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Re: Is Age Difference a Big Thing?

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Originally posted by BlondeCurlGirl
Just curious about all of you out there....

What has been the biggest age difference between you and a present or former spouse/significant other, etc?
Has an age difference been an important factor for any of you?

As for myself, my personal situation would have to be a 24 y/o guy I was seeing when I was 20. Maybe it was just the guy, but he made me feel like I was too immature for him, so we had to part ways. After that, every guy has always been younger than me. But I'd definitely like to have a relationship with someone older and more experienced in the near future :cool:

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Originally posted by Sugarsprinkles
I believe that the younger you are the more the age difference matters. My very first serious relationship, I was 16, he was 21 and egaged and later married. He seemed so very grown up and mature to me at the time.
After that I don't think I dated anyone much more than 2 or 3 years older than myself, and NEVER anyone younger. My husband is exactly, almost to the day, older than I.
But Murphy is almost exactly 10 younger than I am. At first I really wasn't sure, thinking it might be a problem. But it really hasn't. Rather than making me feel older, it's done just the opposite. :)

Just read this again and caught a couple of glaring errors (well, to me they're glaring :) ) So I'd like to clarify myself if you all don't mind.
I meant to say that my husband is exactly, almost to the day, 2 years older than I.

Also "But it really hasn't" should read "But it really isn't."

Okay, now that I've taken care of my "goofs", I'd like to add to my original response.....

I also have to agree with Wombat and Wombat's Dinner....it most definitely is the MENTAL fit! You really do have to be able to love together, cry together, and most important to me, LAUGH together!
If you have enough in common and understand each other then age really doesn't enter into it except for your own hang-ups, whatever they may be.

The bigeest age gap for me was about 30 years on two separate occasions. One was an older woman who lived next door to my parents. I was 21 and she was divorced and lonely. She was interested in sex, nothing more and I was only too happy to oblige! Damn she loved to fuck. The second was another older lady when I was 18 and in college. Met her at a bar and went to her house on several occasions to fuck her. I think she was married but she wouldn't admit one way or another ("it doesn't matter" was always her response). Anyway, I didn't care because I was continuously horny and she never said no.

Youngest would have to be 5 years...I was 22, she was 17. However, she was experienced and tore me to pieces. We were lovers for about 3-4 months before she moved away.

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For me.. the biggest age gap was when I was 30 and he was 49. It was by far the best experience of my life thus far.. so I definitely don't see a problem with an age difference..

HOWEVER... that being said.. I think that the older the woman becomes.. the less is matters... :)

i tend to agree with several of the people here, i do not believe that age should have anything to do with love, lust, are whatever, if your physically attracted to the person then that should be all thier is to it, ceptin' for underage cannot condone that, but the largest age gap i have had in a relationship is 15 years, her being the oldest

As long as the connection is there (mind and body) I don't think it matters whether the person is older or younger. Granted, society may frown at it, but...what the hell, do what makes you happy (as long as no one gets hurt).

My biggest gap was 6 years (actually when I look back on my dating activity all the women I have dated were older than me...which is unusual, but I guess younger women don't find me sexy :)) but I would not have a problem being involved with someone younger than me. In fact I would like to experience that just so I make sure I don't miss out on anything ;)

Have always enjoyed older women more sexually...they know what they want and know how to get it.....was married for ten years to someone 2 years my junior....all good...but now dating someone 41....and I am 31....she knows what she likes and tells me so....no head games at all......(well maybe a few...lol)

I'm only 1 year older than Nikki and we get along quite fine. LOL guess that's not a real big age difference.