Inter-racial sex
 

Anyone every done it?

I think so. So far I've found most homosapien have sex as a common interest. It was jsut good sex for me.;)

Silly, tired question.
I have answered this before.
I have had sex with members of both sexes and with so many different skin colors I can not count. I appreciate the contrast in skin colors when we are together, it is ineresting and erotic visually, but if the lights are off, I can't tell any difference.
And that is about as far as anything special about it goes for me.
Stories about white women and "big black men" are silly and tiresome to me, and I suggest that they are more about the subjugation of women than anything else. At least that is how many of them read. All of the black men and women I have bedded have been sweet, wonderful, considerate lovers, because that is who I choose to go to bed with.
OK, I am very tired and a little "headachy/ have a bad sex and alcohol hangover" as I write this so I apologize to anyone I have offended, but "in wine there is truth" yes?

Sexually interacial,

WW

Well said WW. Personally, I have never slept with anyone of a different culture.... but only through lack of opportunity (and shyness, if I'm honest!!) But, like WW, colour doesn't matter, it's the "person inside" that determines whether I'd want to sleep with someone. ('course, I have the perfect lady to share my life/body with now, so it's kind of a moot point anyway! :heart: )

BTW, hope the headache gets better soon Wanda!! XX

"In RUM there is truth too"~ Lilith

I am thrown by the inter-racial stories as well but understand that unfortunately in some places this is a taboo area or has been. I think newer generations will not see it as taboo. To a 50 year old man raised in Georgia it is most likely taboo and therefore becomes a sex category! To a 19 year old in a major metropolitan are it would just be sex! It's a dying taboo I think!

That being said, I consider my race to be the human one and have dated/ had sex with people of varied racial ethnicities.

Makes no difference in Skin Color....................It's the Partener you choose and how well they wish to share with you. ;)


I have to say that"I just Love a Sex Fiend (manjaca) Like Myself". ;)

Re: Inter-racial sex
 

I've never *NOT* done it!

She's Chinese, I'm white.

Bravo! Bravo! I couldn't have said it better myself! I also agree w/how Lilith put it as far as why it might be exotic to some. I have never understood the interracial stories either. But we're talking about my life and my family here, so I am rather sensitive when it comes to this subject. I have been part of an interracial couple/family since I was 19 yrs old and will be for the rest of my life considering the fact that I have 2 beautiful biracial children. WW is correct; people are people; there are good lovers in every group and rotten ones as well, and just forget about the damn stereotypes; they're just that--stereotypes.

I too feel that it is a tired subject not to put down the person asking, since I am sure he was just trying to start a conversation, I was also part of an interracial relationship for 8 years and have beautiful biracial 3 year old. I don't feel that there is any difference, all I saw was the person not a black man, still don't sometimes I have to be reminded that he is black.

:hot:

We are all one human race cumming in a varieity of colours,shapes and sizes.So many differences,so little time.

Well, I'm glad people took the time to tell me their thoughts and it was just to start conversation - sorry that I haven't gone through the entire threads available.

Give me inter-galactic sex. After all "men are from Mars and women from Venus".

I agree with WW on the sub-plot of these sites, why do they wish to degrade, humiliate and hurt?

Ok.... once again I'm the odd one out here!!

I like to look at black women having sex. Not to subjugate them, not to degrade or humiliate them. But just because I find something sexy about black women. Yes, granted, it is the person that matters and not the body colour/shape/smell. But I think there is a difference between being attracted to something and being hung up on it. It is just one of the many, many, many things that turn me on.

For me, it's got nothing to do with taboo either - it's just an eroticism thing. It's like saying I like petite woman, or I like bald men, or i like people with pimples on their bum - it's just an aspect of attraction, and if i was attracted to someone's mind I wouldn't care about any of the physical things.

Just my thoughts!
CasperTG

I'm a bit of a mutt so some of my couplings technically cannot be considered interracial. But I think I have officially qualified for the distinction, Yipeee!! Where do I get my prize????

i personally have not. and probably never will. Hope not to offend anyone but being brought up in the south with the southern morals and beleives.. "it just aint fitten". But my personal beleif is if it is what you like then do it...it just isn't for me. Although there is something highly erotic about he contrast in skin color. But i can not get over all that my daddy instilled in me about races. I am trying so bare with me.

Aging yourself, Tex. The new south may not think differently but it sure is acting differently. Check out Atlanta, Raleigh, Tampa, among others.

Is from the south and proudly "not fittin" into the worn haggard stereo- typical roles that have dominated in this area!!!! Raising my children to see into the hearts and souls of people, not passing down racism like a family heirloom.


*passes up on the soap box as this issue is to touchy for me*

well i have had interracial sex many times

actually my last gf was the only woman of my own race i have ever had sex with.

and it is no different it is the person that makes the differencs

i cant really compare as i all my gf were black or black and white mixed. and i did have a one night stand with a white woman once but i cant use that as a yard stick as she was 48 and i was 27. her son is my same age and her daughter 10 years younger than me ( we became friends after that night). sex with her was not very good.

I'll take that soap box! Its hard to get out of old thinking. I am fairly liberal but he culture is sooo different here from Raleigh(my last residence). You can't imagine the difference unless you live it. I'm glad for making the change despite my love of Carolina.( I still love you Tar Heels)

The thread certainly wasn't meant to be racial - it was mearly a question as to whether anyone had had sex with someone from another race and did they enjoy it? I'm with Casper - I like looking at black women and find them really sexy, their skin is beautiful and their smiles melt my heart.

I am from Savannah Georgia where racism runs high but I'll be damned if I won't be with who I want. I am a half breed (Jew Rican) and I look white. I have been through hell because Iggy is Mexican and my skin tone is white. In high school I got shunned because I dated a boy of my own race but he was dark and I am not. I am proud to be a southerner and I am also proud that I am "colorblind." Be you purple, orange , blue or green if you treat me right I'll date ya. If people in Texas are going to treat me like I was treated in Georgia I don't think I want to live there. Not mad at ya txgrneyes but your post brought out a ton of bad memories like my house being vandalized because I didn't stick to my own kind.

I very much admire the courage of a person who can go beyond TRADITION or TREND and state the truth that is theirs.:) I also respect the ability to separate heart from brain, but even more respect the ability to combine them again with the understanding of what each has given us.;)

WhiteNoise, I understand your question was just a straightforward one and asked in innocence. I don't know what the racial situation is in Australia, but hopefully it is better than it is the States...at least in parts of the States. As you can see, it is still very much a hot issue here.

My father tried to kill my future husband (black) and me (white) when we said we were getting married; obviously he didn't succeed, but he did manage to disown me and forbid all of my relatives to see me, including my mother and siblings, for 14 years. We were attacked by fellow students and strangers when we were in graduate school, we were denied housing, and a couple of people tried to get us fired from our jobs. And this was in Southern Illinois and St. Louis. To be honest...and no offense to the South...but it has made me afraid to travel any further South than that. Now, all that was many years ago, and we have found wonderful places to live in various parts of the Midwest where being an interracial couple or family has not mattered at all. Yet...I think we in many parts of the States still have a long way to go. Until that time, interracial dating, sex, marriage, etc. will be touchy subjects.

It is a hot potato everywhere in the world and I'm a little disappointed that it got turned into something it was never meant to be.

I think it is sad that some people went straight there without any direction from the original thread.

Sorry if it offended anyone, it wasn't meant to.

I don't think people are offended, merely having a discussion, and it is an excellent topic! People are expressing how when you set race as the main criteria for anything it becomes an issue for some. Here in America some/many people who have sex with/ marry/ date people from another race often have lots of societal/family issues to deal with. Would you have preferred a simple yes or no answer from people? It seemed only natural when discussing it to include how you were effected by making the choice to do so, and/or what led to making that choice.

Well, I ain't going to argue with the T-X. *LOL*

btw I think txgrneyes shows how hard it can be to struggle between what you have been taught and the realization that it may not be completely accurate! I applaud her effort and her courage in looking at things in a different light.

and the strenght to bring it forward.:eek:









(long journey, single step and all that)

Well thank you Lilith and Pantyfanatic...I got nervous when I started reading the replies to my post.

Basically it is simple...and I am raising my children with this also,

"What you do in your own home is none of my business and that goes the same for what you or who you do in the bedroom. But when it is brought in front of me and I don't approve I have a choice to say something or not. Most the time I choose not to say anything unless asked. Which to sum it up easily...If you dont want someone telling you how to live then dont tell them how they should live." It is that plain and simple.

And as far as raising my children to beleive the "tradition"....I just want my kids to grow up and live a happy life. If they choose to live with someone of the same sex or of another race then I will discuss this with them and listen to them. I will not judge them since it is not my place to do so. IF they ARE truely happy then I will respect their choice. I am sorry if this offends anyone. My kids happiness means more to me than anything else. And that is what I strive for.

I haven't yet. I'm not seeking it out as it has never been a fetish or goal of mine to specifically sleep with someone of a certain race. I am just looking for love where ever I may find it. Life's too short and love is too hard to find to limit myself.

well i have never dated anyone of my exact racial makeup so all of my fun times have been with women if diffrent races. my bama is 100% pale and pasty she is my favorite kracka to eat my very own ritz bits. I am in alabama and that would be the deep south we have never had a problem here with people so it might not be a southern thing some people may not like seeing bama and i together my only responce to them is too bad for you because i happen to think we are wonderful together and not bad people. So here is a bump to a subject i think people might want to think more about.


Taste The RainBow :line:

No need to bump, marlborodasreds.

We Pixies are only happy that bama's happy, without racial reservations.

It's good that you are too.

"Race" is an unfortunately important historical & societal concept. It has no validity other than that.

One of my girlfriends is perceived "black". I'm perceived 'white". So?

There remain miles to go before we rest.

I agree
 

Ain't that the truth.

I'm perceived "bitch."

I've screwed with that ^^^ race ofter. :doorpeek:

Getting a bit frosty?

Bitch is just a slang term for "sex with attitude"

I have seen too much of it throughout the world to think otherwise.