Andrew,

I will keep you and your wife in my thoughts. I hope for the best for both of you.

*wrapping my arms around both of you in a warm hug*

(((((((Wildeye))))))))) and one for your loving (((((((((((Wife))))))))))

I am so sorry to hear that the lump is back..you will both be in my prayers.....

Thanks folks

I am feeling better and things may be ok, its just waiting it out and all that entails..

Lovediva - I'm curious - how are you improved? You always seemed pretty cool to me?

Wildeye

Well gee thanks Wildeye!! Wish my kids would think I am cool...LOL

As for new and improved...I was playing around yesterday! Sorry.....




..but there is always room for improvement right? :D ;)

Lovediva

I'm not sure if you can improve your witty, sexy ideas - love to play with you.

On a kinda serious note - play its something we adults do not do enough of, except here, I love playing games with the kids you know football, tag, silly stuff but you can only really do it with kids grown ups/adults often think that games are silly or chasing around a castle at midnifght somewhat childish.. yes I used to play in castles at midnight and as a student (at age 28 we would often play hide and seek, sardines, water fights etc it really helped to relax and just let the adult stuff drop.

I love paying with my spouse, tickling, chasing in the garden - a great expewrience was chasing each other nude outdoors and an ex B/F loved wrestling, chasing and rolling about.

ohh well enoufgh

Wildeye

You guys sound so cute
 

You and your wife sound like an adorable couple. I'm very sorry to hear that her lump is back, but as someone pointed out in an earlier reply, lumps are not always malignant, and we are all hoping that this is the case. I know my roommate just had an experience with a fibrocyst, and sometimes they simply go away on their own after the hormone fluctuations of the menstrual cycle. You are both in our thoughts and prayers and best of luck :)

Karatekate

Please describe the Wife of Indra

Wileye

Hello

Folks, first thing lump is gone. Just went, so I'm glad it was not surgery, but kinda scared it will return ...

Sex not picked up yet, but I know she's going through it still...ladies any sensous ideas to kick start a loving relationship? I'm trying to think of ways which are not connected to shoving my cock into her and not vibrators, so what turns you ladies on in a sensous, erotic way??

On another point, life with kids is hard, I'm far from being adorable..the kids were kinda badly behaved and I was very grumpy and now I feel so low from being guilty about shouting at 'em and they were only being kids..

But the goood news lump gone for now, and looking for postivies again.

Thankls for all your help and words and support and love..

Someone else has got a thread on orgies, I'd love to invite you all to one and give out multiple orgasms..

Wildeye AKA Andrew

Wildeye hard to be a sexy stud and a patient Dad sometimes. So glad about that fecking lump....... Offer her a massage, kiss every square inch of her not just the typically sexy ones, brush her hair, do every thing short of having sex... for days, flowers still work on me but not store bought ones (S/O covered my pillow with magnolia flower petals one night), take the initiative and hire a sitter, take her out and to a hotel after......do things that take effort and thinking on your part, you write so sexy...write her a story or a poem....read to her while she lies her head on your chest and play with her hair.......OK now I want all that!!!!!!!

Wild, I am so glad to hear that the lump is gone. The disease others were referring to is fibrocystic breast disease and it just means that your breasts are full of lumps. I have this and it is usually harmless. However, I will tell you that caffiene makes it worse.

Now as for what you can do for your wife...you have done so much already just being there for her but.....remember what you wrote a page or so back about how you feel about her....show it to her....

I wish you both the best life has to offer.

Aprt from flowers (you can't go wrong with these unles she has hayfever), try opening the car door for her. If you can manage this while making it appear natural, you will be marking up brownie points! Also touch her lots, especially when you are out together.

Making her feel wanted and secure should get things back to normal (or better).

Wildeye, glad to hear the lump is gone. Said a lot of prayers for her ... we'll just hope it's gone for good. You two just take care and we'll keep the good vibes coming.

Lilith - great ideas, I tried some the flowers really worked.

Thanks too to Tintennese and erectherd.

I did buy her some kinky sex panties (ok for me too) fisrt a nice pair with a discreet slit and a thong with a wide gaping opening, OH WOW we both get mega turned on she even wore one pair out! Seeing her in these panties on the bed, well my knob went massive, absolutely huge, I know that crotchless knicks are tacky but heck it got us turned on. I also found out that Selfridges (big UK shop) best selling knickers are crotchless.

I was so amazed at how erotic and sexy they look, especially as i am bi - my cock was huge and we both had an utterly great shag!!!

Ladies any thought on crotchless panties?

Wildeye

Hey Andrew

Just caught up with the thread and am glad it that things have turned out OK Must be hard on you mate

As i said last time I wish you both love health and happiness

Grumbleguts

Thanks. i wish i lived near to you, i'd buy you a beer.

Andrew aka wildeye