My Fiance can cum multiple times. So ever so often we play the cant cum game. If she cums then I pull out and stop. If she doesnt and holds it off and yes she has to ask me to stop sometimes so she doesnt. But when she does hold off we cum together. Much bigger "O" for her and I.


Hocque

I often start, stop, and start again, but I'm not usually doing it intentionally. Maybe my fingers or arm gets sore and needs a quick break, or maybe the fantasy I am using isn't quite enough to take me over the top, so I stop for a second while I am thinking of a different fantasy to use. I have to be careful about not stopping and starting too often in a session, or I will find myself desensitized and won't be able to come no matter how long I try.

Why does that not surprise me? :p

Yeah, I know what you mean... that's how I do it solo every time. Gives the greatest orgasms.

its so good because the eventual orgasm is mind-blowing!

Me too - sort of save it and then let your juices flow everywhere.