Steph you're welcome to hijack anything of mine anytime. ;-)

[Mae West]Well BigBear, why don't you come up and see me sometime? ;)[/Mae West]

I'd love to Hon, if I get back up that way I'll be sure and let you know. It'd be a treat to meet You. :slurp:

I love to touch him and to be touched by him. If it leads to sex, that's great! But it fills an emotional void to simply touch and be touched just because we love each other, with no expectations other than simply being close and staying connected in that way.

This is just a perfect description...now to find someone to touch is the next hurdle :lurv:

sooo sweet

A sociology prof told us about adopting babies from other countries. He and his wife found that the orphanages in eastern European countries were very understaffed. This meant that the babies didn’t get very much human touching. From what he knew about how we function he knew that babies that didn’t get touch during their infancy didn’t grow up to be well-adjusted. They opted to adopt from China where the babies get closer attention.

Being touched is a basic need. Not having someone to exchange touch with is one of the hard parts of being unattached.

Savoring those little finger-tip contacts is precious. When I think back on relationships I try to keep the memories of touches that were shared. No matter how the relationship developed there were always some nice touches.


Tom

The wife and I have been married 30 + yrs and the touchy feely is a big part of our daily lives. Watching tv or just relaxing in bed before going to sleep,stroking her hair,caressing her back or the curve of her hip,caressing her cheek and the look in her eyes holding each other till we fall asleep. It does"nt get any better than that unless it leads to a little more.When we are seperated for any length of time that touch or feel is what is missed the most.

"MELT"

We hold hands at church; we touch whenever we're close enough. Probably most of the time these touches are not really sexual, just loving.

I love how my wife feels and so touching her tenderly seems like such a natural thing to do. Even what might be called "sexual touching" like on the breast or bottom, doesn't always mean "bedrooms." Only a touch of intimacy shared.

I touch everyone....I am a very huggy/touchy person....at least, I am if I like you. ;)

So....no surprise to know that Mr Osuche and I cuddle a lot...on weekends we have regular cuddle sessions. Sometimes we sleep, other times we talk....but mostly we just cuddle.

That is the one thing that I miss not having a SO.

I used to lay on his lap laying in between his legs and could sleep there just knowing he was there. He would be brushing my hair with his hands and he would be watching TV. I have never felt so relaxed.

i'm the toucjy feely type. but my hubby is not. i would like to just sit around for hours and touch and be touched. but hubby doesnt "do" the touch "thing." Me i touch him as much as i can get away with especially when he is asleep. i have to play with his hair at least a little bit. and i get a lot of hugs in whenever i can.

*Sigh* wish i could get some feels copped on me. LOL

**bump**

I'm a big cuddler. Always have been. Half the time I don't care if Bama and I have sex. So long as I get to hold her while she's with me I'm fine. So far the only thing I'm not fond of is while I'm driving and it's really hot, she wraps her arm in mine and is holding my wrist. It makes that one section of arm get really sweaty and uncomfortable. Then apologizes which makes me feel bad because now she feels like she didn't something wrong, but that's another problem. Other than that. I like holding hands and having my arm around her waist. Makes me feel fuzzy inside.