38 and a cyber virgin.

I generally don't mind being PMed for an "off to the side" private chat about some topic -- ANY topic -- but these guys who buzz me for a PM and the first thing they say is a/s/l REALLY irritates me. My name should be enough to give a strong educated guess on my sex. What the heck is the difference where I am located??? Age might matter, but getting to know me on some level would tell you more at the emotional age I act upon, rather than my physical age.

I was having cyber sex long before almost anybody else was. I started in 1986! I enjoy it, but it's NOT like the real thing at all. I would much rather have a written story that I can come back to later, or one I wrote and have multiple people enjoy it than just one.

Never really liked the idea of the cyber, tried it only one time, and well it wasn't that fun. I have a pretty good imagination so why not just please myself and not have to worry about distracting myself by typing. The only time I did cyber was with an ex-girlfriend, and she wasn't all that imaginative. I will say though that if I had to cyber it would be with someone I have a history with (even if just an online history). I guess I look at cyber as a way to scratch the itch of satisfying someone else, cause I can satisfy myself without it. If you don't know the person, why are you that interested in pleasing them? Well I've said to much.

I'm definitely the exception to what's been posted. Back when I cybered a lot, I didn't want to get to know anybody. If I did end up having conversations w/some of the people, we usually ended up being on line friends (still have some such friends I talk w/on line daily), and once we started to get to know each other, I didn't want to cyber w/them anymore. But my reasons for doing such were rather unique or, let's say, unusual circumstances. Ironically, in spite of the fact that I am in a LDR with my fiance, we don't have cyber sex; we just IM each other.

Being relativly new to cyber my experiences have been somewhat limited. However, I will only cyber with someone that I am totally comfortable with... someone that I have gotten to know and care about. - and when we are done, we can have a cig and talk about our day :) !

I DON"T like being in chat and getting a PM that is too direct from someone that I do not know... that just annoys me to no end. Especially if it is from another woman... I have found that women are more forward than the men are... and don't take no for an answer so I just put them on ignore...

Cheyanne~ some of those "women" are men:o

Oh i see it is always the man's fault

Isn't it always :D

And your point is...? :D

LOL@ skip, T-S & BlueSwede :D

There was a time.... not too terribly long ago............................................... .................................................. ............... opps.. sorry.. got lost in the memory... excuse me... as I was about to say...

There was a time... not long ago.. that I cyber'd regularly. It was something that I enjoyed doing and was (for a time) a diversion from my typical ho-hum masturbation routine. I was not one who made a practice of cyber'in with complete strangers, tho I did do that from time to time.

Instead.. for me.. I first had to feel some sort of connection with the man that I chose to have fun with. NO.. not love.. or anything like it... but an attraction... a spark...

I haven't cyber'd in months... actually I can't even remember the last time. I came (excuse the pun) to realize, that altho cyber was a nice way to enjoy masturbation it left me rather empty. I began utilizing the phone instead... something that altho is still only another form of masturbation excites my senses more... there is just something about the sound of a man breathing heavy that gets me going :)

Cyber is foreplay.....

The phone call is exploring all the possibilites......

The meeting is penetration...........

I guess being the trusting person that I am when someone tells me their gender, I believe them... :rolleyes: I can be somehwhat gullable at time... lol

That is why I stick with who I have gotten to know in chat... :)

Jenna... I will heavy breathe for you anytime... Phone sex does SO much more for me than cyber

Although I have been told I tend to grunt a little more as I umm... finish...

As for cyber... I have fun with it... if there is a spark I might just push things... it doesnt have to be with someone I know, but its nice to know what someone likes and dislikes....

This is how I feel about it.........I HAVE to at the very least be familiar with the person, have chatted with (non-cyber) at least a few times prior to even thinking about cybering with them.

I think a "drive-by" type cyber would leave me feeling quite empty and possibly even "used". But that's just me..........

And then there are the few I would absolutely LOVE the chance to cyber with but haven't had any indication that the other person even thinks about me "that way." :( :(