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Pussy Willow
10-20-2002, 03:46 PM
Do you like to make love in the dark or with the lights on ??

Hubby would prefer the lights on, I myself like it better in the
dark. He usually defers to me on this subject.

What about the rest or ya'll ? And Why ????
SilverFianna
10-20-2002, 03:54 PM
The guy is going to like the lights on, simply because he (I) want to be able to see his lover. I know I love seeing my g/f. The woman seems to want the lights off, wanting to be able to shut out sight as a sense in order to increase touch. At least, that's my thoughts.....
Wildeye
10-20-2002, 04:25 PM
Both

someimes spouse wants lights on and other times off, or even subtle lighting.

i do like to see her body, but that does not need spotlights.

A.
tye14
10-20-2002, 07:11 PM
me & the wife likes it either way - depends on the mood
MurphySprinkles
10-20-2002, 07:14 PM
Whichever way the lights happen to be when we have means, motive, and opportunity
nicocujo
10-20-2002, 07:32 PM
We usually light some candles. Not too bright, just subtle.
ericthered
10-20-2002, 09:44 PM
Dear PussyWillow,

"Hubby would prefer the lights on, I myself like it better in the
dark. He usually defers to me on this subject." Well, he would, wouldn't he? After all, he's married and knows very well who's the boss.

I like some lighting but not enough to shine in our eyes. I like looking as well as licking - mmh! And besides, if you have ever watched a woman coming and felt "Wow - did I do that?" you'll know what a gift it is.

All of which reminds me of a very tasteless joke (not at all applicable to PussyWillow or any other Pixie lady).

Q: Why to married women make love in the dark?
A: Because they can stand to see their husbands having a good time.
six
10-20-2002, 09:54 PM
Either. Sometimes the sight of each other is very erotic initself. With the lights off, I focus more on the sounds and sensations....
Sharni
10-20-2002, 11:00 PM
Do it with lights on and off

But....I'm not happy with my body image....and until i reach the image i want...definately more comfortable with them off
SexAngel69
10-21-2002, 04:01 AM
I love the lights off.....It makes it hot for me the dark.:redghost:
dicksbro
10-21-2002, 05:31 AM
Pussy Willow: "Do you like to make love in the dark or with the lights on ?? "

Yes, I do. I also like it when they, the lights, are only dimmed. :D :D
Lilith
10-21-2002, 06:20 AM
A little bit of both..pitch black, groping for eachother in the darkness and indirect light, unless of course it's daytime or I am in the middle of a stadium:D:D:p
skipthisone
10-21-2002, 08:40 AM
Its not as a simple as light and dark, the black middle of the night is great, but then the addition of just one simple candle can make all the difference. But we cannot forget about the brightly lit bedroom for the quicky on saturday afternoon.
Oldfart
10-21-2002, 08:52 AM
I am a fan of the single candle,

but like most will defer to the moment.
Dimplesguy
10-21-2002, 09:06 AM
Candle light....something about shadows on the wall. Very sensual.
Summer
10-21-2002, 01:18 PM
Both ways. Lights on and lights off!!! My personal favorite is the strob light effect (on off on off on off on off on off-very fast) hehe
-Summer :D
skipthisone
10-21-2002, 01:25 PM
For everything you read in real life, pixies seems to be opposite, the men here seem to be the romantic ones and the women the horn-dogs...got nothing to say but...freaking awesome
uwish6969
10-21-2002, 01:32 PM
Originally posted by Sharniqua
Do it with lights on and off

But....I'm not happy with my body image....and until i reach the image i want...definately more comfortable with them off

I think you have a ver sexy bod.. I love plump women, women with curves. The kind where you can't see thier pelvic bones sticking out. No offense to tohse women who are buily like that though...
quisath
10-21-2002, 03:24 PM
Lights off or on? >>>>>>>>>>>>don't matter......................course my favorite is by Candle Light.
Lovediva
10-21-2002, 05:11 PM
If I plan on a nice romantic evening....it's candlelight all the way....
But otherwise...It really don't bother me if they are on or off...
Steph
10-23-2002, 10:40 AM
I guess I prefer them off, he prefers them on . . . I don't mind when they're on but sometimes it's just too damned bright!
Christine
10-23-2002, 12:53 PM
That's why they invented dimmers, Steph! :p
I have no preference...any kind of light is fine with me, but most of the time I want to see what's going on. Unless it's in the middle of the night and no one feels the urge to get out of bed to turn on the light.
SOULMINER
10-23-2002, 06:35 PM
Unless it's in the middle of the night and no one feels the urge to get out of bed to turn on the light.

Mmmmm...late night sleepy sex...I couldn't possibly agree with you more Christine...not one deep dark little bit :D
Midnight Kiss
10-23-2002, 07:14 PM
I tend to leave the bedroom curtains open so that it has a natural lighting by the moon stars and the drivebys, :) Perfer that type of lighting, but don't mind the soft background light. Though the s/o likes the over head lights left on.
A.K.'s Sex-Pot
10-26-2002, 05:03 PM
I'd rather have natural light than artificial and I'd say that I'm, happier with the lights off, apart from when it comes to a bit of exhibitionism.

Doesn't make much difference to me though because I pretty much always have my eyes shut!
Pussy Willow
10-26-2002, 07:08 PM
Sharni,

I agree that you a fantastic body. I am a comfortable size
14, but I like to wear size 12 when I'm feeling sexy, better
butt shaping........

Anyway, I think your beautiful !!!!!!!!
Kentuckyguy
10-27-2002, 07:33 PM
I like just the light from the sex movies on the TV
Lorelei
10-30-2002, 11:14 AM
ALWAYS lights on and with eyes open. IMO, all senses should be used to get the full joy of making love. Seeing, smelling, tasting, touching, hearing....It's all important! :D
Scarlett
10-31-2002, 02:09 PM
He would like the lights on. I prefer them off. I just bought a blacklite and we are leaving that on now as a compromise.