Stop looking at that girl, you bastard!

[ericthered]

Ladies,

You are out with your man and you catch him having a good look at a passing girl. Then he puts his arm around you. You know just what was going through his dirty little mind, and now he is feeling guilty.

How do you react? How would you like him to behave? Do you want him to pretend that he didn't notice her? Or is he just like a dog chasing a car - if it caught it, he wouldn't know what to do with it?

Do tell!

[jennaflower]

AH.. I don't think I would even mention it... until we were in bed... and I took on her role :) Wooohooo...

I really dont mind a man I am with admiring another woman.. I would be a bit more concerned if he didn't.. And keep in mind.. it was my body he put his arms around.. not hers... he is human.. and as such is bound to appreciate beauty (or whatever other things that grab his attention).

[A.K.'s Sex-Pot]

I would probably playfully tease him about it. I'd turn it into a way of flirting with him.

Oh, how I love to flirt with my SO, even though most men lose interest in that after they've slept with you a few times. . . .

[Scarlett]

We are rarely out anywhere together. So this hasn't happened in so long I don't even know how I used to react.

[vampeyes]

I usually point out the ones to look at or vice versa :D so most of the time he is left wondering whats on my dirty little mind ;)

[dannyk]

I only do it to prove to you that yes, I am into women, and hell yes, I have great taste!

But as jennaflower points out, who am I with? whose body is my arm around? who's going home with me, to try her best (without realising it) to make me forget that, and any other, woman? :D

[Nikki]

I really dont mind a man I am with admiring another woman.. I would be a bit more concerned if he didn't.. And keep in mind.. it was my body he put his arms around.. not hers... he is human.. and as such is bound to appreciate beauty (or whatever other things that grab his attention).......posted by Jennaflower.

Totally agree........but I would still tease him about it..!!!!!!!...hehehe

[ericthered]

What a civilised bunch of Ladies! You must all be superhuman. Congratulations....

[Steph]

I don't mind, after all, he's only human. However, what would you women think if you found "teen porn" on the HD? Would that bug you more than a look at someone's bum on the street?

[Vixenoir]

Unfortunately my Mother in Law had this happen to her, she found LOADS on the computer and she asked her 56 yr old hubbie about it he went apeshit saying she was snooping and she remained totally calm, she said what he does in private is his business.. it smacks of peadophilia to me and I don't think I would have reacted in the same way had I been in her shoes.

[Murphy]

VN: I'd say your MIL is a bit more mature than your FIL....think of it this way....If the shoe was on the other foot....if your SO found stuff on your 'puter....how would you react?