If I asked you... would you?
 

Or more appropriately... if your spouse/SO asked... would you??

I consider myself to be very open minded and am sooo very willing to try anything once... so this is the question I pose to all the wonderfully sexual people here:

If you were asked by your partner to participate in a 3 some, with someone of your gender being the 3rd party would you be willing to do so? I don't mean participation as "watching, observing, and limiting your contact to only your partner". I mean participation as more of a hands on.. enjoying the 3rd party yourself type of thing :)

Would you be willing to allow the 3rd party to pleasure you orally? Would you be willing to do the same for him/her? Would the fact that your partner desires you to do so, encourage you? or would it make no difference? Would you deny your partners desire?

I've thought about this one since I've been reading posts here. My sense of fairness and desire to please a mate says I should consider whatever to feed her fantasy but I'm not sure what I'd do if faced with the situation. If I was situated in a very secure relationship I can say I'd at least consider it but if I was in a haphazard or casual thing I'd just laugh it off.

to answer my own question...

for a partner.. I would do so... if that was his desire... :)

I'd get completely involved . . . I would have to come to terms with him being with another person, it might be hard to witness but I'm sure we'd talk about it first.

YES.


Nuff said! :D

I dunno. Is not something I can say I want, but can never be sure what I will say til I am faced with a situation. I know that for some reason when the 2 of us go out we seem to attract women who are searching for a couple. Have had several offers but as of yet he has not shown an interest in taking them up on them. Only time will tell.

Now 3 way MM & Me, I am allllllllll on it!

Nope ... no 3-somes for me ... but then I think I've mentioned that before. Just not interested in even the most remote way.

Sure!!! Would jump right in the middle of it! Pleasure me, I pleasure you! and be as sexy as I can about it! would make it a good experience for all involved.;) :slurp: :hot: :hot:

I personally couldn't participate (as in hands on) with the third party, but otherwise, sure. Would take a bit of communication before hand, but would try my best to please my girl......

Already been there! But....I think the difference for me was that it wasn't to please my hubby.......though he was indeed pleased.....but because I wanted to! I've always said I'll try ALMOST anything at least once in my life! I've got a long list to fulfill yet!

Hell yeah!!!!

CasperTG

Dunno, like to think I would, but..........

I am the essential Oldfart LOL

jennaflower,

Staying with the allusion, I'm somewhere between Steph and Oldfart. Closer to Steph - I think.

No!In the 1st place,my SO. is far too jealous,to share me with anyone.In the 2cd place,neither of us has any desire for homo-
sexuality.We have discussed this before,so know how the other
feels.The situation would never arise. Irish