I love it now, never used to. Tryed it once years ago with hubby... OMG! Hurt like crazy!! So that was the end of that for many years. It was during some time alone I needed something else..... just a little more..... at the time I had a small thin vibe, lubed it up good..... and it blew me away. Been a fan ever since.

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We both enjoy it when I give her anal pleasure/penetration with me or a vibrator, AND when she gives me anal pleasure/penetration with a finger or vibrator. It is such a sensitive area! However, the mood definitely has to be right for both of us...we might do it every night for a month, then not touch that area for the next 8 months!!!

I tried it once, it hurt like hell, I doubt I will try it again... well maybe if the circumstances were right, but I'd want a lot more preparation next time.

Although it hurt SO badly I do wonder if there is someting wrong with me.

It does not have to hurt. My ex loved anal activity and it was very exciting for her. I, however, experienced pain and swore to never let anyone do it to me again. Its probably mostly in your head, I don't find it stimulating no matter who is receiving. :buttsex: