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:::~Imperfection~:::
We know that beauty comes in all shapes, sizes, colors, etc. but I recently was reading at another forum and someone said they had a thing for "slut-gut":o
Now when I got past it being a derrogatory reference, I started thinking and about our bodies and what some possible typical "imperfections" (and no I don't like that word at all, but am at a loss for another one) may turn people on. I know some people dig it when people have the small gap in their front teeth like David Letterman or Madonna. Personally I feel it is some of these physical traits that make people unique and attractive. Is there something that some may consider a - that you consider a +???????? |
I enjoy women who exhibit bizarre behaviour such as enjoying my
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Who would want someone perfect anyway, I think that everyone is turned on my some trait others may not like which in my opinion means there is someone out there for everyone.
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OK I completely agree but what is that trait for you STO?????? That is what I wanna know:p.
and Oldfart~ you must luuuuuurrrrrrrv me then ;) |
For me it's not physical trait, but entirely attitude. I don't put a lot of value in our society's ideas of physical attractiveness.
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Hmmmm that is a hard one. I am not attracted to a particular "imperfection" but I do think that this makes a person more approachable.
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I agree with Gecko, you only have an unattractive trait if you think you do. I honestly cannot say or point to one thing that just makes me go nuts. The only thing i could say that about is their brain, I tend to dig geeks and nerds, but ones with attitudes!
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Always gotta love the Teddy bear tummy, nice soft and cuddly.
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There is a saying.... "The mind sees what it wants to see, but the heart sees what the heart sees" (Ahhh Babylon 5 was the BEST show ever).... Anyone ever see Shallow Hal? This thread is sorta like that... I never saw the movie but its certainly seems funny... I mean... to my most women don't have flaws... they have "beauty inhancing traits"... a friend of mine is quiet and has a slight lisp... but I had a crush on her awhile ago... heh... she is also plump... which is fine... I mean I don't personally like a woman as big (or bigger) then I am... so a medium girl is just right.
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I have always loved slightly pointy noses on women. I was dating this woman in college who worked in the bookstore. When I was explaining to my friendwhich girl in the bookstore, he said "Oh, Tara with the witchnose!"
I find them incredibly cute. |
Most men prefer women a size or two bigger than women think they like and for me a backside with a wobble is my "imperfect" perfection.
You're right Martian those cheeky noses are cute and if the wiggle at the end.............. |
I think height could be one for me.... I have a 'big' thing for small girls.... petite, and with small breasts..... makes me just wanna shelter them, hold them close and protect such fragile beauties from the big bad world!
Having said that, I've drooled over many a tall lady too.... so it's not an obsession! Just a quirk that I think is awesome! CasperTG |
i've always loved dark haired white men and hairy chests, but they aren't always necessary. what i am attracted to most is an intelligent man and a sense of humor. :)
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I believe everyone is unique in there own way and they are more beautiful than they think. Physical beauty is one thing, but inner beauty is what really counts.
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I completely agree sex_24_7!!!!!!!
But that being said I always look twice at a man with a cleft chin;) |
Lil, you can't see my chin for the beard.
Luuuurrrrrvvvvv the Lilith. |
I have always had a thing for Freddie Mercury's overbite! I know......I know.......he would have cared less for me......but I thought he was a doll! Oh.....I miss him now......waaaaaa!!!!!
Apparently I have a thing for guys with (larger than normal lips)......and so explains my going gaga for Steven Tyler! I truly love humor and intelligence! Weird, huh? Oh...and for some reason........left handed guitar players who can sing as well as play. Jimi Hendrix gives/gave me goosebumps! So let's picture this combined.........A black man who plays guitar left handed as he sings to me with those luscious lips and protruding teeth.........and after the serenade he makes me laugh at his political satire. Oh my! Lemme at him! |
LOL Lixy .... I don't know about the guitar playing, but the rest sounds just like that sit com actor from the 70's (or 80's - they all run together in my head) - Jimmy Walker (at least I think that was his name)
And I have a mouth thing too .... I love prominant canine teeth- find that sooooo sexy!!! |
I know Lilith is a JT fan, too, so this one is entirely appropriate - when I saw James Taylor in concert, I noticed he's got a bee-you-tee-ful vein on his forehead when he's hitting a high note. He's the sexiest bald man I know for that reason!
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OMG Yes Steph~ actually I have a thing for veins too..........especialy the kind that show on forearms. Knew a trumpet player once who had the sexiest forearms. JT.......yummmmmmm
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I think the term, "imperfection" may not be exactly accurate. The native American rug makers always made a minor variance in two otherwise identical rugs. This was to make each one of them unique.
I am full of uniqueness. I like how one particular songwriter put it when he said, "You are what you are, and you ain't what you ain't" I personally am attracted to women with a raspy voice. Demi Moore and Lauren Bacall both make me sit up and take notice. |
love tatoos and having something to cuddle into!
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When you find this perfect person let me know I would like to meet them. I like a man with dark hair and kind eyes and nice hands. I have always had this thing about hands for some reason. I like nice strong looking hands. I also like a big guy with a little extra meat on his bones cause it's more snuggly.
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I agree................beauty within is the Key. I have been with all types and I am completely attracted to Brains and personality. The Physical attributes come next..........................then I look at how I'm gonna Ravage.................ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhyeahhhhhhhhh hhhMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM !!!!!!!!!!!! :) (getting back into my chair) whoooooooweeeeeeeeeee
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I enjoy the company of BBW!
There is also something about large clits that drive me wild |
I can't BELIEVE that no-one has mentioned scars?!?!?!?!?!
That is the ultimate in 'imperfection' (and I agree with everyone else about that word) yet it hasn't been mentioned yet! One of the best things about getting with a new lover is lying down after sex and discovering the little bits and pieces you missed earlier when lust blinded you to them. And little scars, from operations, childhood accidents etc are imperfections which I cherish on a partner I'm fond of. This, to me, makes them very sexy, especially when they're in a tucked away place and so I know that only I have the priveledge of viewing them. The same can be said for little beauty spots or moles too. |
Playing connect the freckles.mmmmmmmmm
Loulabelle, I too love scars!!!! |
I find large and sensitive labia a great turn-on. The women I've been with who were the best lovers had nice large labia and clits.
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All of my friends can't stand facial hair... but a neat little goatee is one of the biggest turn-ons for me :) So sexy!
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My fiancee is definitely my "imperfect" perfection. He has some really cute, not flaws, but quirks about him. For example, his pinky fingers are crooked at the second knuckle, and he is pretty hairy. I love it- makes him very snuggly. As far as what he would call imperfect, he is 21 and is starting to lose his hair a bit in front, and I know it drives him crazy, but I really don't notice. I still find him the sexiest person alive.
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