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Random Anonymous Cyber

For those of you who cyber I was wondering if you prefer a drive-by, wham-bam-TY-ma'am, type cyber with as many different people as possible or if you prefer to have some sort of friendship/ relationship with the people you engage in cyber sex with?

I saw this discussed on another board and found it very interesting. Curious to see what you lovies think.

I'm not a random cyberer (hell I'm not a cyberer at all anymore!)

What I mean to say is that when I DID cyber, I prefered to get to know the person a little bit first.

After all, how can you possibly be like: 'OMG I really want to fuck you' with someone if you have no idea if you really would want to fuck them in reality?

I'm a little too choosy for random sex, online, on the phone, in real life....it's just not my style.

Actually one of my biggest pet-peaves is those people that know no-one in a chatroom and come begging for a quicky fuck....Not opposed to it in real life, but that is different.. :D

I go to other chat rooms. Most idiots just jump into your PM box and go off about how beautiful they think you are and how big their cock is and how far they are going to ram it into you.....this just after asking a/s/l.....yada, yada, yada......LMAO!

On MSN you can put them on ignore.......and most times they just go away. But if they are really big assholes....they talk about you in the room.....then the whole room puts them on ignore.

Nope.....I love spontaneity if I know you a bit.....but don't just jump in my box and I won't just jump in yours! K?

But lixy I love jumping into your "box" errr ummm shhhh don't tell anyone ;) hehehe

I don't really like Cybering...it gets boring after a while and most of the time you just want to beat the shit out of the prissy little fucker that decided to say "Yo whatsup? Wanna hop on my dick for a quick ride?" ::rolls her eyes:: Most people are too annoying to afford them a second glance.

But if it's with someone you know, like ur s/o for instance then I'm all for it ^.^ Done it a couple times with him. It was good cuz I knew that if he said anything stupid I could just smack him the next time I saw him. Heh...my roleplaying skills shocked him I think.

LMFAO@Fussy
 

Fill my mouth so I won't be able to tell, hun! ;)

oh I am fighting soooo hard not to make a joke about nothing being big enough to shut your mouth up lixy honey hehehe
ooooooooooooooooooopsie ;) you know I love ya !

LOL Fussy!

Back in my anonymous cybering days, I preferred a slight connection first and they had to type well! Lots of typos was a big turn off for me!

Steph?? So you're the one who used to circle my mistakes!

I type lkie shti wehn im horny:D:D:p

I like to make friends with the people I get with in cyber. So ladies don't worry about me trying to getting into your box on our first chat. :) Just look out on the preceding ones.

I like to get to know some one first it annoying when people just come into chat and just start asking everyone if they want to cyber it's kind of like going into a bar and walking up to every girl and asking if they want to go off and fuck I realy don't have problems with PMing for some reason maybe it's my nick or women just don't do it as much I'm not sure

I like to get to know people first. I think it makes both people a little more comfortable with everything. Ok....well it makes me more comfortable :D Don't do it very often but if the right person comes along.....you never know ;)

OMG!!!!! That was the shortest battle in history, Fussy luv! How long did you fight before you typed that.......a 1/4 of a second?

ROFLMFAO!

Oh...and I'll give ya ooooooooooooooooooopsie!

*Jotting something down in my Pixies notebook*

NOTED!

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr!

38 and a cyber virgin.

I generally don't mind being PMed for an "off to the side" private chat about some topic -- ANY topic -- but these guys who buzz me for a PM and the first thing they say is a/s/l REALLY irritates me. My name should be enough to give a strong educated guess on my sex. What the heck is the difference where I am located??? Age might matter, but getting to know me on some level would tell you more at the emotional age I act upon, rather than my physical age.

I was having cyber sex long before almost anybody else was. I started in 1986! I enjoy it, but it's NOT like the real thing at all. I would much rather have a written story that I can come back to later, or one I wrote and have multiple people enjoy it than just one.

Never really liked the idea of the cyber, tried it only one time, and well it wasn't that fun. I have a pretty good imagination so why not just please myself and not have to worry about distracting myself by typing. The only time I did cyber was with an ex-girlfriend, and she wasn't all that imaginative. I will say though that if I had to cyber it would be with someone I have a history with (even if just an online history). I guess I look at cyber as a way to scratch the itch of satisfying someone else, cause I can satisfy myself without it. If you don't know the person, why are you that interested in pleasing them? Well I've said to much.

I'm definitely the exception to what's been posted. Back when I cybered a lot, I didn't want to get to know anybody. If I did end up having conversations w/some of the people, we usually ended up being on line friends (still have some such friends I talk w/on line daily), and once we started to get to know each other, I didn't want to cyber w/them anymore. But my reasons for doing such were rather unique or, let's say, unusual circumstances. Ironically, in spite of the fact that I am in a LDR with my fiance, we don't have cyber sex; we just IM each other.

Being relativly new to cyber my experiences have been somewhat limited. However, I will only cyber with someone that I am totally comfortable with... someone that I have gotten to know and care about. - and when we are done, we can have a cig and talk about our day :) !

I DON"T like being in chat and getting a PM that is too direct from someone that I do not know... that just annoys me to no end. Especially if it is from another woman... I have found that women are more forward than the men are... and don't take no for an answer so I just put them on ignore...

Cheyanne~ some of those "women" are men:o

Oh i see it is always the man's fault

Isn't it always :D

And your point is...? :D

LOL@ skip, T-S & BlueSwede :D

There was a time.... not too terribly long ago............................................... .................................................. ............... opps.. sorry.. got lost in the memory... excuse me... as I was about to say...

There was a time... not long ago.. that I cyber'd regularly. It was something that I enjoyed doing and was (for a time) a diversion from my typical ho-hum masturbation routine. I was not one who made a practice of cyber'in with complete strangers, tho I did do that from time to time.

Instead.. for me.. I first had to feel some sort of connection with the man that I chose to have fun with. NO.. not love.. or anything like it... but an attraction... a spark...

I haven't cyber'd in months... actually I can't even remember the last time. I came (excuse the pun) to realize, that altho cyber was a nice way to enjoy masturbation it left me rather empty. I began utilizing the phone instead... something that altho is still only another form of masturbation excites my senses more... there is just something about the sound of a man breathing heavy that gets me going :)

Cyber is foreplay.....

The phone call is exploring all the possibilites......

The meeting is penetration...........

I guess being the trusting person that I am when someone tells me their gender, I believe them... :rolleyes: I can be somehwhat gullable at time... lol

That is why I stick with who I have gotten to know in chat... :)

Jenna... I will heavy breathe for you anytime... Phone sex does SO much more for me than cyber

Although I have been told I tend to grunt a little more as I umm... finish...

As for cyber... I have fun with it... if there is a spark I might just push things... it doesnt have to be with someone I know, but its nice to know what someone likes and dislikes....

This is how I feel about it.........I HAVE to at the very least be familiar with the person, have chatted with (non-cyber) at least a few times prior to even thinking about cybering with them.

I think a "drive-by" type cyber would leave me feeling quite empty and possibly even "used". But that's just me..........

And then there are the few I would absolutely LOVE the chance to cyber with but haven't had any indication that the other person even thinks about me "that way." :( :(

Cyber, what's that :D