/me wanders away singing...

"All I want for Christmas is an STD...an STD...an STD"

to the tune of "Two front teeth"


LMAO

Lmao @ ^^^^. :D :D :D

Lol, you guys are crazy.

I know you guys are right about the condoms. But what do most of you guys do when you have sex if your girl/wife who is on birth control. Obviously you don't wear a condom. STD's are a bitch but if the girl said she is on the shot do they not test her there for STD's when she gets the shot?

I know I am pushing for the no condom thing but I would like to see what you say about my questions above.

even if her results came back clean , if shes willing to go condomless w u , that means shes done it before, and i was always taught (and it has been awilhe so i may be way otta date here) but some STDs take a wile to show up in ur system , when i was going to school they always told us HIV cud lie dormant for 7 yrs. now, that cud be totaly BS but it always made me use a condom. lol. like i siad i totally dont kow if that is a fact or something my teachers told me to scare us . if yall know for sure please let me know.

~nikki

No she does not necesarily get tested at the time...depends on where she got it done. You have made it clear she is experienced, do you think she has been celibate since she was tested? Think? Know? 100% sure? Why risk it?

Just out of curiosity how old a person are you?

It's irrelevant what happened when she got the shot. It doesn't matter.

You should wear a condom.

As far as most of us guys that have a girl/wife. A lot of us are in committed relationships, which is not the same as just having sex with 'a friend'. And even then, there are some that still wear a condom anyway, more so as birth control then a barrier against STD's.

You're comparing apples to oranges. What one does in a long-term relationship is different than what one does in a new relationship.

Of course I don't use a condom with my wife. We've been married 16 years. There's no way she could conceive even if she wasn't past menopause. She's not the type to screw around. The risk is minimal. (Not zero--she sticks about 10,000 needles/year into people and accidents do happen.)

However, if I had to find a new partner I certainly would use a condom. At the point that your relationship is strong enough that you trust your partner's fidelity then you wait 6 months and get tested. If you're clean you can dispense with the condoms.

Not that I'm an expert, but especially if you have anal you should use a condom. The backdoor is quite a bit more sensitive than the front, meaning that it isn't designed to give quite as readily and the membranes are much thinner (again, not designed for repeated withdrawl and entry) and more prone to damage. Chances of her getting a little raw back there and bleeding a little bit are pretty good, especially if she's new to it. A condom actually decreases that risk.

Plus, the ass's central purpose isn't sex. Even if she's sparkly clean, there are microscopic things that live back there that neither of you want getting into the wrong biological places.


Other than that, have a great fuckin' time.

One more piece of advice, you might want to pull one off early in the day so you don't bust a nut too early.

Well I already told her that I wasn't going to masterbate 2 days prior to the sex event. She wants a ton of cum, and she didn't care if I finished quickly as we will fuck for about 2 hours. She is clean, and I think I am not going to use a condom. I want to bust a nut inside her, and she wants me to do that as well. :love:

Good luck with that!

dude

wear a condom!!!

i only ever not worn a condom when i was in a long term relationship - for anything else, it is really better to be SAFE THAN SORRY!!!!

Well guys I did it. It was strange at first but things went great. I didn't wear a condom though so hopefully that doesn't BIT me in the ass. But I gave it to her pretty hard, lol.

Anyways, thanks for the advice and hopefully things work out for me.

I don't see what's supposed to be so good about giving it to her hard. We both prefer it gentle until the last few seconds.

^^ Actually, she TOLD me she wanted it really hard. I communicated with her fantastically, asking what she did and didn't want. I was surprised how comfortable I became after we started.

She LOVES if rough, so I gave it to her rough.

I just got a chance to read this thread and I've got to say I am sooooo disappointed!

I'll start by saying...Welcum to Pixies sexystud34! I wish I didn't have to say what I am about to say...but I feel compelled.

I don't know very much about you except what I've read in this thread. From this alone I am making the observation that you didn't come to the Advice Forum for actual advice...but more for a confidence builder, and then (after the fact) to brag! You asked many questions and then just disregarded the well intended and intelligent advice offered. I don't see your point in asking when it seems you had your mind set before the goal. I might be out of line here...but if I had been involved in this thread initially (like our fellow Pixies above me) and read your last reply...I'd feel used! If you'll notice...not many have spoken to this subject since your last post...and I bet I know why.

Of course...it's your life and you have to live with your actions, but some really concerned friends have tried to give you their best advice with no reason other than we care when someone asks questions and needs help and is inexperienced and seems to be taking a road that may not be the best for them and all involved. Most of the Pixies that replied here have life experience that can truly help others...if the advice is heeded and truly appreciated. I guess what I'm saying is...if you ask a question and you get 15 "same" answers and then you do the opposite anyway...you get what you deserve in the end! I hope with all my heart that all you got from your experience is a busted nut and a new g/f! I can imagine so many things going so wrong with the experince of that one evening...as you explained it!

I wish you well sexystud34!