could be fun and safe to play with to make me easier to enter?

Thanks again all =)

Well as for lube brands, I prefer AstroGlide... household products I'm not so sure about. :)

Amanda

ouch.....i would use lube....my dick hurts reading that

ouch!!
 

I oiften get the cut too... as a result of my gf raping mi ,.....

guess it just abrasion... and often after the cut, it will still hurt in the next few days.... yeah..

lots of lube will do the job... and guide it in slowly before getting into the fast action...
:D

Its really no ones fault. My fiance and I have sex and we dont use lube. She doesnt get super wet all the time. But thats the way we like it. It feels alot better and tighter for me and she is able to feel more.

Getting to my point....I rip her almost every other time we have sex. We just have to either take it slow the next time we make love or we dont have sex. We love each other and know its not anyones fault. Just something that happens.

I hope this helps a little.

Hocque

Hmmm - I'm wondering if you'd feel the same way if it were you who was bleeding because of this, which is what is under discussion here.

Women's genitals are actually designed to take a bit more of a battering than men's (childbirth etc) and we have fewer nerve endings in that area than a man has.

To be honest, whether this problem is happening to a man or a woman, I think it needs addressing, and measures should be taken to prevent it, rather than just accepting it as normal.

Should have seen my "penis needs care" posting. I know how it feels to be raw or have cuts. It does hurt, but the only thing you can do it let it heal.





Hocque

Lube up like crazy the next time- I second the opinion that Astroglide is best... KY just dries back out too quickly. Anyway, in the meantime I'd suggest he dab a little bit of vitamin E oil on the cut- it will protect it from rubbing against undies and it really does speed up healing a lot.

just to give you an update, all is well and it healed fine and had no problems since *touch wood*:D Thanks for all the replys guys, really appreciated it :)