I wanted to add that I don't condemn anyone who may be involved in something like this.
"Love the person/hate the action"...
Just remember that a break-up is much easier to deal with than lying and deception.
...and that's the Gods-honest-truth.

between the fact that I'm a horrible liar and I have a guilty conscience already my answer would have to be HELL NO! oh yeah, and because Ilove my wife . . . hehe

I love my wife and we have a fun sex life -

However, I have thoughts of others from time to time and have done some reading up on "the lifestyle" and have given some thought to participating in some swinging activities - even if it is some same room/soft swinging activities, I would find it a huge turn on and would keep us honest....

I and my wife now have both had it done to us, that is why we got divorced from them. the good thing is that now WE are together, and love each other VERY much.

I tend to agree Sweetie. There is always a reason for doing the things we do.

what txgrneyes said!!

No I wouldn't. If I wanted to sleep around I wouldn't of gotten married in the first place and made that promise.

I hate to see people who go out on their SO behind their back, I think it's a low low thing to do. Complete break of trust. And could be deadly with all the STDs around. Just plain wrong in my opinion.

I don't see why people are not honest with their partner.. I know a ton of people who have agreements with their husbands/wifes so that everyone involved is okay with it and no one has hurt feelings. The behind the back thing makes no sense to me.

Yes

Yes....
Never have ....yet
Don't want to desire another woman
Don't want to ever hurt my wife
I still Love her with all my heart
But as years have gone by things have changed
She nor I are the same people we were back then.
The real question, as someone asked, is could I live with me.



Sorry to drag up another old thread.
Just needed to vent