Blow Jobs

[jt2595]

I am in desperate need of some advice.
I have been married for 6 yrs and never had an real blow job.Maybe a suck here or there but nothing more. I need help. how or what can i say to her to convince her to do it. She says it taste bad even after i wash it. She hates the taste of precum. what can i do. :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused:

[Sharni]

Can't understand someone not wanting to suck cock to be honest *shakes head*

But i must add if she hates it that much there may not be a whole lot you can do....you cannot force someone to enjoy it

[Lilith]

If taste is the real problem have her suck an Altoid or cough drop before or during......

[Vintage Vixen]

My opinion if she dosen't like doing it i seriously doubt you will ever get her to.You may get a half ass ,sucky,blowjob but i bet you'll end up with an additude and a resentment on top of it.That really is to bad when one partner can't or won't please the other with good head...cuz there is nothing better.

[Quinda]

What about flavoured condoms? Ok, they don't taste great, but they might help, or the mint advice is good - you might enjoy the tingling sensation yourself too.

Just don't push it if she doesn't like it, if she tries, tell her you appreciate it, maybe she could get to like it.

[jt2595]

Thanks for all the advice. Is there some one out there willing to give a real good blowjob so i can feel what one feels like

[Ironwood]

I was going to post something helpful, but after that question, I don't see why I should.

[dannyk]

Try changing your diet, jt2595. Drink a lot of sweet fluids before, which supposedly (albeit slightly) alters the taste of your cum, and try covering your cock in something tasty. My preferences? Chocolate, whipped cream, or even a strong red wine! Good luck!

[Pussy Willow]

I didn't like giving blowjobs either, at first.

Hubby was very patient and loving. We started out very slowly
at first. I caressed it with my hand at first just to get used to the
feel of it. Then I licked just the head, we did this for a while before we went to licking the entire shaft. I used my hand as I
licked it. Then once he was nice and hard, I put just the tip in my
mouth while he massaged my pussy. That was it for me. I got
so hot from having him rubbing my clit and putting his fingers inside me that I found myself taking his entire length into my mouth and loving it. Now mutual oral sex is part of our normal
sex routine. Sometimes we get so into each other this way we
don't even want to fuck.

Just be loving, patient and gentle and move slowly and don't seem annoyed if she isn't successful, just keep trying.

Hope this helps !!!!!

[ericthered]

Oh, Pussy Willow, I love you.....

[Wildeye]

Can't make 'em do it

But consider this - she likes you? It helps make you feel great, no one gets hurt and you both feel better?

Could try the "Instinct" Guide to Going down (US Publisher) Very good book, with great humour about cock-sucking. Actually you need humour for this - serious stuff makes it a huge turn-off. And wash your cock, once its clean it has virtually no taste, Try to see if she would do 69..

Good luck

wildeye

[jburk4]

The lady I'm dating now LOVES to suck my cock.... she takes me all the way in... uses her tongue and closes her throat... she also wipes my cock head on her face and will tongue my head slit... but my former GF didn't like to do oral... So I would kneel next to her about breast level and play with her clit and pussy then her nipples... as she got hot and wanted to fuck I would then ask her to kiss the head of my dick before I entered her..... at first she wouldn't ,saying she didn't like it (of course I would do oral on her) but after a month or two she started to kiss my dick... Everyonce in a while I would ask her for a little bigger kiss and finally I asked her to open her lips a little... it took a few more months but then she started to open up and take my dick in her mouth.... It BJ wasn't a true BJ but she at least got that far.... Best, jb

[sn250s]

My wife doesn't like the taste of cum. It's such a turn-off for her that it's a turn-off for me. She had the opinion that you can't just lick and suck my penis a bit and then move on. She was thinking that you always had to drive me to cum.

Over the last eight years I've got her convinced that it's okay to lick a little. Make it feel good. Suck a little. Have fun. If you don't like cum then don't let me cum in your mouth. No problem. I've found I really like the tease.

Plus nothing feels better than being in her - after I've licked her to cum - while I work her nipples so she's tight. Better than oral in my book.