Talking dirty
 

What is the dirtiest thing you ever said or had said to you during sex?

And did it turn you on or not?

HHHMMM the dirtiest thing I've said during sex is usually just descriptive stuff "Sweetie please fuck my pussy with that big huge cock of yours...PLEASE!!"
Said to me...descriptive stuff too"You want me stuff your beautiful pussy with my cock"...but hubby sometimes likes to tell me I'm a slut...or a whore...a naughty little girl...or a goddess....or beautiful

Talking dirty totally turns me on...in a huge way. If fact my pussy right now is wet just from thinking about it!Now I have to go to work with damp panties...

I'll go with you
 

.. so you have a place to sit. :p

Probably because I was raised not to say certain things in front of women, I like to watch my partner's eyes, listen to the soft whispers and such. I feel like maybe I'm the only quiet one during sex. I just don't talk a lot, maybe "let's try this" or "damn Baby you feel good". I've had gf's talk and say wonderfully dirty things to me and I love it but I tend to concentrate on the moment and not make a lot of sounds. Maybe that's why nobody's been in my bed for a long time.

I remember asking a girl, while having anal, whether it made her feel dirty. She said yes so I start calling her a slut and she just started bucking harder and harder. Afterwards I asked her if she liked me saying those things and her comment was "well, your cock was in my ass at the time so, hell yeah, it turned me on heaps"

She wore pig tails the next time. *S*

I am VERY vocal.. but for the life of me.. I can't really recite anything in particular that I have been known to say while in the head of the moment... what ever comes out.. whatever feels good.. hmmmmm... it is an essential part of sex for me..

BigBear... you may not be "vocal"... but I am willing to bet that those sounds you do make are completely wonderful. :)

not dirty or overheard during sex but 2 sexiest words..........



















"yes ma'am" ;):p

Would quoting "Say my name bitch" from American Pie count here?

Well Thank You Jenn, I'll listen to you and give you some quotes for this thread. I'll remember all those juicy words.:yellghst:

I sometimes think that whoever has the misfortune to end up in bed with me, must wish they had a gag, because when I'm really horny I just talk and talk and talk! Most of the time I can't even remember what I say, or it all comes out in a jumble of nonsensical obscenities but Fussy has been known to hear me beg on occasions:

'I don't care if you hurt me - just fuck me hard!!!!!'

erm.....yes....well.....ahem....*blushes*

As for the dirtiest thing anyone's ever said to me.....again that's pretty tricky but I have been called a 'cruel bitch' once or twice....hehehe....I love to tease! :D

Are you really evil Lou ;) :D

i am pretty quiet during sex but one of my ex girlfriends opened me up to talking during sex, i am addicted to haveing my girl talk dirty to me when i am fucking her.

she loved to talk dirty eg,

make me your whore, i am your slut,

this pussy is yours, all yours, do what you wanty to me, this pussy is yours to do as you please

fuck me hard , mash up my pussy, fuck me hard , i want to feel you ram my cunt deep, i want to feel your cock ramming my womb

fuck your whore, fuck me hard, fill me with your cum, make me your whore

fuck me till i am sore , ram your cock hard,

i cant remember the rest now but when i di i will post it

she made me addicted to talking dirty and really opened me up sexually in many ways

one that comes to mind is that of rape, i have not been able to have this.

she loved to be raped particularly after we had a fight, i loved it too, ripping her clothes off and fucking her hard.

talking dirty to her while i fuck her till she is sore and raw, saw traces of blood a few times

who is your fucking man, who is the boss, dont play the ass with me again , take this cock , take it deep, i am your man remember that.

she loved it alot , i think she flirted with guys and started arguments just to experience it.


on other occasions if i felt insecure or angry with her, disappointed in her behavour( taking me forr granted etc)
she would rape me.

rip off my shirt drag down my pants give me a blowjob, then throw me on the bed and ride my cock( she called this fucking me) she would squeese her pussy tight and fuck me hard anf fast whild talking dirty to me and biting my neck lips and chest hard

she says

i am your woman all yours , this is my cock and i want it now , it is mine when ever i want it, give it to me, give it to me now

it was great

she was the best sexual partner i ever had, she opened me up and blew my mind.

no woman can turn me on like she did and i have never nor will ever have sex that god again.

unfortunately all good things come to an end , i caught her cheating, forgave her and then caught her again, so we ended it.

after 2 years i can now see that it had nothing to do with me but she got a great thrill from the danger of cheating.

"Who the hell are you???????"

:D <------CasperTG.

naughtyeddie, what you described is how I often talk to my fiance' and how I am trying to get him to talk to me. He is much quieter in bed than I am, and I have been encouraging him to talk more, because I love it. The only things I can't tolerate are being called a bitch, slut, or whore. You can talk about me belonging to you or parts of my body belonging to you, but I can't stand anything resembling humiliation, anger, or disrespect.

I often remind him of what he should do if I get mad at him or he gets mad at me, and that's to escort me into the bedroom and fuck my brains out.

He will tell me that this pussy and ass are his, that I just carry them, and that I can't touch them without his permission. When he talks that way, he's half serious and half teasing. Recently he said not to touch my pussy without his permission, and I retorted that it doesn't like to be put on hold. He said, "It already is." That's true, considering the fact that he is out of the country, hasn't been able to do anything to it himself since last Sept, and won't be with me again until this summer. He knows I still give it a heck of a workout myself, though, whenever I can.

I am taking notes regarding what you posted to give him and myself some more ideas when we finally CAN go at it. ;)

thats the same as my gf blue.. nothing disrespectful. i want her to talk more but she is quite quiet.

although we made a film recently and she was a little more vocal.. wen i was cumming she said "cum in my mouth baby.. and on my face.. mmm"

hot..

Blueswede - you've got me thinking about the whole 'Bitch' thing again. I never thought I would tolerate it, but sometimes when a certain person is really losing it and I've got my nails digging in his back, he'll just come out with it and because Iknow he doesn't really think I am one, and that it's just that he's losing control as he goes over the edge, it bebcomes a real turn on.

I wouldn't want him saying it just for mybenefit, but when he says it because there are just so many obscene thoughts chasing through his head, and I'm goading him and urging him on, it's fantastic. :p

I wonder who that 'bitch' is talking about ?? :D:D

Oh and BTW anyone would call you a 'cruel bitch' if you were doing to their squishy bits what you were doing to mine with your tongue, lips, hands, TEETH.........excuse me I have to go take care of a memory :D

Loulabelle, I have a particular reason for not being able to tolerate being called bitch, slut, or whore or having things said to me in a tone of humiliating me or being angry with me. I was raped. For the most part I've overcome its impact on me except when it comes to the stuff I first mentioned here. The incident involved a lot of name calling, anger, and humiliation, and experiencing anything close to that just opens up the wound all over again. Ironically, I am a "bottom," and I thrive on that in the bedroom, but it just can't involve the name calling and humiliation in particular. I DO tell my fiance that when I'm upset or he's upset I'd like him to escort me to the bedroom and fuck the hell out of me, but I mean that more in the sense of like when your kid is having a tantrum and you "calmly" hold them or restrain them until THEY calm down.

blue swede

i can understand how you feel about being called a whore due to your experiences

but my ex has only been raped by her boyfriends and i have only raped or been raped by my girlfriends, the love we share makes it erotic.

well she liked the feeeling of being humilated and she loved to have her hair pulled while being fucked from behind.


wee, i guess she loved living out her fantasies.

role play between a couple is allways fun.

i never thought i would be into role play nad talking dirty but she sold me without even asking. experiencing it once you cant turn back.

casper

i dont understand what you mean by who the hell am i ?

explain?

naughtyeddie - I'm not sure what you're talking about would actually class as 'rape'. Rape is forcing someone to have sex when they are unwilling. If both parties are enjoying it and are consensual (even if they are pretending not to be) then I don't think you can classify it as rape.

Of course it's entirely possible to rape an SO, but I'm assuming that you have not been forcing yourself upon an unwillling partner!

Blueswede - I can totally understand your reasons; I have no doubt I'd feel exactly the same if I were in your position......words are a far more powerful force than a lot of people think and the psychological damage they can cause is far more lasting than any physical pain can ever be. But good for you for having got so far in getting over the experience. It's good to see that you're not letting the bastard ruin your life. :) x

loulabelle

you are correct, it was more unscheduled roleplay than actually rape. i actually did not want to have sex when we were argueing but because i love her and she was skillful too, i could not help but get turned on and go along.

sorry for misrepresenting what went on. but it was highly erotic , what a trn on

Naughtyeddie, I knew what you meant when you were referring to "rape." However, I agree with Loulabelle that even if at first you don't feel like making love, if you change your mind and do get turned on by what is happening, so to speak, it may be roleplaying rape but isn't really rape. Believe me, when you're really raped, you in no way, shape, or form want the act to take place.

Thanks, Loulabelle, for the kind remarks. Strangely enough, about the only time I ever have nightmares about what happened anymore is when I am in stressful situations in which I feel I have no control over what is happening, situations that have nothing to do with sex but may be things involving finances or my job or my kids. The exceptions are what I mentioned earlier--the name calling, etc.

sorry for being insensitive and daft
 

bluesweede

on reflecting my last post i realise that i was totally insensitive and rather thick i nthe skull.

what i have experienced cant be refered to by the same name as what you experienced.

role play is merely that it is still far from the real thing.

i never intended to trivialise what you experienced , i must have gotten too caughtup in memories or my erotic games.

sorry, please accept my apppologies

eddie

Oh, Heavens, eddie, no apologies are necessary! :) I understood what you were talking about when you first used the term. I am glad that you posted what you posted in the first place; it gave me more ideas. ;) It's very sweet of you, though, to offer your apology, and it touches my heart. :)

thanks blue swede, i was just feeling bad about being insensitive.

but i do love talking dirty and being talked dirty to. it rally turns me on. the only exception was with my last ex when she told me fuck me harder , is that all you got. well i lost my erection , i guess that type of motivation dosent work for me,

i respond to praise rather than being challenged.

talking dirty is erotic particularly when it is with the one you love

I totally agree with you, eddie, that it's particularly stimulating with someone you love. Also, I can't imagine responding positively to someone "challenging" their lover in that way either. If someone said to me, "Is that as tight as you can get?" I'd probably want to pop 'em one besides losing my desire! ;)

This thread has gone to places I didn't think it would go but I'm glad it opened up some good conversation.

And if I call a girl bitch or slut in bed I usually make sure I know where I stand with her. If you say the wrong thing, well, sex comes to a halt pretty quickly.

White Noise makes a good point. It's just like comedy--it helps a lot to know your audience.

For instance, I would NOT recommend asking this, unless you're as certain about your partner as I was about the lady in question at the time. (I later learned that I was wrong to feel so certain, but that's another story. One of many....)

"So, what was your name again?"

This, of course, fell into the categories of things to say during (or, in this case, after) sex and comedy. You really should have a good idea of where you stand. Also, it helps to be an experienced smart-ass like myself--kids, don't try this at home.

Smart arses like me and Flynn have to be careful - when we get someone in bed we don't want them leaving too quickly. *LOL*