What's more intimate?

[RandyGal]

What do you think is more intimate?


Is it more intimate to have sex with someone or to sleep all night with someone?


I know what I think...what do YOU think? :D

[Ironwood]

I'll have to be vague again. I've had sex that wasn't as intimate as it should have been, and sleeping that was fairly innocent too(I didn't undress as much as normal). Usually both those things are intimate, at least when I do them.

[dannyk]

Sex with someone is fantastic, but the feeling of falling asleep in each others arms, and waking up next to each other... is not only intimate, but romantic as well. at least to me.
Plus, it's a lot more convenient than having to get dressed and leaving after sex! :p:p

[LixyChick]

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!

Thought about this a bit and this is what I came up with.......

This question is rather vague RG.......is this someone the same someone in both scenarios? Do I even really know this person? If I know this person for a while......just sleeping is not all that intimate to me as I must be just plain ole tired. If I just met him and we sleep (actual sleep) in the same bed I would have trouble getting to sleep wondering if HE is REALLY asleep or thinking what I am thinking. If I know him and we are having sex I consider that intimate but if I just met him and we jump right into bed (would never really happen) I would consider that the ultimate intimate!

OMGGGGGGG......if you think that sounds confusing........just know.....I made my own head spin completely around! LMAO!

[Lilith]

sleep.....no questions asked.... for me. I looooooove sleeping with my breasts pressed up against my man's back...skin on skin....legs entwined...or him wrapped around me...his hand resting on my breast...his breath slow and deep in my ear and on my hair..........mmmmmmmmmm....sleep is sooooo sexy;)

Sex is sexy too but your don't do it for 6-8 hours everyday......if you make your sleep sexy just imagine how sexy sex will be;)

[RandyGal]

ROTFLMAO @ lixychick!!


(typical reply from you too dearheart! LOL LOL)

(GOOD answer too, I might add...it does seem you've put some thought into this...LOTS of thought!)

I think sleeping and waking up with someone is FAR more intimate than having sex with them.
Waking up, legs tangled together, faces close...maybe watching the other one sleep......very very sexy and intimate! :D

[RandyGal]

GMTA Lilith....

seems we were on the same wavelength at the same time! :D

Are we cool beans or what?

[Lilith]

relationship~ waking up with someone in a puddle of drool and you laughing about it

intimacy~ not your puddle......LMAO :D:D:p

[axe31]

sleep for me too just lay there in each others arms
feel them next to you there fagrance all around you
the sound of them breathing till you drift off to blissful
slumber

[jennaflower]

yep... sleepin... definetly more intimate.. for all the reasons explained above... and more...

[starling]

going in the ass WHILE she was sleeping. i tell you, that was the MOST INTIMATE ever! she didn't even stir, it was so sweet ;)

[BlondeCurlGirl]

Waking up in someone's arms after a night together seems like one of the most perfect, intimate moments you can share with someone. I also enjoy what Lilith likes, the feeling of skin on skin, legs entwined, all that. Watching the other sleep before you wake them up with a deep kiss also just makes my morning that much better. :)

[dzbuster]

doesn't one naturally follow the other......lol. really though i'd have to say sleeping because for me to sleep there has to be the trust that she won't rob or hurt me while i'm defenseless while during sex i can see WHAT IS UP.

[Vintage Vixen]

Originally posted by dzbuster
doesn't one naturally follow the other......lol. really though i'd have to say sleeping because for me to sleep there has to be the trust that she won't rob or hurt me while i'm defenseless while during sex i can see WHAT IS UP.

Well if you don't know by now you never will....trust ummm lets see THINK about it.Damn if you're worried bout gettin robbed or hurt you sure as HELL AINT SLEEPIN WITH ME.

[Saddaddy]

Sleeping with another person is more intimate.

[LixyChick]

LMAO RG!

Waking next to someone brand new in my life with our faces facing one another........here's what I do in that situation....

*holding her breath so I don't smell his morning breath and he don't smell mine*.......I say "Good Morning baby.......Mmmmmmm (stretching and turning away from him) I'll be right back (as I jump outta bed) I have to pee honey!" And I am off to find a spare toothbrush and lots of minty toothpase......or just the Listerine if nothing else is available! ROFLMFAO!

Sexy imagery huh? Come on.....you all do it too!

[Murphy]

Definately falling asleep with someone - especially AFTER a good romp!

[Sugarsprinkles]

Originally posted by Murphy
Definately falling asleep with someone - especially AFTER a good romp!

I would have to agree wholeheartedly......it's just unfortunate not everyone has that luxury. :(;)

[Irish]

If it's your S/O;Waking up together;no question! Irish

[Booger]

sleeping togeather has to be more intimate for me.

waking up in some ones arms there is nothing better then that.

[quisath]

Define Sleeping?.............When I have slept .....it was brief and then we'd wake up and be back at it making sweet Love. Nap then wake and just explore for hours on end. Intimate is the Best word for sure.

[RandyGal]

quisath, here's the definition of sleeping honey.......


sleeping = Brief naps and then waking up and going back at it making sweet Love. Napping then waking and just exploring for hours on end.


Excellent definition if you ask me. :D

[quisath]

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh..................I knew that. :) Good thing I thought of that.

[Lovediva]

Sleeping.....zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

[Wisper]

i like sex, then falling asleep in my b/f arms....i think the two together are the most intamate