ok ok I got a Cock Question for the ladies
 

ok ladies, i haven't been here long but i been readin posts all night... i have a question, i've always wondered and i figured what better place 2 ask.
whats more important,
girth
length
or ability
cus i'm about 6.5 inches long and just under 3 inches wide and i have a been having sex since 14 and i'm 23 now.. so what is it ladies?
please help me out

Can you lick your eyebrows?:p

Foreplay...

Ability...

Cuddling after.


Its not what you have but how you use it and your attitude.

teddy :)

good because i've always been a cuddler, i just love curlin up naked under the sheets n just running my hands up and down my lovers body.

Yeah, women will always say that to your face. But just look at all the big dildos and vibrators for sale. If size didn't matter, they wouldn't sell. After all, if it was just ability, then why couldn't they use a smaller one, since they can control it the way they want. Relax girls, I'm saying this with a smile on my face. But I also believe there is an element of truth there. And yes it is a generality. I also believe that most women can put aside a size issue for the special man in their life, while reaching for that big hunk of silicone when he is away. Women are more ethereal than us visual/physical men. If any female types want to try to explain, rationalize, or elucidate I’m listening. (Stirring the pot, and putting flame suit on.)

Its hard to put into words but basically it's real vs. imitation. Like anything imitation, egg beaters, sugar substitute, etc, they are good. But not as good as the real thing.

There's not much surprise or variation in using a dildo/vibe, usually similar actions are used each time. The woman knows ahead of time just how she'll use it and even when & how she'll make herself cum. Now you on the other hand can vary what you do, keep her guessing, work her into a frenzy begging to cum, finally allowing her to, and then hold her close, kissing & cuddling and starting all over again.

That might have explained it....... ability and attitude.

teddy :)

ability and then girth here!

When it just to sex when were out swinging and im checking out the guys. I like a guy who is about 7 and a nice girth. I have had guys that were very well hung and think they were jack hammers that was not to enjoyable to me.
Terrie

Teddy - you are 100% correct in your assessment as far as I am concerned!! :D There is nothing like the real thing! Yeah, vibes can come in handy when he is away - and my personal preference in that instance is NOT a large vibe, but a normal sized vibe - preferably about 2" in girth and perhaps 5-6" long.

As for my answer to the "size" questions,
Ability, ability, ability.................. :lust: A man is soooooooooo much more than the size of his penis!!!

yeah

it's not the meat but the motion and the brain attached.

if you do not believe me read John Donne or the new Paul Auster Book

wildeye

I, being a girl, am with the girls, too big is uncomfortable for me..I like average size coupled with ability. If I get to orgasm I am a happy lady. I also agree that some guys with big cocks think they are god's gift to women, when all they are is after self gratification.

It's not the size or the width, but the smart ass behind it that counts!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lol good becasue i'm pretty confident in my skills. i've been a sex fiend frum a young age and i've always enjoyed making women cum more then i enjoy makin myself cum, its just not good sex till u can feel her pussy dripping and your wet frum the waste down from the pussy splash. and your never done till u can't tell whats swett or fem-cum nemore, 2 hot wet slappin bodies wrestling in sexual ectasy, rolling around on a nice big bed, changing postions after each time she come, stroking and holding her body at first soft gentle, and groping and grabbing her tight near the end... thats how i like it :) but after typin all that i think i need 2.. umm.. take care of myself real quick ;)

I always believed that it's not the size of the ship that counts but the motion of the ocean. :)

yah what she said

~nikki~

I think the ability absolutely outweighs the size and girth thing. The guy can have a 10" peter - but if he doesn't know what to do with it then its useless!

Ability... and brain power....

Neither length or girth matters much to me... every size comes with its own set of advantages.. :)

Re: ok ok I got a Cock Question for the ladies
 

Its really not the size its how you use it, if you can please your partner thats what counts.

thank you
 

thanks for all the advice, you've given me more confidence and answered a long standing question. i think this is a milestone in history. sum1 should put this in a book :D
thanks again sexxxy :sex: pixxxies ladies. ;)

to me it doesn't matter so long as you lick before you stick ;)

ok heres a question


Do you ladies favor a Straight cock or a Curved Cock?

yes!

Ok folks... from a woman's point of view I can safely say that size counts a lot. In my experience the man's wonder wand is a lot like a firearm used for hunting. Face it there's lots of guys out there who regret the fact that they clean their weapons a lot more than they actually shoot them.

There's a point where a man can be too big or too long or too wide but so far the older I get the less I run into that problem. Ability and performance is good but call me selfish and self centered... he could be passed out cold face up naked on viagra oblivious to everything and I'll bet 10$ to a donut he'll be just as much fun on average as if he was awake... only difference is awake he might not last as long.

If a man is well equipped, or at least decently endowed the most important thing still boils down to the metaphore of guns. I don't feel satisfied with someone who pulls out a small caliber single shot derrenger when I could've had the opportunity to eject a few casings from a semi-automatic with a large bore, long barrel and cartridge magazine that holds 8 shots or better....

And gentlemen... if you're a good enough shot with yours then you really don't need to put a scope on it.

Wow!

Interesting metaphor but not this woman's opinion at all. To me it matters not at all what you keep in your holster but how good a marksman you are with the weapon you have been given.

angels DO exist!!! :heart:

Can I weigh in on this one? This, I must stress is from personal experience only, but every girl I have been lucky enough to sleep with has said that size matters. Now, maybe I'm just picking up the same sorta girl, but that is what has been said to me before, after and during the act.

It takes all types I guess.

Size can be a pleasant surprise but talent is the essential ingredient!

I think that I just learnt more about firearms than sex.

I love the Pixies Ladies - and they should know what they're talking about. Who cares how big your cock is? Andswer - no one!

By-the-way: I just finished watching 'Bowling for Columbine'. What can I say? Only that I don't understand the obsession with guns. Like I don't understand the obsession with cock size. Do Americans suffer more from both of these obsessions than other males? And - Deep Freudian Question - are the two obsessions related?

I take it back - I didn't say those things - please don't shoot me......

Well, from my conversations, I can state the following:

A big cock can be great.

A small cock can be great.

A guy who has a big cock can be a great lover.

A guy who has a small cock can be a great lover.

A guy who has been told he has a big cock and lets it go to his head can end up as a lazy and selfish lover.

Ultimately, know your strengths and weaknesses, and give your partner what they want, and very infrequently will there be cause for dissappointment.

And if that doesn't work, get your receipt, return your partner, and keep shopping for a new one. Life is too short to waste time on the ungrateful and the unpleasant.

Jim

What's the matter guys? Isn't the response from the ladies pretty clear?

No, your long wide cock is NOT ENOUGH!
Yes, your medium cock and your desire and ability to please ARE ENOUGH!

Ok, I'm fine now LOL!

The size doesn't matter much to me at all...It's the "other" things the guy does that counts...A man is not counted or aprecciated by the size of his cock, but his personality, and ability to please and understand the partner...And there are advantages for both small and big cocks, but sometimes a good toungue and wonderful hands, can do wonders...

Mercury, I prefer staright, but curved would fit me as well...

If she says you're too small, perhaps she in fact is too big? Sorry size queens, if my size matters to you, then so does yours.

personally when a girl is using her strap on i would prefer size but girth is also good because i like a nice wide cock and also ability is great - thats what makes us girls cum! (which we love to do so much)

Yeah its not the size of the Cock, its How it Crows

It's ability - no doubt about it.



I know what you mean bud. Ace! ;) And if they do it back, so much the better.

Great movie is you like bull shit poured out by Anti-gun pussies , I can not speak for other American Guys but I am not obsessed with the size of my Dick , as long as My Lady is happy then I am "Works for Me" Now as to the subject of Guns , Any Nation or Country that don't trust it Citizens with Guns , can not be trusted by it's Citizens . An Armed man is a Citizen and Disarmed man is a Subject .
One other thing I think I am in love with Annie Lol the gun thing got me HOT!!!

I am a subject of Her Majesty Queen Elizabeth II, one of the most decent, honourable and trustworthy people alive today, who has served her subjects indefatigably for more than 50 years.

Is there a politician you can say that about?

May we move the political discussion to another thread, please?