I can be gentle...














when I want to;)

Welcome to Pixie's, JennieO. My hat is off to you and hubby for all the years you've happily spent together, and for the exploring you're now doing together.

Welcum to Pixies jeannieO! I know you and your hubby will love it here!

I was going to start a new thread about this very topic...but I think I'll just say it here.

Just the other evening, Mr. Lixy and I were smooching and fooling around. I sometimes use my digits on him but usually never penetrate too far. This time I went a bit deeper than usual and suddenly he ejaculated...but didn't really work up to it as he normally does...and said he really didn't like it all that much. I was surprised by this response as I had always thought an orgasm was an orgasm was an orgasm. He said no, that this was different...no feeling, no anticipation of release, no ohhhhh or ahhhhh, none of the good stuff that comes with cumming. He said that when I touched a certain spot (his G spot/prostate) there was no stopping it...but there was no good feeling leading up to or following it.

Hmmmmmmmm...made me wonder if it's like this with all men. I thought the attraction would have been that he cums. Now I know the foreplay and afterglow are just as important to him as they are to me!

Pretty good question though...dontcha think? Is arousal of the prostate a means to a satisfying orgasm...or does it always leave [him] feeling empty and used?

Gentlemen? What do ya think?

Hmmmmmmmm...made me wonder if it's like this with all men. I thought the attraction would have been that he cums. Now I know the foreplay and afterglow are just as important to him as they are to me!

Pretty good question though...dontcha think? Is arousal of the prostate a means to a satisfying orgasm...or does it always leave [him] feeling empty and used?

Gentlemen? What do ya think?[/QUOTE]

HmMMMMMMMMMMM......... I don't know Lixy...... wanna use me and we'll find out? :devilish:

Welcome JeannieO!

Can not totaly answer that, I love anal play (finger, toy,strap-on,tongue,ect.) but have yet to have a prostrate orgasm, would like to to find out.

Better watch what you ask for Cobalt..lol
 

Were in Iowa too . :devilish:

welcome jeannieO~
Lots n lots, n lots, n lots of waterbased lube.! definately.
did i mention lots n lots n lots of lube? lol

Naughty girl!

Welcome and enjoy yourselves. What part of Iowa? North Centeral here.

:wave: welcome! i'm voting for fingers. too ;)

welcum! glad you found us! and i concur with lilith about fingers at first and then work your way up to sumpin' bigger and/or buzzing! and like Boilergirl said, you need lube, and there are a tasty warming lubes out there that are waterbased that i really like. i found mine at my favorite Adult bookstore, but there are places that you can order them off of the net as well. (I like the Strawberry flavored one's the best)

Good Luck and Happy Playing!

Love, Lizz:D

Welcome JeannieO!

Nice to have you here.


And I enjoy it when Mrs. WI stimulates me anally with a small vibe during fellatio. Fingers are fun too though. But it took YEARS for us to venture down there. ha ha

Welcome to pixies...

Welcome JeannieO! I love anal play as well, but the wife doesn't care to give it very often, so i enjoy all i can get from her. I don't guess i have ever had a prostate orgasm. All of mine felt amazing and had to have other stimulation as well.