stretch marks...

[vampiress]

Hello...I'm 18 years old and I've developed when I was pretty young, very quickly...therefore I have stretch marks on my breasts...they're reasonably big. I was wondering, are you guys grossed out by those stretch marks? :confused: have you ever came across those on women's breasts? my last boyfriend (he was my first boyfriend also) didn't seem to mind, he said he loved my breasts, but i kept feeling self conscious about it, begging to keep my bra on... So guys, how do you feel about those? I'd appreciate both young and older men's opinions, since I'd assume older men's opinion is a result of seeing all kinds of shapes and are more forgiving and understanding. Thanks!!
(I'm more relaxed when the lights are off but sometimes its nicer when its on! :o )

[kleclere]

Stretch marks are a part of life for a woman. I like them on breasts and stomachs. I'm an older fellow but you have to love yourself and enjoy what god gave you. Don't be afraid of the light don't fear your body. Ken

[skipthisone]

I understand it is very hard for a woman to go through life without getting any marks. So who am I to consider them unattractive. Just another part of the beauty of what is woman for me to take in.

[south]

I don't know let's see them? "Qual deres demonstandum"(sp)

[Boru]

I had a girlfriend once who was quite petite and had a large baby. Result - stretch marks! I thought they were the coolest things in the world! They looked like tiger stripes! Very sexy.

BORU

[King's Jester]

I'm a woman, but my boyfriend was once a very large man. He lost a lot of weight, and he has stretch marks now, and to me, they're just one more thing that makes him perfect in my eyes. I love them. And like you, (I'm 18 with large breasts that seemed to sprout overnight) I have stretch marks, but their not dark and just on the underside. I love them, and he loves them, so it's all cool! Don't ever hide your body!!!!!!!!!

[Wisper]

Vampiress~~I know how you feel...i have stretch marks on my breasts too....my b/f doesnt know b/c im self consious in general and he hasnt seen me naked in light....but boobs are his favorite part so i dunno whats going to happen......hell with recent events we might not even be together within the next week....which will be devastating for me...i really hope i dont loose him but i think i might

good luck

[vampiress]

Thank you all very much for your answers, it seems like guys in reality are much more forgiving than what we girls think... almost like we are self conscious about things they don't even pay attention to! :) anyway...hopefully my next boyfriend will be as understanding and will make me feel comfortable with myself.

I hope you and your boyfriend will work things out...always remember there's a whole bunch of other great guys who's love to have you!

[vampiress]

Thank you all... :) I accidently posted a reply as a new thread...sorry about that, still new at all this. so you can read my reply as the "THANKS!" new thread!

[vampiress]

woops that was meant to be a reply in my "stretch marks" message! sorry!

[BIBI]

Let's see......something I know about! Stretch marks!
Have them on my breasts from nursing my children and of course on my tummy from being pregnant with them......I call them my children's life lines.....for their nourishment came from within while they were inside of me and from my breasts once born. Seems to me there are far too many airbrushes at work when we see pictures in magazines and such......not too many don't have stretch marks!!! Just my two cents worth lol.

[katekate42]

Hey, every woman gets them! I say that scars, stretch marks, and every little such change the body goes through are akin to the pages of a diary- it just goes to show that your body is well loved and lived in :) Only those who don't enjoy their bodies and lives are the ones who maintain "perfection," and any man who doesn't see the beauty in your body and soul doesn't deserve it.

[Uncle Silky]

titties is titties. so long as ya got em, they're fine.

[Clint]

Cocoa Butter...........works pretty well I hear, too.

*Clint

[Christine]

I have a few on my upper thighs...none from my pregnancy strangely enough, but from losing quite a lot of weight in my early 20's. So they're there...if the men I've been with have noticed them, they haven't mentioned it. One guy was tracing them with his finger once while we were lying in bed, and I asked him if he liked my stretch marks. "Oh is that what they're called," he replied. So since then, if my flaws go unnoticed, who am I to point them out to anyone? :D

Sooner or later we all get stretch marks, scars, or other evidence on our bodies that we have really lived, and if someone thinks that's a turn-off then maybe their feelings for you doesn't run too deep either. Anyway, the real world isn't airbrushed thank god, and I think most of us realize and appreciate that.

[Lilith]

God we really have the smartest most wonderful women here............excellent answers!

[Wisper]

yep, we rock!

[Steph]

My guy has stretch marks, too. I don't think I would have noticed them if he hadn't pointed them out. Love is blind? :)

[Vintage Vixen]

Originally posted by katekate42
Hey, every woman gets them! I say that scars, stretch marks, and every little such change the body goes through are akin to the pages of a diary- it just goes to show that your body is well loved and lived in :) Only those who don't enjoy their bodies and lives are the ones who maintain "perfection," and any man who doesn't see the beauty in your body and soul doesn't deserve it.


Couldn't have said it better...i have quite a large scare on my stomach from surgery ...and stretch marks from having 2 large babies.Gaining lots of weight and now losing makes them a lot more visible but hey this is me ...and if they don't like it their loss.

[BamaKyttn]

I have stretchmarks, I'm over them, but I have a scar on my right wrist now in the shape of a cresent, and one that I see every time I shave my pubic area, I had a hernia in high school from weight lifting.... 100# jerk and clean on a 110# body, no good. I'm a bit ashamed of them.

[A.K.'s Sex-Pot]

I have stretch marks on my breasts which developed when I was a teenager and my breasts appeared somewhat instantaneously.

They were very red and noticeable when I first had them and I was painfully self-conscious about them (as well as being self conscious about their size) but I PROMISE you that they'll fade with time and you'll be left with little silvery mrks which only show in certian lights and angles.

And I've never had a guy comment on them, so I assume that's a good thing! :)

Proof? Look carefully towards the top of my breasts and you can see them, but I doubt you'd have noticed if I hadn't pointed them out.

[Oldfart]

AKSP

Lovely tits, now what's this about stretch marks?

Seriously, every day leaves it's little dings, and the people who

try to erase them or deny them aren't accepting their importance

in reminding us where and when we've been.

If a stretch mark or scar is the single thing on which a relationship

hinges, it's shallower than a dry saucer.

[kendyyz]

vampiress
Don't worry.:) From my point of view it's just adds to the natural beauty of a woman's body. When i was younger i didn't think about it to much but now that im getting older all them things just adds to the shape of her body. If a guy complains that he don't like your breast because of that, he would be pretty inmature. You have to take the total package not just part of it.:)

[legend]

if everything was perfect, it would get boring.... :)

[Nice Guy]

Well for me stretch marks are nothing to be bothered by. I cannot expect something of someone if I can't do the samething myself. I have stretch marks(thanks to a slightly larger then normal stomach). No big deal.

[LixyChick]

Arrrrrrrrrgggggggg!

Really touchy subject for me.......but I am so pleased to read these answers.

Makes a girl re-think a thing or two!

Great answers everyone!..........Just wish I could feel the same way. Long story behind that response............maybe someday I'll share it.

[south]

marks? what marks? I was too busy looking at a terrific rack. Sorry if I didn't notice..

[dm383]

Sooner or later we all get stretch marks, scars, or other evidence on our bodies that we have really lived, and if someone thinks that's a turn-off then maybe their feelings for you doesn't run too deep either. Anyway, the real world isn't airbrushed thank god, and I think most of us realize and appreciate that.

I have stretchmarks, I'm over them, but I have a scar on my right wrist now in the shape of a cresent, and one that I see every time I shave my pubic area, I had a hernia in high school from weight lifting.... 100# jerk and clean on a 110# body, no good. I'm a bit ashamed of them.

BamaKyttn, please don't be ashamed of ANY part of you, whatever it might be! I'm not normally a great "quoter", but I agree 110% with Christine (& others) on this subject ~ any marks, scars, tat's, whatever a person has are just a small part of what makes you YOU!
I have scars all over from my time in the army, from accidents and just living; I have stretch marks from training too hard when I was younger, and I have 4 tattoos - I CHOSE them, but they're no different to me than any other marks on my body.
The way I see it, every mark on a person is also a memory; part of what makes you YOU, no matter how painful it may have been at the time, and just as much as memories or experiences are what made you the person you are today; only difference is, the memories don't show!
Sorry to go on so much ~ I'll shut up now, and go away!!

DM

[ericthered]

Statuesque, AKSP, statuesque. Wish I could play with them.

[A.K.'s Sex-Pot]

Ericthered - I'm sure they'd like that. ;)

[true_casanova]

to the thread starter

at you age your skin has a great deal of skin elasticity remaining. those marks will fade, adn probably go away entirely - and it shouldn even take a terribly amount of time w/ a moderate amount of exercise, and a healthy diet

also - i cant imagine they would be unattractive. they are a part of life. you are a person -a beautiful one - so basically, i'm saying, all around - no worries