<helping PF down off the soapbox>
<now, if you'll steady the box for me, PF>
<ahem>
"My name is Scotz, & I'm an oral freak, too..." Oh sorry, thought this was an OA meeting...
Tazz, she may loosen up as time goes by, mine did a little, but she's still a little squeemish (as Chas said) about the whole cum thing after 26+ years. As far as facials go, I don't care for getting anywhere north of the lips, I like to cum in her mouth, whether she swallows or how much is up to her. I find the sight of a woman with cum dripping from her smiling lips the sexiest thing on earth, not quite so when she is obviously not enjoying it.
Chas, I don't know about being able to control how fast I cum, maybe that one guy is a special case... when I cum, control is kinda out the window! (think wounded bear in heat) It might be a good thing if I could hold back a little like you said, but I don't think that's doable or desirable. As for taste, what I've read says that diet is a big factor, & unfortunately I eat & smoke all the wrong things... oh well...
All in all, I find this thread both facinating & frustrating, seeing so many women say they enjoy swallowing, facials, and/or tittyfucking, all the things I like, and knowing I'll probably never get enough...

<hopping off the soapbox now... yo OldFart, this thing needs a coat of paint...>

Thanks!
 

I just wanted to say thanks for the opinions! I'm going to try more and more to talk about things and see if that might work. I just know that she's one of those laid back types. Which is fine I'm not going to say anything bad about that, but a little kinky play doesnt hurt anyone does it!?!? I didn't think so! Keep posting! I'm soo glad I started this thread!

TazzMan

I love to watch and feel my hubby cumming on me, whether it be on my tits, tummy, ass, back or face - he can do it anywhere and everywhere ....... but be careful of the eyes - it can sting a little

Oh ...................and yes .............. I swallow too ( just love the taste!!)
:p :p :p

I am not sure what it says about me that this is my first posting, but....oh well....

Facials....YES!!! on my face, neck, boobs, tummy, my bottom (a very special pleasure) I love the feel of cum!!!
I enjoy swallowing, but while in high school, performing my very first blow job, I discovered that the feel of a man's hot cum on my skin is very erotic...so much so that I have sought it out...
One Mardi Gras day, 3 years ago..... but that is for another time.

WW

What it says to me is I wanna hear more about the Mardi Gras incident... please tell us all about it, don't leave out any details (unless the statute of limitations is involved!)

My wife loves a facial... however, a BJ is usually a prelude to a great deal of kissing and more sex... I am not accustomed to tasting my own sperm on her so facial tends to be limited in this case!

Facials are really sexy in my book and I love it when my wife lets me give her one. Not sure it's her favorite, but it is appreciated! :D

Well I like to see it shoot over the woman's face if she is agreeable to it .
It adds something to the moment
Peter

I don't mind have a guy cum all over my face. I don't know why but it seem to excited him when I said yes he can do so. One guy I was with was so pleased that after he came all over my face, he'd licked his cum off my face then kissed me and push his cum in to my mouth!!.

you know, we both love them as we watch on a movie, not really pratical

I like both the visual effect of seeing and taking part. While I don't have any of me, at the moment, I do enjoy looking at 'porn' pics showing sweet nectar covering delightful faces and bodies.

I am in love with Diva. Can't seem to find a way to give or have a facial. Why did I marry this one.

facials
 

I love facials.

There's something wild and deviant about them (my kind of sex ;) ) and I just love to be the first woman to take a guys load on the face. Big turn on. The exhibitionist in me loves the idea that I'm giving him a 'porn film' view!

I wouldn't do it with just anyone though, it's something I do with someone I'm 100% into as I feel it's one of the most intimate things you can do. Then again, having said that, I wouldn't have sex with 'just anyone' either!!!! Lol.

The only thing is, you really do have to keep your eyes tight shut. I don't know anything that hurts as much as sperm in the eye!

Re: facials
 

Of course you're welcome to your opinions and preferences, but I think saying that you "will not sink to that level" is insulting to people who choose to differ. And no-one can "make" you feel like less of a person. That's your reaction to whatever they do. Take responsibility for it.

I'm curious, though. Does your lover go down on you? If so, is he particular about where your fluids end up on him?

I have to agree with Ironwood. I was a bit insulted by it being that I do enjoy it. I'm like A. K. I enjoy giving him the "porn view".
My sister also feels that it is degrading. I respect your opinion, but I don't appreciate your saying it makes someone less of a woman.

Ironwood and DildoDiva:

I'm glad the two of you said that, because the reply I orginally wrote was very much along those lines, as well as including my own preferences but I decided not to post it in the end because it was far too long and I didn't want to bore everyone!

Fortunately that's something I've never been afraid to do. ;)

I can't help but wonder why pepsigirl would think of facials as demeaning. Maybe there's been a bad experience that would explain that. I would think anything done between two people who love each other and enjoy experiencing each other could only be called wonderful.

On the other hand, no doubt if one of the people involved was being pressured into something, maybe it would seem demeaning. It's awfully easy to think our feelings are likely those experienced by others.

I LOVE facials. I would prefer for him to cum in my mouth,
but I love the visual of a facial. I love to lick all that creamy cum
off my face. It just makes me feel sexy all over !!!!!

it can be nice for women too...

(just balancing the effect the previous picture might have had :D )

Pepsigirl....What two people do in the privacy of their own home is not demeaning...it's called love making., sex..fucking..whatever you want to call it. But it's ceratinly not demeaning if you love each other....

I know alot of women are against facials due to watching porn movies...but this is YOUR man, in your bed. Wouldn't you do anything to make him happy??? To keep him in your bed and not anothers??? I know that's what I do.

I have done things that I NEVER thought I would do in bed....and I have never regretted after doing it...because I did it with him..for him...and for myself...and if I get dirty in the process of doing it........

......I take a shower! Somebody invented soap and water for a reason!!!:D :D


And that's my opinion on this subject!! ;) :D

<clapping> You stole the words right out of my mouth Diva!

As for me.....cum, anywhere and everywhere, on me and in me is just fine by me. More more more please :-):D

Looking at some of the facial websites, especially from Japan, some men are using them to humiliate the woman. They are typically part of a bondage scene and may be the girl gets off being tied up and have a man do something so intimate to her without being able to refuse. But it makes you wonder about the man, doesn't it?

On the other hand, it's fun to watch the cum spurting out sometimes. Depending on what we are doing at the time, it could go just anywhere and that's fun too. Can be funny too, like the time the little fellow was sliding up and down between her lips and expecting to deposit his load on her tummy when we must have got the angle right or something and she got a facial from down there...... I'll never forget the expression of surprise on her face!

It's reall nice to have your lady actively trying to milk the cum out of you, and it increases the intimacy when she steers it somewhere nice and treats the cum as a prize. Her face is the most intimate area of her body and if she wants to be that close to the action, well, WOW!

I never warn milady when it's about to happen. She's in charge and who likes a back seat driver? She knows more about the signs of the impending explosion than I do - I'm too busy enjoying it.

Facials aren't a bad thing...it's been a while but i find its very good for the skin lol really.Hnestly works better than oil of olay.
Plus i find it a big turn cuz most guys love giving them if he's happy i'm happy.

it really depends on the lady whether she will let her partner give her a facial or not...if it helps make the sex better or the couple hotter..then why not...again it all depends on the lady and men should respect what their partners want...if they allow you to shoot it then go...if not...well, shoot it elsewhere....

Pepsigirl- Have you ever thought about if he can't get it at home he may look elsewhere for that type of stimulation.

I am not trying to offend but when one woman won't ....there's always one SOMEWHERE who will.

Personally it is not the specific act, but the itimacy in knowing that this is something special that I am doing for my man.

Don't like cum on me. I love it IN me. In any three fuck holes--mouth, pussy, or ass. I'm a cream pie girl! :D

Wouldnt you call that being a twinkie??

Never heard it called that before! I like that name! :D I'm a Creampie or Twinkie girl.

Nope, don't want it on my face, ever.

MY GF LOVED IT ON THE CHEEKS
 

Hi all.

I'm new to the area but wanted to say hi and tell you my experience. Each girl and her ...taste is different for sure.

My girlfriend didn't like it so much around the eyes or forehead but she loved it on her cheeks, lips and chin.

Once when we did a MMF she had both men cum on her cheeks and then she took a two fingers and mixed the two cums together. Then we watch as she smiled at us and licked her fingers clean.

We both almost came again just watching her. Damn she was an erotic woman.

Tony

I think I have a long way to go on this one. My wife will take it (Though not necessarily like it) on her chest, but she'd have to accept it in her mouth before she accepted it on her face.

She says she doesn't like the consistancy. I wonder how I can change that, but that's a different thread.

well my girlfriend doesnt mind it and she sometimes asks for it. she seems to get horny when i am about to cum at her face. By the way she says it works miracles on the skin and it seems to be true(scientifically semen has a high content of E vitamin so i guess it really works ) . her skin gets silky and soft after a facial. :fly:

just have a lil comment to make- pepsigirl if you don't want to do sumthing u shouldnt feel pressured into doing it- no matter how much u love sumone you shouldnt feel that you would lose them- just becos they could 'get that kind of stimulation else where'- if he does- then hes obviously not good enough for you- and you're better off without him!- well thats just my two cents worth lol - also- whatever makes people feel good i say go for it :)

not my favorite, but I don't really mind either.

I mean it does wash off after all, and besides it seems to turn most guys on.

I find that kind of odd though, you would think they would prefer to keep their cocks in our mouths when they come for the stimulation since when they pull out, they are no longer getting tongued.

or is the visual of seeing thier cum all over our faces really that much of a turn on for them?

guys?

i think its more of a turn on when my gf keeps giving me head while I blow my load, and even for awhile after. Of course my gf has a huge gag reflex and doesnt do that anymore :(

what an erotic sight
 

I think the real turn on is seeing the woman accept it on the cheeks and lips and knowing she likes it.

My gf loved it. For me any aspect of sex is only a turn on if both are into it and enjoy the love, lust and sex of it.

What puts me over the edge is seeing my girl ENJOYING being a bad girl and all that includes. If she didn't enjoy it I'd be stone cold turned off.

Tony

Some of you may find this slightly odd coming from a man, but in my own personal opinion I find it somemwhat..... humiliating to the female of the pair. I really don't like the idea and I think would find it disgusting to think that I had done such a thing to any woman. But then again I can't really say anything on this subject as I've never been brought to orgasm orally or even through masturbation. The only oppurtunities I've ever had to shoot anywhere but :ahem: down south were in the threesomes I've had. So, I guess I might as well shut the hell up now.