I think the biggest problem most of us Men have with it is learning to relax and enjoy it. with me it was an aquired taste, the first time was not that great but it got a lot better after that.

I do not want it all the time but it sure does feel good when the time is right.

if you can get him to let you try you might want to insert a finger when he first starts to Cum while you are fucking but be ready for the mother load.:p

i must admit i like it and so does the gilfriend althogh have not plucked the courage up to get her to try a starp on but would be nice and she likes it in both together

I'm not really sure about the strap on thing...but I definitely like when my woman uses her small vibrator on me. I love it when she sucks me off and uses it!

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I have been shoping around for a strap on.... so the loved one and I have done some good playing with the ass region..... it is fun. I am in agreement with the trimmed nails for both men and women. It took us a little while to work up to it, I find it to be very intimate, but once you get there it is loads of fun. I can also say that it is like any treat, it is wonderful once and a while, but not all the time. I know that we both have to be in the mood.

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Get hold of a small jello butt plug, good lube and ask him to lie back,spread his legs and hold onto his ankles,slide it in and he will beg for more,he will discover the pleasure of anal play.
good luck,let us know how you get on.

This can be very enjoyable for a man... I just posted a couple pics in the mens section of me and a dildo... ;) If you take it slow anduse lotsa lube, it can really feel gooood!

it's a great experience. just take it slow. although i'd recommend using astroglide instead of ky. i want to try other things but i'm working my way up slowly.

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I also have some pics posted here... Sharniqua's Gay/bisexual men here? thread...

most men are afraid it will make them gay but being gay is when you fancy men anal sex for a man can be even better than for a woman due to prosdate stimulation

Well said Axe!

Try changing the mood, Jenny D. Tie him up, strap his backside then use lots of KY or AG. Make him know that you're going to have your wicked way and just use your fingers for a start. It's almost impossible not to enjoy pressure on the prostrate. In time, he'll come round - I'm certain!

My wife and I have tried it with a vibrator but she s a bit scared of hurting me I think. She doesn't like anl herself so maybe that is part of the problem. I quite enjoy it.

Wow I'm always amazed with the depth of experience and knowledge in here :)

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The old crazy finger! I love. can't get enough.
some girls like to give it more than others, but when they do.......look out!

it makes me absolutely crazy.........

extreme turn-on, some guys don't like it because they think it means they might be gay, but thier is a difference,,, i like it and thats what counts