WHy do people keep insisting?
 

That I will find the right girl eventually?

Come on, you all know all I do is sit around and bitch all day!

You all know that single men vastly outnumber single women!

So quit lying to me and telling me shit like oh the right one will come along or I see you getting married in 2 years.

I hate liars and fakes, especially when they think dishonesty will make me feel better.

Truth is .... who knows whether a girl will come along that accepts you for you .... luck of the draw sometimes ..... there are a lot of horrible people out there who have managed to find a life partner ... and a lot of wonderful ones who haven't ....

The best advice I can offer as one who hasn't found a life partner so far is to stop worrying about it and make something good of yourself ... that way, even if you don't find a life partner, at least the company you keep is good.

Excuse me while I remove the sugar coating from my reply......
If this is all you do then I wouldn't begin to tell you the right women is just around the corner. I'd tell you to stop being a whiney shit! If you want a relationship go out and try to meet some women, I think you'll find there's a few out there.

actually in a certain part of England it's said that women out number men almost 5 to 1.

^^^^^^ Nottingham------Wahey!!!!!

Excellent! I left the place out to see if anyone would either ask or put it in there.....so Glyndwr when ya moving to notts and do you think 5 women could handle you? :D:D

Cunninglinguist... the closest you will get to a g/f is looking at Pixies women on your computer.

Hey, there are worse fates than this.

LOL - I don't know how many women it would take to handle Glyndwr, but I'm certain what ever number of them presented themselves to him, he'd be able to rise to the occassion in handling all of them. :D

Aqua,

I tend to agree!

Still I want to know why do women keep telling me I will find the right girl eventually?

I mean especially when I know the girl saying it is repuolsed by me and could never see herself with me so if she could never see herself with me, and is hard pressed to think of any woman who will ever put up with me why is she saying that I will find the right one eventually?

At least aqua isn't afraid of telling me the truth which is that I have no chance in Hell of ever seeing a naked woman outside of pornography. Whay can't some of the women on Pixie's agree with him?

because that's their diplomatic way of saying "but i'm not her. please excuse me while i make a hasty exit."

You want honesty? I don't know the girl you're talking about....but I'll take a guess. It's possible that she finds self-flagilation boring and unpleasant. Moreover, she may feel that if she is forced to hand you the metaphorical stick that you want to use to beat the hell out of yourself....she's somehow gotten involved in a process of ego-destruction she'd rather not be even tertiarily responsible for.

Basically, some girls have this instinctive need to avoid the passive agressive....and I really think that you should, well, let them get on with it. They're obviously not the person you're looking for.

Well if you already know the answer to the question .... why do you keep asking it???? Because you want to be "stroked" and you push the buttons on nice women to get them to do so because they feel guilty about not wanting something more with you .... women are soft and sensitive beings who really prefer to have the people around them be happy.

Trying to give you a sense of hope darlin. thats why. You won't ever find one if you don't try and change your attitude. Answer me this.......Do you like yourself?

So are we all in agreement that there is no one out there for me?

Answer me this.......Do you like yourself?

I suppose I do. I think that all in all I am a pretty great guy except for one thing, no one would ever want me.

You have to realize I am jsut an average looking guy in a world of hunks. I am just a simple peasant in a land of kings. I am a single and horny guy constantly surrounded by beautiful women and I know I can't have any of them.

I know I have no chance. For starters it had been 3 years since I had met a woman who was single that I found attractive. That was my ex-fiancee, and well we all know that she dumped my sorry ass once she realized she could do better by marrying a better looking man who has a job.

Yeah, I may be funny, intelligent, loyal and a kind person, but obviously none of that means shit as I can't even get a girl to notice me no matter what I did unless I do something stupid or offensive.

Then it starts nagging me in the back of my mind.

"Why is she with him?"

"Why am I destined to eb all alone in this world?"

"If I am destined to be all alone, then why would a loving God instill in me such desires to procreate and then go nine years to not answer my prayers to remove my desire."

"Why can't a woman tell me to my face that I am unattractive rather than beat around the bush with this whole I am sure you would find the right girl, Brett?"

All I am saying is don't feed me a line of bullshit and expect me to consider you favorably in the future.