Gosh, you all don't go easy, do you?


Ando, first:

It was suggested to me that I should answer, "Having Ando3 show up on my doorstep unexpectedly someday." :D

A lot of my fantasies involve being seduced, by someone I know in real life or someone I "know" otherwise. And, as I think I posted in that thread, I do have fantasies about being taken advantage of, not having control...I haven't found anyone to role play that fully with me.

So...nothing really "out there" in my fantasy world--I've already done *those* things. ;)


SugarSprinkles:

Well, several things come to mind right off the bat. I was at karaoke with my sister one night and I got up for the first time by myself. I was going to sing the Carpenters' "Close to You," something I sing to my son all of the time. As the music started...the words stopped. The music continued, though, so I made a split second decision and sang along...without words. :) Then, I think it was the same night, my sister and I got up to sing, "Games People Play" by the Alan Parsons Project...only we'd forgotten that there is a 1:42 musical interval in the middle...so we stood...and stood...and stood...and felt like idiots until it was time to sing again. :)

One of the first times I did karaoke, I got up to sing "Ain't No Mountain High Enough." LOVE that song. Well, I get up there and the song starts...just in time for me to figure out it's the seven minute, mostly TALKING, not singing, version. From that point on, I've always reminded myself that it's the Tammi Terrell version I want, NOT the Diana Ross one. I thought that song would never end!

the line forms behind me to fufil that fantasy IKG....

I knew you had an ulterior motive, Ando. ;)

What is your favorite song to sing?

Hmmmm...*this* post could take a long time. ;)

If you mean as in karaoke, the ones you are most likely to hear me sing are:

Let Me Be There~Olivia Newton-John
I Honestly Love You~Olivia Newton-John
Nobody~Sylvia
Again~Janet Jackson
Dancing Queen~ABBA

I've also been known to karaoke in public to:

Billy, Don't Be a Hero~Bo Donaldson
Hot Child in the City~Nick Gilder
We Built this City~Starship
I Will Survive~Gloria Gaynor
What About Me~Moving Pictures
Shadows of the Night~Pat Benetar
I Think I Love You~Partridge Family

I'm soooooo tempted to sing the Divinyl's "I Touch Myself" at karaoke one night, especially after I watched a group perform it this weekend, but I don't want to offend these poor Iowa farmers.

:)

At home or in the car, you could find me singing to any of those, but I listen/sing a lot to ABBA, Olivia Newton-John, Wilson Phillips, Styx, Chicago, REO Speedwagon, anything from the 80s...hell, anything from the 70s, 60s, and 50s, if you want to be honest. Newer stuff, too. Usually if there's music on, I'm singing. Sing when I'm dancing, too. :D

Then, of course, I sing in my church choir and in community choruses, but they haven't yet let me break out with any Cyndi Lauper or anything. ;)

IaKG if you could do anything in life what would it be? Sexually and Real life.

What's been your best sexual experience?

kleclere, if I could have anything I wanted sexually in real life, I'd have an extremely passionate, caring man, who wasn't afraid to try new things in the bedroom, who put my needs before his own, who would entice me just with the sound of his voice or the touch of his lips up on my neck, and with whom I had a deep, inner connection...much more than friendship or love or anything else we have a word to describe.

Fortunately, I know that such an animal exists. Unfortunately, as much as I love him, I know it's not my husband. Funny how compromises come into play. :)


Steph...hmmmm...that's a hard question. It's difficult to pick just one, so how about a series? When a friend of mine and I were dating, we used to "lunch" together. Several times a week, I'd swing by his office and pick him up, and then we'd head over to his apartment, about five minutes away.

I don't remember that much food was eaten during those one-hour lunch periods. :) In fact, one time my friend's boss called him on the fact that he always seemed to be hungry when he returned from lunch...asked to smell his fingers. I'm still half-mortified. :D


Next up....how 'bout SugarSprinkles?

SugarSprinkles,

Question 1: If you could turn back time, and change one thing, only one thing, what would you change and why?

There are a few things I would change, but since I can only choose one.......

I would change the fact that from 4th grade in elementary school all the way until I graduated High School I was picked on and ostracized, mostly just by the boys. I was the one they teased and said I had "cooties", ran if I came close, acted like they had to disinfect anything of theirs I may accidentally have touched, and laughed like hell if I gave any wrong answers in class. Although I don't dwell on it or still harbor any hatred for these kids, it has affected my life. Because of the way I was treated I learned to be afraid of 'standing out', afraid of being criticized, afraid of being laughed at if I make a mistake. It really has played hell with my self-confidence. If I hadn't had to endure 8 yrs of torment I would probably be more out-going and self confident, and would no doubt feel a lot better about myself than I do.

SugarSprinkles, if you were marooned on a desert island with Gilligan and the gang, which one of them would you sleep with, and why? :D (You *have* to pick one.)

Great question, IAKG!!

Well, let's use the process of elimination.....

First of all I've never slept with a woman, although I will confess a curiosity. But neither of the female castaways do anything for me.
Ginger? Waayyy to much of an airhead and full of herself, not the least bit attractive about that.

Maryanne? Oh no....I can't take 'goody-two-shoes' types.

Mrs. Howell?? OMG! Even if I was attracted to her, she' probably die of shock if another woman made any advances to her.

The Skipper??? Uh uh... Too old for me.

Mr. Howell ?? ..... Nope, He's too self absorbed, stuffy and married. And not only is he married but his wife is always around.

The professor?? ....No way...he's too preoccupied with his inventions and with trying to find a way for everyone to get off the island. He's probably never given sex a thought since they were shipwrecked.

I guess that leaves our "Little Buddy" Gilligan...
It's not that he's that attractive per se, but he has no pretentions about himself, he is who he is. He's got a good sense of humor, which I just love. He's an extremely generous person and I'm sure he'd be a very giving lover.

So my choice would be Gilligan!!

Sugar Sprinkles:

Silk and lace, or leather and laxtex?

SS: Are you glad you moved?

Also, are you getting enough sex now? :)

Silk and lace. :D

Yes, I'm thrilled that I've moved. I love it here in Missouri for many reasons. Except for family, I don't miss Michigan one bit!





NO! But I'm getting more than I did before I moved. ;);):p :p

SS secret fantasy?

Secret Fantasy, eh?

Well, I don't think my 'secret fantasy' is very unsual. Probably very common... Not really a "rape" fantasy, but just being taken suddenly, and unexpectedly and having no control over the situation. No violence or pain!!

Ok...I nominate for the next hotspot.......

kleclere!!!!

You're Up!!!!! :D:D

kleclere........After a wild night of sex, sex, sex.......

snuggle and chat or smoke a cig (metaphorical or real) and go to sleep?

Awww...and I didn't get to ask SS a question...

And by the way:

"I would probably be more out-going and self confident, and would no doubt feel a lot better about myself than I do."

I hadn't noticed either of those lacking, my dear!

kleclere,

What is your best outdoor memory?

Thank you Sweetheart! You have a lot lot to do with the improvemnt in the way I feel about myself now, as does Pixies.

:D:D :heart:

kleclere,

Fantasize a moment...describe your "ideal" encounter with the Pixie's woman of your dreams. What makes her special? What activities would occur that would send you over the edge?

kleclere,

Is there any one particular sexual activity you've always wanted to try but haven't yet? And why haven't you?

Lixy after sex I would like to cuddle and talk and maybe another round. But usually she falls to sleep.So hope that answers quesyion 1.

2. Murphy Best outdoor memory? Setting on the front porch swing with wife in a dress riding away and all the traffic going by.

3. We would get to the room, we would hurriedly take each others clothes off and I would push her against the wall. We kiss madly I hold her hands above her head as I kiss her neck, ears mouth. Then I would enter her and hopefully pleasure her,caressing her breasts, nipping at her neck please both of us together. What makes her special? The way she makes me feel when she talks to me and how horny she is. Activities? All of the above plus some slow initimate lovemaking, over the edge? Making her cum repeatedly orally.


4. Always wanted to try? Always wanted to some type of group sex I guess. Why not tried? S/O not really open to me pleasing another lady. Haven't found more than one person to please at a time. Ok that is 4 next victim, I mean question.

kleclere, what turns you on most about a lady?

5. Their eyes and their smile, a sense of humor is nice.

Think that is 5 for me. I pick Murphy for the next one on the hot seat.

murphy, why does your law, (murphy's law) always screw me over? j/k, thats not my question...

my question is.......................what is the kinkiest thing you've ever done?

Murphy what would you consider your best sexual talent?

Ok...my turn to put you on the spot, dear....

Imagine if you please that we have 24 hrs all to ourselves...no one will miss us or question where we've been....

How would we spend those 24 hrs???

1) Kinkiest? I dunno, getting a quickie at the top of the ferris wheel at Great Adventure NJ

2) Talent? I sincerely believe that listening to my partner, and watching their bodylanguage, to learn their turn-ons and turn-offs is my best talent.

3) Hmmm....what a toughie... 24 whole hours? I just don't know... I mean I know what I want it to include, but I would really want to include some time to explore other entertainment as well...

Addendum to #3 above:

slowly waking up together and snuggling into some slow, sweet lovemaking, then going out for breakfast, taking a walk thru the woods, finding a secluded spot for a late-morning quickie, then back to town for lunch. Renting a pontoon boat for the afternoon and alternating swimming with loving, maybe packing a dinner to eat on the lake and finish the day making love to the sunset and the moonrise before drifing off to sleep, gently rocked by the water.

That better Dear?

Oh MYYYYY.....

That would be absolutely wonderfull.............I just love it!!!
Thank you so much for such a fantastic day!!

Murphy, what's the best fantasy you've already had come true?

Sorry it took so long to get back to this...night shift work is sooo exhausting!

anyway IAK, best fufilled fantasy? You can probably get into this one: It was at my old Karoke bar, I was on my own, singing modern balads and torch songs, then someone - a lady - asked for "What's Your Name" I'm singing it to her and she's just about creaming on her barstool... and showing me ALOT of leg...and no undies. I finish the song and she comes over and asks So What ARE we doing after the show... We got a couple of drinks and found a booth.. I had 3 more songs scheduled, and as a fellow karokeholic, you know I couldn't leave. Anyway, while waiting for my next set, we got to know each other, and our parts, rather well, then my closing 3 were called - "Wanted, Dead or Alive", "Paridise by the Dashboard Light", and finaly "You've lost that Lovin' Feelin'" , which I sang into her eyes, dropping to my knees for "Baby, baby, I get down on my knees for you". After the show we drove to her place and made love untill dawn.

Murphy, terrific answer!

Looking for Question #5, everyone. :)

Do you ever think of completely changing your life and becoming footloose and fancy free again?

i wanna be in the hot seat!!! i wanna be in the hot seat!! *begs* please let me be in the hot seat!!! lol