what do say?
 

I went on a first date last week. In conversation the web came up. She asked me a question about the internet: basically what do I like to use the web for....I left out Pixies from my response (mind you this was a first date).

I am curious, if and how you tell people about this site?

I welcome some feedback.

I do tell a few people that I moderate at an adult website and if they are ugly about it I usually say I cyber nanny basically.:p But most think it's cool when I start describing the way we all groove on eachother and have our own community.

Never seems to come up, and I certainly wouldn't mention it. Tough to explain, really, except to say...one of the things I love about Pixies is that this is my "escape" from the real world.

Y'all are my support network, and I want to keep you all to myself :D :p :D

i haven't mentioned it yet, where i live you don't talk about things like this, it's a shame though so people would be so much better off if they had some fun in their life

In my experience, people who don't participate in forums don't really seem to be able to relate too well. I've shared Pixie's with a couple of close friends, but they don't really embrace it. Clearly, they are still evolving... :rolleyes:

I mention Pixies to some and leave it out of conversation with others.......

It's the same thing with my language. I can curse like a drunken sailor on shore leave.....but around certain people (in-laws...children...etc.), I curb it.

It's all a matter of knowing when it's appropriate to mention!

Just today I told my best friend and sister that I come here adn told them my username. My best friend read my stories and was shocked that it was even me..but she wrote one too and has her own user name.

I don't tell many, as I told a few, they came here and lurked and didn't like it. Different strokes for different folks, i guess

Most people aren't receptive. Their loss.

I am happy to tell people that I met Fussy on the net, and if they ask more, I usually say that it was on a website 'of doubtful reputation'. They get the message, I don't have to go into details, unless I want to and it's all good. :)

Of course several people have asked me more, and depending on the person, I have given the name of the site. One good friend is registered here and has made the odd comment, and we joke about it all the time in r/l.

A few very close friends of mine know I visit a couple of sites on line on a regular basis. And a couple of them know I have written some sex toy reviews for one of them. However, since it seems most people are much more conservative than I, I lean toward the cautious side, especially regarding my involvement with this site, since I have posted so many pix here. I wouldn't want such information to cause me any problems down the road.

My friends know about the adult boards I go to, and don't really think aobut it much. My family, on the other hand, well, I just refer to these places as a bulletin board, and leave out what type it is.

What do I use the internet for? My answer would be to collect a variety of information and to carrouse,cavort and perv with some very worthwhile and like minded people.Then ask them if they would care to join in the fun.If they have a problem and it's a dinner date we are on,think if the money saved on dessert.heh heh

I'm dating someone new and I haven't told him about it yet. It's too new! We haven't even discussed anal sex yet!

Wait . . . what kind of weird rule is that? I mention Pixies after anal sex? :)

I shared Pixies with my last boyfriend and don't know if he still visits the site.

3 people in my life know about pixies, they are all what i consider "warped" and open like me. Only one of them knows my user name.

Thanks for the feedback
 

I dont know why it matter but....the fact that I have posted a few pictures of myself (versus say just read/look) in lets say non PG poses makes me more nervous. What do you all think, is that a valid distiction?

Thanks

:)

Hmmm.....I wonder where those pictures are? :hot:

But seriously...I think men are a bit more open-minded on this topic than women. You're right to be concerned about telling your lady-friends about Pixies or any other site. My advice would be to wait until she gets to know you as the wonderful person you are -- before you tell her about this aspect of your life. Most people, I find, you can "bring along" over time.

Good luck!

Yeah a couple of close friends now about pixies through me but not many at all really. I like to think of us as one big family and i dont really want anyone that i know to find out about it.

Re: what do say?
 

Pixies is my own personal secret...only a couple of other Pixies people even knows my real name. I live in a conservative community...nothing good would come of my discussing Pixies with others that I know. It is sad in a way but this is the way it needs to be.

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Thanks everyone
 

These responses helps me....at least I am not the only one that find disclosing this site to others to be a bit complicated.

Cheers to all the happy perverts :)

I'd like to add........

I work with a few really sexy men and we cavort and tease all day long. I've been on the verge of telling them about Pixies on several occasions. I stop just before it comes out though. I have printed out a few "less risque" pics and taken them in and showed them to a select few. They ask all kinds of questions......like, "Who took that pic"? or "Does your husband know about these"? I tell them if hubby or I took the pic and that, yes, he knows about them and just when I think I'm gonna turn them on to Pixies.....I stop cold! I just imagine what the next day at work would be like and I can't bring myself to tell them. I also get the feeling that no matter if they swore on their mother's grave, they'd HAVE to share their secret with the people they are closest with at work.....and then soon, the whole place would know. I'm not ready for that kind of exposure yet! Peculiar, huh? I consider myself an exhibitionist.....but I can't share myself with some of the sexiest people I know in R/L. These men are in my fantasies......but I can't blurt out, "If you want to see my pussy, log on to Pixies"! It might be partly due to the fact that two of these men are my superiors in the workplace. LOL!

*sigh*