My boyfriend has known about Pixies since the day I first discovered it. He doesn't go on the Internet often so he doesn't have an account himself. I talk about other Pixies in the same manner as if they were my friends and he often asks me how my 'family' is. He helped me with some of the pictures I've posted although he did show some signs of jealousy at the comments I've received. Pixies is too much of life now to even contemplate keeping secret from my current or any future partner.

It would be a bastard of a decision, Pixies or (new) partner.

a couple of years back, I talked her into getting a UN: she was goingto pot stories, but never got around to it.

my hubby knows...he's fine with it. i dont keep anything i say or do here from him. he knows about who i talk to and what is talked about. heck, he's taken the pics i've posted. he doesnt have an account, but lives vicariously through me.

In my case the Pixies would win.

My Joe knows about Pixies and doesn't have a problem with it. He does have an account and has posted a story here (link in my sig) but he doesn't come here much. We share other sites that fit our dynamic, but Pixies is my place to have fun. I have posted pics in the past (prior to my current relationship) and I would post again if or when the mood strikes. Joe is a wonderful photographer and would love to do pics of me, and he would be proud for me to show them off. :)

i tried to keep it from him at first but that was just stupid. seriously stupid. he has an account, has posted pics (as have I) and a story or two and we're both comfy with it all. his tastes run a bit "freakier" than mine but we have learned to be open to and accepting of each other.

i would choose him anyday but it's a moot point as neither one of us is the kind of person to make the other choose like that.

Fer the time bein', PP is my SO.:cuffs: I've growed a bit stodgy these recent years & hold the value that if we will to be friends, I hope to know EVERYTHING possible about you. I accept you as you. Likewise, I want you to know as much about me as you're willing to know. When I see there's a roadblock I'll share whatever detail is needed to get through. If we reach a fork in the road, take it! :cheers:

It was my hubby who was a member at Pixies first and then begged me to take and post pix; he's been my photographer most of the time, except for the few self-portrait sets, so I would say he doesn't have a problem with it. :) He doesn't hang out here much anymore at all, and my own participation ebbs and flows.

Yep, same here. :rolleyes: