Too bad we don't. Now you'll have to spend time getting to know someone to sort out all those questions:D

which puts him back at square one. :p:D

i think it's not as bad as all you're implying, rzan. sure there are the smattering of extreme and stupid cases, but for the most part, i don't think the average person thinks that way or acts that way.

Ironically if it werent that bad i wouldnt be posting this. I really have hit that point already where i am desperate for any kind of ideas or anything. I feel like such a monster and a freak like I have some sort of infectious disease that everyone stays away from me. I am beyond all reasonable disconnection from society. Trust me it IS that bad. I am already to that hopeless status with women. Every single time i try something bad happens!

i should have been clearer. i wasn't questioning your own experiences. what i was addressing was your original question: i don't think politicall correctness has or will lead us to a nonexistant future. and that is because, in my experiences, i don't encounter people who act or think that way.

Loulabelle,

You probably wouldn't want to associate with people whose ideas of beauty are dictated by the mass media.

rzande1,

You only have to treat this like everything else in life. Be reasonable and be yourself. Get

yourself into some interest groups and you may meet interesting people who share your views or interests.

Some of these may be women and some may even be attracted to you.

If not, you're doing things you like with like-minded people. hey, sounds like Pixies.

So on an interesting note. I met this interesting indian chick today. Really nice etc.

how wonderful! i can tell you're thrilled.

Well not really thrilled. My automatic reaction is that oh she has to be taken, not interested, etc. See i already accept that i have no chance and as such will make no effort.

and yet you blame a modern-day cultural fad instead.

Well when in doubt....blame. Remember I am a business student LOL. No but seriously i dont know how to proceed. I mean what do I do? I have no idea.

I mean seriously though. How would i even know any of that stuff? Shit first off I have no experience with women and second of all I have not exactly received the most open reception from the women i meet. I just expect failure already.

there's great advice right here and in some other threads you have begun in the past. i suggest examining your own hang-ups, as well.

"change starts from within..."

Damnit why isnt there just some instructional manual for every woman? BTW I already know i am totally screwed up. I am just looking for some how to tips here. I dont need another time of being told that I am just all screwed up and shouldnt try before i am all drugged up on psychological treatments. Look I am actually willing here. I am being crazy here and actually trying to get a social life.

the goal is to confuss us, make what is right wrong and what is wrong wright.
Ben Parker said itbest" with great power comes great responsibility"
us Americans live in a great free society with great freedoms,but no responsibility. We teach that to everybody especially our young, but then you turn on the tv and it tells us we can say what we want and do what we want to people,then we turn it off and face the world that says uh uh you cant do that here in the real world. Confusion!

'Cause the bloodywell isnt one.....every other human has figured that out and isnt sitting there getting all riled with us that is trying to help

Get off ya ass...go join a group...get out there in society and stop making ya self into a leper...learn to like yaself before expecting anyone else to like ya

Ya negative attitude....sorry to say...is pissing me off

Get off the puter and get out and get a social life instead of complaining about ya lack of one