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Loulabelle 06-05-2003 03:45 PM

Name me one......
 
.....large breasted woman who could be considered a positive role model.


After my comment in one of the 'Would you rather' threads Fussy and I have been trying to think of a female celebrity who is large breasted but does not where the 'Slut' or 'Fat' label.

It seems that while 'apparently' the world likes large breasted women.....the reality is that pretty much all Hollywood stars are thin as pins with pretty small breasts (even the ones considered to be busty are probably less than a C cup) and that those who are bigger busted (whether real or fake) are thought of as slutty or fat.

Please tell me I'm wrong........

Tipper 06-05-2003 03:49 PM

Edith Bunker....Mom....Rita McNeil.....Kate Smith...damn I hated when she sang 'god bless america during the hockey games...my team always lost.

Loulabelle 06-05-2003 03:50 PM

Maybe it's just in England then.....I've never heard of any of those people! Lol

Tipper 06-05-2003 03:52 PM

Now darling....how can the English tell big from smalll....you're always under an umbrella....which begs the question....is looking under an umbrella...the same as looking under a kilt????
and that sand comment.....like that gritty sand in Abersock

skipthisone 06-05-2003 03:53 PM

I look up to Jenna Jameson....but prolly not what you are looking for

But to be honest, I am so very not a breast man that I cannot tell you.

Tipper 06-05-2003 03:55 PM

PLUS...I do know some big titted English girls.....jiggle jiggle jiggle.....jump girls jump...lol

Loulabelle 06-05-2003 03:59 PM

Skip - that's exactly my point. Unless you're actively looking for large breasts you're not going to find them! Lol

Tipper - I know plenty of real life large breasted English women.....and they all feel the same about their breasts: Like they wish they didn't have them!

Tipper 06-05-2003 04:00 PM

well Lou.....I suppose in an intilectual way.....with deep thoughts involved.....I could only hope....they would let me feel them also.

Loulabelle 06-05-2003 04:02 PM

Lol.....Thanks for making me laugh Tipper........please save me from drowning in this VAT of self doubt and insecurity! Lol x

skipthisone 06-05-2003 04:03 PM

Ok, i found one, and I mean this in all sincerity. Based even on my limited knowledge from the time at pixies, I look up to you Lou. If given the chance I am sure I would say the same of other large breasted brainy woman as well.

Tipper 06-05-2003 04:04 PM

always remember.....when the going gets tought the tough get going...bye




or.....as I was once told years ago.....when you are up to your arm pits in water, with crocidile's all around......who gives a fuck which way the swamps supposed to drain.

T-S 06-05-2003 04:07 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by skipthisone
Ok, i found one, and I mean this in all sincerity. Based even on my limited knowledge from the time at pixies, I look up to you Lou. If given the chance I am sure I would say the same of other large breasted brainy woman as well.


I'm with Skip on this one :)

Loulabelle 06-05-2003 04:12 PM

I'm not much of a role model to myself though am I?!

All I'm saying is that for women like me (and I'm sure I can think of a few others here at Pixies) there is no-one to identify with in a positive way.......no-one who is respected and admired (for either beauty or brains) without being first thought of as something else.

It makes it very hard to consider oneself attractive when there's no-one else out there like you who is thought of in that way.

To tell you something pretty sad, one of the women I think I can most relate to in terms of appearance would be Monica Lewinski........she's a curvaceous brunette who's a million miles away from the Hollywood ideal, very attractive facially (from what I've seen) but not only was she branded a slut but a fat one at that! Lol......does anyone here see what I'm getting at?

Aqua 06-05-2003 04:19 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by skipthisone
Ok, i found one, and I mean this in all sincerity. Based even on my limited knowledge from the time at pixies, I look up to you Lou. If given the chance I am sure I would say the same of other large breasted brainy woman as well.

I third the motion. Although I imagine you're asking for 'stars' with big breasts. I also really looked up to SFC. You other old-timers know who I'm talking about. Big beautiful breasts and posts that would leave me sounding like Keanu Reeves... "Whoa..."

skipthisone 06-05-2003 04:22 PM

I do, but I cannot say there is anyone on TV or things like that for me niether, but then again, I will never look up to those people because they are everything I hate and should not be looked to as role models period.

I have a horrible self perception, maybe for a lot of the same reasons as you Lou, but that is why I have my jesting attitude and probably why I hit the books a little harder and tried to make something of myself.

Lets face it, in a certain number of years we are all unattractive drifts of wrinkling skin slobbering on ourselves, least you will have somewhere to put a napkin so it wont make your crotch look wet.

Oh and Lou...(((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))) )))))), you are one of the best damn people I know.

Lilith 06-05-2003 04:42 PM

Funny when selecting a role model I have never ever once noticed her breast size..... Maybe because I am an average breasted woman or maybe because it is not my issue. My role models have been real every day women working hard to enact changes not Hollywood people. They don't have names you would recognize, or makeup artists and dressers. They have families and jobs and responsibilities and I suppose breasts, but frankly, I don't respect them because they have big/little boobs. I respect them because they have brilliant minds and caring hearts.




I can't tell you a public figure role model with big boobs cause frankly I never checked them out.

BlueSwede 06-05-2003 04:48 PM

How about Sophia Loren? Sex symbol, yes, but also respected, I think. Susan Sarandon?

Lilith 06-05-2003 04:52 PM

http://globetrotter.berkeley.edu/Pu...arch/women.html


Try some of these.....I have no idea if they have big boobs but surely one does :p


Oh and I just saw 2 bigger sized women mentioned somewhere, Rosie Odonnel and Star Jones.

monocrow 06-05-2003 05:05 PM

http://www.qctimes.com/bodysoul/1001709.html

Jamie Lee Curtis talking about movie stars, the American image, and menitioning that she has "very big breasts and a soft, fatty little tummy".

Lilith 06-05-2003 05:16 PM

Yes Monocrow!!!! I just thought of her and Oprah!


My 2 main role models that have even somewhat recognizable names are Zora Neale Hurston and Dr. Rosalind Franklin. One began to chronical the social importance of her people and one basically solved the riddle of DNA. Can't tell ya bout their boobs though *shrugs* but I know they got 'em ;)

kleclere 06-05-2003 05:24 PM

Dolly Parton has don't remember anyone but maybe her ex husband calling her a slut. Oprah was big at one time not considered a slut. Raquel Welch is big not considered a slut. Let me think on it. Could definitely name you more big breast stars considered sluts though.

Lilith 06-05-2003 05:50 PM

Sharniqua is someone I have always looked to as a role model (although I think I am older than she is...she has taught me alot about being open and expressing myself) and if memory serves me she has big breasts :p

Aqua 06-05-2003 06:13 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by Lilith
Sharniqua is someone I have always looked to as a role model (although I think I am older than she is...she has taught me alot about being open and expressing myself) and if memory serves me she has big breasts :p

LMAO @ Lilith!

ericthered 06-05-2003 10:15 PM

Lilith, of course. And Sharni -

Loulabelle 06-06-2003 01:10 AM

Lilith - Perhaps 'Positive role model' was the wrong expression to use........but what I'm getting at is this:

There are certain people with in society who are considered 'beautiful' and whether we like it or not, it is from these people that we learn where we fit in in the 'beauty stakes'. If you are smaller breasted there are a hundred and one people for you to relate to. However, while everyone in society feels the need to reassure smaller breasted women that 'size isn't everything' larger breasted women do not recieve any such reassurance from the society as a whole and there are not really any women considered 'beautiful' whom a large breasted woman can relate to.


Now this may seem strange, but I am not someone for whom looks are important.......not when it comes to my partner and not when it comes to myself. I've never considered myself attractive, so it's a non issue.....but there are a lot of people out there for whom looks do make a difference and in the past I have been the butt of jokes because of my breasts. I've also been treated as though I'm some kind of slut because of them, and an average trip to the clothes shop or the underwear store makes me feel like some kind of freak. In fact it wasn't until I came to Pixies that anyone other than one of my boyfriends said anything NICE about them, despite them being the topic of much conversation and humour amongst my group of friends.

krzykrn 06-06-2003 02:44 AM

Well, one I can sort of see, well, when she was popular, was Jennifer Love Hewitt as a teen role model when her career was at its peak. She was constantly called by various magazines as "America's sweetheart" since she had a wholesome attitude and look to her. Haha Skip your comment about JJ is funny, I actually saw her at a lingerie fashion show once, man she is really short and petite, for some reason I thought she would be taller, but I digress.

Scarlett 06-06-2003 08:52 AM

I know right where you are coming from with the clothes shopping Loulabelle. I went through a phase where I was upset because bras that were big enough to fit me only came in three colors: white, beige, and maybe black. All of my tops have to be extra large, not because I am fat but to fit over my breasts. No cute little halter tops for me. :(

Vintage Vixen 06-06-2003 09:14 AM

Cameron Mannheim of The Practice is a gorgeous babe who happen's to be big n beautiful...never heard anyone refer to her in a negative way...big boobs ,beautiful face, and a great actress also a single mom by choice.That i admire:) Then there's Queen Latifah...a beautiful sucessful,singer and actress who also happens to be a big beautiful woman....I myself am a bbw 46dd's and i'm no ho lol...i happen to love the way i look self confidence can do wonders...and you don't have to be a size 6 to look and feel good about who you are:)

babybunny 06-06-2003 09:51 AM

Beauty, Brains and Self Resepct are a rare combination...But I think you will find those that do posses all 3, gather here at Pixies. :)

lakritze 06-06-2003 04:41 PM

One comes to mind and BOY does she come to mind.Nigella Lawson.YUM!!!!! Love that woman.

stiffman 06-07-2003 01:14 AM

in asia men like females to have large and ripe breast.
and by nature they have big breast.


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