Well put!

LOL seems like I should move to England..all the real women sound like there over there :)

Excuse me?

Real women are all over this fine planet. I just hope to find the one for me someday. Gotta actually get out and look but I'm pretty sure they're not all in one country having a meeting of "the Real Woman's Club". :D

It was a joke...*S* All the posts from women on here all have there locations set to the Uk..

I don't see anything wrong with just wanting sex, but there's no excuse in treating the other person like shit or less than human or showing less respect than they deserve just because they want that. Some people aren't fully into themselves sexually enough to respect others when wanting sex just for fun. It's fucked to have to deal with those types, but not everyone is like that...and there are people out there who aren't so jaded that they can't take it slower...even if it's just for play.

I'm one of those people not really meant to have a conventional relationship with someone that leads to marriage, kids, dog & cat, etc...although I can't write it out completely —*things could change in the future, I don't have a crystal ball — I'm just not feeling that happening at all anymore. I gave most of my twenties towards trying to have that and in doing so, I've paid my price with failures of bridges I ain't crossing again...so right now I'm comfortable and having fun in being relatively single and enjoying the company of casual dating and sex. I don't want a solid relationship right now unless the other can be open and reeeealy patient. There's things I want and need to do that I neglected in my earlier years...and I can't give properly to another for marriage or whatever until I've accomplished those things. Therefore, I'm keeping it light. And that comes from knowing myself and not lying about what I want.

So, I'd just say know yourself and know what you want — really want — before getting with others. Then, if you're on the track for wanting a future instead of a few movie dates, lay down that law from the git-go so you don't have to deal with unnecessary bullshit. Be straight-up and be honest. And be vigilant!

Trust me, good women are in the minority in the UK. Unfortunately, we still seem to outnumber the good men 10-1 - that's why I have so many amazing single women friends & relatives, and the single men friends I have aren't good enough for any of them!

A tad harsh perhaps, or a poor choice of male friends?

Tell all the UK "birds" they can come see ME...

It's like busty, voluptuous woman heaven over there for some reason...on second thought, maybe I should take my ass over THERE... :devil:

It wasn't meant to be harsh. They're nice guys, but don't have anywhere near what my female friends have to offer i.e. great looks, intelligence, sparkling personality, tons of charisma, great careers etc etc.

lol -just a tip though, if you do come over don't refer to us as birds (at least not to our faces anyway) - some of us have got crackin' left hooks ;) :) (joke)

mind you, wish I was busty and voluptuous...you'll be ok if you like the 'raspberries on an ironing board' look with me, lol

If you've got any extras let me know, I know that I could use friends with all those characteristics, especially of the female variety!

Hi Lou! :wave:

Hey cavegirl you can have some of mine. I've got enough to share with you and we'd BOTH still be busty and voluptuous!!!!!


1nutworld, perhaps I should start try-outs for a guy who's good enough to date my sister!

Pass the sign-up sheet!

Woo-hoo - I'm a-getting me some boobs at long last!! Thanks, Lou;) lol