I have never really posted on here before...

I used to stress about this, but it's not really an issue any longer. One thing that really works for me is making sure I breath. When I take deep breathes, I seem to last longer and it helps "relax" things. Changing positions works, but you should really learn your triggers.

For instance, I communicate with my partner. When she says, "I'm gonna cum!," that can often push me over the edge. I've learned to adapt to that so now I'm sorta of desensitized to the first one or two. Certain positions also really do it for me, so if there is something that is hard to hold back on, save that for the finale!

You can't go wrong just going again after your first climax, though. After you finish the first time, stimulate her orally for awhile, and when you are ready again, the sex will last for much longer, and HER head will be ready to explode after awhile.