I'll probably get smacked for this, but when did Mrs WI come to find being naked around you not sexual?

I am naked a lot of the time at home....it's just natural and comfortable for me, however Fussy rarely gets excited by it. :(

He tends to wander around in just his boxers and I can't help but ogle his behind and the bulge in the front, and I find it difficult to keep my hands to myself, but unfortunately I don't provoke the same reaction in him. :(

At present, he's more likely to touch my tummy than any other part of me, since it's becoming increasingly difficult to miss. I can't help but think that he finds me less attractive since I've put on weight (before getting pregnant, I mean) however he denies this when I mention it to him.

Sometimes, I wonder if he's just become desensitised to the sight of my naked body, and perhaps I should cover up more....

Hmmm.... ok.....

Well, as someone who has been to nudist beaches a bit and understands the nudist concept - being naked does not have to mean sex, which I think you understand. Sex is a matter of context - typically in western society that context is 'nudity', which is silly but then a lot of societies conceptions are.
I can go to a nudist beach and see lots of really really attractive women, but because I am not there for sex and neither are they, it doesn't turn me on. I don't get hard.
In the same manner if I was with someone at home and they were naked, just watching TV or doing something and it was clear they weren't doing it to be sexy, same thing. Not arousing. If they're naked and looking at me going "I want to wrap my lips around your hot, glistening hard cock and suck you to heaven before you pound into me from behind you manly, sex-machine, ANIMAL!" well then look at how Mr. Penis has suddenly swollen to the size and firmness of a giant baseball bat.

I'm not meaning to say you're wrong, WI, for being turned on by your wife - quite the contrary, I can understand it and I've no doubt you've made her know just how hot you think she is. But a little self-control, I think, and you can know when to get the horn and when to discuss poetry.
Assuming, that is, you like poetry.

Having said that, there are times when, quite frankly, I'm horny. And I want sex. That's different to "every night I see my wife's boobies and I wanna explode all over them".

Just my thoughts, and hey I'm probably being all prudish or something. Just let the big head rule the little head MOST of the time, that's all I'm saying.

And Loulabelle you know you're super-hot.

CasperTG

Wow! That would be tough. After all, she's your wife. ;)

can I volunteer for that job? :devil: :69: :devil:

True, although one can grow used to it. I've seen other naked people without being turned on by it but seeing my partner naked is another matter.

Good point.

If she's free to walk around naked and get you aroused you should be free to deal with that arousal if she won't help you with it.

Anytime :D

:jacques:

I would react much the same as you do WI.

Anytime my wife is naked I get turned on... but she doesn't tend to lounge naked. It's either in the shower or getting ready for bed. There is a bit of a difference in that my wife is more understanding of my sexuality, or so it seems. Not that she accepts my advances, (she playfully pushes me away), but she doesn't make a big deal about it.

I wish there was a compromise the two of you could reach.

I just had an idea... :idea:

I'll come visit and we'll both stroke off on either side of Mrs WI and then she'll KNOW it's ok and there's nothing wrong with your behavior. :corn:

hahaha that's cute DB!

I think that's a fine idea!

We can tell her that you're offering us a second opinion! :D

Perhaps Loulapucker can stop by as well? To verify that there's no way possible that a person can become desensitized to her nudity, of course. :hot:

i call bullshit! i am gone for 2 days and now mrs.wi gets my :3way:



bullshit!

Well Lilith the saying is - when the cat(kitty) is away the mice will play.

:roflmao: I think someone or someone's are gonna get :spank: